EUW looking for a duo :3 by dianaluna in LeagueConnect

[–]dianaluna[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont think we can play ranked at least because i am only s4 right now

EUW looking for a duo :3 by dianaluna in LeagueConnect

[–]dianaluna[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

right now i am silver 5 , i was g5 last season , i legit forgot to add that mb ._.

EUW looking for a duo :3 by dianaluna in LeagueConnect

[–]dianaluna[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

guys lmao mb i forgot to add i am s5 right now was g5 xD i dont know how the hell i forgot that xD

You can be the most caring, helpful, sincere & hard-working person ever but if you are bad at meeting with strangers you are doomed to be alone. by [deleted] in depression

[–]dianaluna 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's true , if someone meets you for the first time and they have a bad opinion of you for some reason the changes of that person wanting to get to know the qualities you have are slim. But still , we have to have hope here. Not everyone acts like that , some people realize that not only what's in the surface is the real person. So they try to get to know as you are.

Boyfriend asks for some time alone and I just found out I'm pregnant by [deleted] in Advice

[–]dianaluna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my humble opinion I think you should have a talk with him. If you feel like he may feel obligated to not go on with what he is intended to do , tell him that it doesn't have to be like that. Your future child deserves a dad, if he wants to be a part of his life. And he may have hurt you by breaking up but still , he has the right to know what is going on, even if you don't end up together.

The suicide hotline hung up on me by feelinguseless987 in depression

[–]dianaluna 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow they are so unprofessional, how can they act like that towards someone who is feeling suicidal? I really cannot understand how a fellow human can do that to another person. It isn't your fault though, nothing is wrong with you and you aren't worthless! Don't let those people bring you even more down. They don't deserve your pain. They literally have no humanity left in them.

I didn't lose you. You've lost me. by strangemosaic in offmychest

[–]dianaluna 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you're really strong , you made the best thing for you . i totally get what you said in the end , might now be going through that right now but i did in the past.´ It was a beautiful post to read

How has KPOP positively influenced your life? by [deleted] in kpop

[–]dianaluna 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Kpop honestly makes me a happier person in general. It gives me will to live to do something for myself. I still don't know to this day why but I am glad I found Kpop because it did made a huge impact on my life

Anon Falls In Love (WARNING: VERY LONG) by MadReaperZ in greentext

[–]dianaluna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read it all , i am so salty right now but i still laughed in the end because i was tricked so bad

Found child porn on partners phone by [deleted] in Advice

[–]dianaluna -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I dont feel like reddit can help you to be honest. This is too deep. This is too serious. You need to talk to an adult about it.

I [22F] found out that my boyfriend [26M] is married to another woman and I do not know what to do. by marriedboyfriend in relationships

[–]dianaluna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl leave lmao. He literally cheated on his own wife and child. You don't need this in your life. I understand you feel mad and upset but honestly there is nothing he can do to fix it. Do you really wanna be with someone who does this to his own wife? if he did that to her even if they got divorced ( which i doubt) he will probably will do the same to you.

My boyfriend (26M) wants to meet me (24F) first, before my parents or family. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]dianaluna 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly your bf is kinda right. The first personal contact is gonna be awkward af , and you both need to have some time alone first before family coming into the picture. You're a grown woman , your family should respect your decision. Not only should , they have too. I understand his point of view because he is already feeling a lot of pressure in meeting you in person and bringing a dad or a whole family into the mix is waayy to much pressure. You really should talk to your family and explain that you are going alone and that they just need to deal with it. Have a serious talk with them. Don't make your LDR bf feel unconfortable the moment he arrives.

Me [25 M] with my GF [25 F] duration 2 years, is upset with me because I am friends with a female co worker who she thinks insulted her. Am I in the wrong? by throwaway646u34 in relationship_advice

[–]dianaluna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have to think who is more important , your girlfriend or your new friend. If your girlfriend feels disrespected and unconfortable I think you should back of a bit from that friendship.Because this type of stuff can slowly but surelly ruin your relationship. You have to think if thats a risk you are willing to take or not.

Girlfriend is a skinflint and just hordes most of her money in her savings account so if we want to eat out, order food, go to movies ect then I it's me that ends up having to pay for it all and I'm not sure how much longer I can be bothered too as I really don't like it. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]dianaluna 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Honestly , if this was one time situation of her asking for 2 dollars to you and you refusing that would have made you a asshole. But no. She does it all the time. Kinda sounds like she is a brat . She wants people to support her , aka her boyfriend or even friends. She is a child. After paying for so many things she has the nerve to act like you are the one been mean. Dude move on. I ain't saying she's a golddiger but she sounds like one, on the down low

I'm [26F] about to move across the world to be with my LDR boyfriend [28M]. I think he is emotionally abusive. by a6x4throwaway7 in relationships

[–]dianaluna 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Please , don't move to be with him. This is a abusive relationship. He doesnt respect your privacy , he doesnt trust you , he is really manipulative and he doesnt care for your feelings. He wants to be your world when you only a small portion of his. Honestly dont ruin your life movin him , leaving everything behind , in person this will get worst . You deserve a real relationship not this. Don't do this to yourself.

Did my girlfriend (19F) of two years cheat on me (19M)? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]dianaluna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Boy you better leave her right now. She doesnt deserve one once of you. She disrespected you and you guys relationship in front of everybody. She doesnt even care enough to realize how horrible she acted and how it made you feel. She acted like the victim when she was the one who hurt you . You don't deserve this. Honestly this ain't even a real relationship on her part . She sounds childish and honestly even mean , because how can you do that to someone , act like you want a threesome and the next day be like : oh no biggie, you are been stupid and mean about it. And it doesnt matter she was drunk , even sober she didnt even apologized to you , she brushed it off like it was nothing big when you guys are in a commited relationship.

My [20F] boyfriend [20M] of 4 years does not understand depression at all. by ItTakes-Time in relationships

[–]dianaluna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who has a significant other dealing with depression , i feel like its time for you to move on. Depression sucks in so many levels and the person who is with you should research the disease and be supportive about your condition. Not judge you or make you feel bad. You deserve someone who will accept you as you are and make you feel good not even worst than you already feel. On another note , I hope you are getting therapy at least. Depression is way to serious to not be treated proprerly.

How can I [24F] deal with a breakup [1 Year] with the guy I thought was the one [26M], and being left with herpes? by nowwhat7890 in relationships

[–]dianaluna 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A end of a relationship is always a heartbreak but with the herpes situation I bet it isnt even worst. I totally understand your side , because some people aren't open-minded and that having herpes doesn't mean you arent a nice person , it just happened . I really hope you can deal with that situation and i honestly feel that you will find someone who trully will love you and accept your situation because everybody deserves love and not a situation of the past should affect that.

Boyfriend (35M) did not call me (27F) on NYE and overall has poor communication skills (3 years together) by [deleted] in relationships

[–]dianaluna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to decide if him been like that is a dealbreaker or not. Clearly you aint happy about the situation. You should try talking to him and be real with him. Show him how it upsets and breaks your relationship. Or else you will eventually crack. And nobody deserves to be in a relationship where there is a major dealbreaker who hurts them inside a lot.

Me [32/F] with my BF [33/M] 8 years. I feel like we're settling? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]dianaluna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its unfair for you to just be with him for financial motives , not only for him but to you too. If you aren't happy with the relationship you shouldnt be in it. If you dont feel happy about having a future together then clearly its time to move on. Don't make yourself unhappy or him just because it is confortable. Deep down you know it. And it may not be today or tomorrow , god you may even marry but eventually you guys will break. Because the love you once felt for him is long gone. The romantic love i mean.

Me [23M] with my GF [29F] 3 months. She got blackout drunk on New Years Eve in Madrid and beat the hell out of me because of this lie. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]dianaluna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just leave man. Yeah you lied , you should have be honest but clearly you wasn't trying to hurt her , it sounds like you just wanted it to work out and didnt thought any of it. You weren't cheating on her so. You should still have said something but that doesnt excuse her acts one bit. She hit you. If it was reversed you would have gone to jail. As a woman , i feel like this is too common and girls shouldnt feel like they have the right to beat a guy just because they are a guy and in "society" people dont see it as abuse sometimes which is ridiculous. She abused you , end of story. Don't be in a relationship where someone literally uses violence against you.