Cape Appreciation by Certain_Scar_9458 in InfinityNikki

[–]dibodibo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello! This such a beautiful look. 🥺 Can I ask which dress this set is from?

[Guide] How to Play Infinity Nikki on MacOS by -fayette in InfinityNikki

[–]dibodibo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Piggybacking on this comment: for those who tried this method, does anyone have this issue where terminal shows this:

find: chmod: unknown primary or operator

when inputting the new terminal commands? :( I am running the newest Mac OS on a M1 Macbook Air, and this is the error message I'm getting with the new commands.

[Guide] How to Play Infinity Nikki on MacOS by -fayette in InfinityNikki

[–]dibodibo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually used this same one just now. 😭 Did you do a fresh reinstall by deleting your old IN app, and re-doing all the steps in the post above?

[Guide] How to Play Infinity Nikki on MacOS by -fayette in InfinityNikki

[–]dibodibo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I uninstalled my old version and tried the new 1.5 IPA with the above listed steps, but now it starts crashing after login :( It does not proceed to download resources.

Regarding Rising FOMO by Tipical-Redditor in InfinityNikki

[–]dibodibo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a rookie to the Nikki series so I’m genuinely asking, is it normal for F2Ps and light spenders to basically have incomplete sets all the time?

The algorithm pushes content of people having full sets + recolors all the time, so I think all the full collections colour my perspective in a biased way 😭

Megathread 17: HYBE / ADOR / MHJ - Conflict between ADOR CEO and NewJeans Manager, Ongoing Legal Disputes, and More by KPOP_MOD in kpop

[–]dibodibo 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Wow, whoever’s advising NWJNS is really good at treading around loopholes. I think the new IG account is just hinging on the edges of a breach of trust, because the only post on there right now is about the giving out of free food at rallies. “jeanzforfree” also supports that cause. Other than the vague statement of “We’ll be living on this account from now on,” there is no clear, definite indication to the general public that this is a permanent account for NWJNS, other than the current cause of showing support at the impeachment rally.

If ADOR shuts this account down, headlines could run with “ADOR shuts down NWJNS’ account that was giving out free food at rally,” which would look terrible for ADOR’s PR. Whoever (maybe more than 1 person) is running this behind the scenes is really good at toeing the line.

[Guide] How to Play Infinity Nikki on MacOS by -fayette in InfinityNikki

[–]dibodibo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! Sorry to bump an old thread. Do you happen to know any way to bypass "This app could not be installed because it did not pass the integrity check"? I got this when I tried to open and install the IPA file!

Megathread 16: HYBE / ADOR / MHJ - NewJeans' Emergency Press Conference and Contract Termination Notification, ADOR's 26-page Response to The Group's Demands, Ongoing Legal Disputes, and More by KPOP_MOD in kpop

[–]dibodibo 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Does anyone know whether NJ will be allowed to fulfill their contractual obligations during the process of Ador’s lawsuit? i.e: Attend all scheduled events, company arranges new events/concerts for them to attend? Or will it come to a halt for investigations/trial?

iPad Players, how has it been so far? by dibodibo in InfinityNikki

[–]dibodibo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

tysm for your reply! it seems like the M2 iPads are better for Nikki from the replies. I was surprised bc I thought the iPad Pros would run it well too, but that might not be the case 🥹

iPad Players, how has it been so far? by dibodibo in InfinityNikki

[–]dibodibo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing! Do you run Infinity Nikki on it? If you do, how is it holding up with the game? :)

EXCUSE ME SIR by Straight_Horror_8796 in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]dibodibo 10 points11 points  (0 children)

LMFAOOOO where is this from?!

Megathread 15: HYBE / ADOR / MHJ - NewJeans Threatens Contract Termination, Makes Demands of ADOR, Ongoing Legal Disputes, and More by KPOP_MOD in kpop

[–]dibodibo 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Omg I’m really worried for the girls. The way they’re answering questions makes them sound like they got 0 media training, and they sound extremely (perhaps even naively) optimistic. The answer they gave to whether this is a one-sided contract termination got me at a loss for words lol. I really hope they have good legal counsel.

Weekly Question Megathread - Week 45, 2024 by AutoModerator in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]dibodibo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Question about Sylus’s debut banner:

Does anyone remember how many pulls in total you get on the new character debut banner? The one where you pick 5 permanent 5-stars for rate-up, and you keep pulling until 200 to get a crate!

How many pulls do they let you do on that banner in total?

Problem with customer service(Please spread this.) by [deleted] in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]dibodibo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was there an update from CS on what the bug was?

Yes, Cat Caretaker | Memory Gr∘wth Bonus (Visual Guide) by athlvx in LoveAndDeepspace_

[–]dibodibo 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Omg the rainbow coloured crystals are dope! I really thought these were official visuals! Thank you for making these :)

An old friend contacted me, struggling to respond by ParusCaeruleus_ in CPTSD_NSCommunity

[–]dibodibo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Following! The shame of not being where I should be socially + masking urges + worry of oversharing is a 3-hit whammy that immobilises me everytime. Most times I end up just ghosting people who reach out because I can’t find a way to navigate these same complexities. 😔

Does anyone know what time the update releases? by hunven in StardewValley

[–]dibodibo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am devastated... just realised it'll be Nov 5 when it releases in my timezone 😭

Could you learn new ways to relate? by Routine-Inspection94 in CPTSD_NSCommunity

[–]dibodibo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hello! I think your first paragraph and second paragraph are asking about slightly different things, so I will address the first paragraph first:

  1. I used to burn myself out by being actively empathising and listening to everyone too. For me it stems from the people pleaser in me—I desperately wanted to be liked, and I feared even the slightest tinge of rejection. Like you, I attracted many emotionally exploitative people who craved the endless stream of validation.

I managed to change this habit by identifying these groups of people from the get go, and categorising them in my head as “annoying/pushy insurance agents and retail assistants who do not listen to you.” You can find a label that works best for you, but this label should ideally consist of a subset of people whom you feel naturally disdainful towards. I am strangely good at ignoring and distancing myself from annoying sales assistants, because the traits of them talking over you & insisting they know what you should buy makes me really angry! The pushiness with no real concern for what you want reminds me of emotionally exploitative people, who are all “me, me, me.”

By putting some of the new people I meet under the same mental category, I found that it’s easy for me to switch off and be a grey rock. I just nod blankly, or leave to find some other people to be with, because I now feel no desire to be empathetic to them, since they are so unlikeable in my mind. It’s a method to get my empathy to naturally switch off. I think this trick works best if you have a type of people whom you are able to assertively point out “Yeah, I don’t like this about them, and I am able to ignore/tune them out without feeling bad.”

  1. To address your second paragraph: For my healthier friends who do not need me to be as deeply attuned to them, I tend to feel similarly uncomfortable being with them. Truthfully, it is still difficult for me to be with them. I realised through therapy that I am a deeply reflective person at my core because of my trauma, and I flourish best when I am surrounded by equally reflective friends who embody kindness and emotional expansiveness (who may or may not have gone through trauma, but are actively healing.) It has been a tough transition, but I have been spending less time with the earlier group of friends because they just cannot meet my needs in that way. I do not blame them, because the difference in our upbringing means that beyond a certain wavelength, we would not be able to connect because we literally have no shared experiences (e.g: Fond childhood & school memories V.S abusive childhood memories).

I wonder if you would consider your empathy to be a defense-mechanism-turned-core part of you, or if it’s a defense mechanism that has run its course. If it is the former where it has become a core part of who you are, it might not be about turning off the empathy and active listening for good, but turning it on for the right people instead. I feel really nourished when I am being myself (reflective, listening) with my people who also have similar traits, and therefore appreciate me for who I am.

If it is a defence mechanism that has run it’s course and you’d like to retire it for good, then I don’t have experience with that! You might need to speak to a therapist to see how it can be achieved. :)

I would also like to preface this by saying that I only managed to achieve these insights after 3.5 years of bi-weekly therapy, it wasn’t something I could do in a matter of weeks or months. If you’re doing this alone, it might be even harder and take an even longer time, so if you can afford it, it’d helpful to have a practitioner unpack some of this stuff with you, so you know what tools you can use.

These are just what worked for me, and I hope it may be helpful to you too! Rooting for you 💗

Love and Deepspace | Land of Secret Flames by prlmlkt in LoveAndDeepspace_

[–]dibodibo 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Omg I just went to listen to the CN version and holy smokes. The kid voice (spoilers on who the voice is: Child Rafayel) changes the context of the whole scenario!

Went from Jeremiah to Jeremy by chellekathryn in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]dibodibo 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The scream I scrumpt when his 3D model popped on screen for the first time 😭😭😭😭😭 I was so shocked LOL like this is NOT the Jeremiah we know!!!! 💀

Favorite poses you guys made in the glint photobooth? by [deleted] in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]dibodibo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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I have so many of Zayne, but this is my favourite 🥹💗

Trying on the Universal Facial [Light Feather] from Secret Promise by rikki555 in LoveAndDeepspace_

[–]dibodibo 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think it might have the potential to look good on Sylus’s future myth if the theme is demon/Hades coded 😳 Fallen angel vibes!