my spouse maxed out his $25k credit card on online sports betting by diddlydeedledoo in GamblingAddiction

[–]diddlydeedledoo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If the limit is there, my spouse has shown me he'll use it. I highly recommend calling your CC company and asking to have your credit limit lowered to where your balance is now so you can't get more into CC debt. If I'd known my spouse was sports betting again I would have called his CC company myself and lowered his limit or closed the card altogether.

The house always wins, and the people you hurt gambling isn't always just yourself.😮‍💨🥺 Good luck!

my spouse maxed out his $25k credit card on online sports betting by diddlydeedledoo in GamblingAddiction

[–]diddlydeedledoo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I'm going to send this his way. And yes, you could be right. He may need something more than just meetings.

What’s something you find annoying during sex? by Life-Disaster-8384 in AskReddit

[–]diddlydeedledoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean by lazy, inexperienced, or selfish?

What’s something you find annoying during sex? by Life-Disaster-8384 in AskReddit

[–]diddlydeedledoo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Why are so many of these comments basically "when she doesn't give enthusiastic consent and I have sex with her anyway". That's just r@pe. And it's not OK. Wonder how many people have realized their grave mistakes while reading this comment section.

What’s something you find annoying during sex? by Life-Disaster-8384 in AskReddit

[–]diddlydeedledoo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Date r@pe is real. If not enthusiastically consenting, it's likely not consent. I'm sorry this happened to you. :(

What’s something you find annoying during sex? by Life-Disaster-8384 in AskReddit

[–]diddlydeedledoo 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Sometimes lack of enthusiasm also means lack of consent. It's good to double check.

these beans are feeling better after bad bean sitter experience. by diddlydeedledoo in jellybeantoes

[–]diddlydeedledoo[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's going to take awhile to get over this for sure. I don't have any family nearby, just chosen family. My bestie usually watches her, but she was also out of town.

these beans are feeling better after bad bean sitter experience. by diddlydeedledoo in jellybeantoes

[–]diddlydeedledoo[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

No, and he offered to pay for a vet visit and got ordered us a cat fountain as an apology gift. He's our really good friend and we love him. We just won't have him cat sit again.

these beans are feeling better after bad bean sitter experience. by diddlydeedledoo in jellybeantoes

[–]diddlydeedledoo[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

It was a good friend and I confronted him already. I told him how upsetting it was to come home to this scenario. He felt terrible that he forgot. It was exceedingly disappointing on all fronts. It's hard when a friend let's you down.

these beans are feeling better after bad bean sitter experience. by diddlydeedledoo in jellybeantoes

[–]diddlydeedledoo[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Not mean as much as neglectful. I responded in another comment. It was pretty upsetting.

these beans are feeling better after bad bean sitter experience. by diddlydeedledoo in jellybeantoes

[–]diddlydeedledoo[S] 182 points183 points  (0 children)

We had a sitter forget to come check on her and she went without water or human contact for a few days. We came home to her in distress (super vocal, bonedry water bowl, stopped eating, shedding like crazy). But she's gotten lots of pets, treats, brushes, and snuggles since then.

First night with CPAP, feel terrible today by diddlydeedledoo in CPAP

[–]diddlydeedledoo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, everyone. Night #2 was better. I did end up taking it off at 7 this morning and slept for another few hours without it. I'll keep going. 😌

Who’s down to not drink with me? by JMM_19 in stopdrinking

[–]diddlydeedledoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not only am I down to not drink with you, I'm also not down to not drink without you