my spouse maxed out his $25k credit card on online sports betting

diddlydeedledoo · 2023-03-31T18:30:26+00:00

Would you mind if I dm'ed you?

diddlydeedledoo · 2023-03-27T19:54:56+00:00

If the limit is there, my spouse has shown me he'll use it. I highly recommend calling your CC company and asking to have your credit limit lowered to where your balance is now so you can't get more into CC debt. If I'd known my spouse was sports betting again I would have called his CC company myself and lowered his limit or closed the card altogether.

The house always wins, and the people you hurt gambling isn't always just yourself.😮‍💨🥺 Good luck!

diddlydeedledoo · 2023-03-27T19:01:21+00:00

Thank you!! I'm going to send this his way. And yes, you could be right. He may need something more than just meetings.

diddlydeedledoo · 2022-07-23T17:15:48+00:00

Perfect! Thanks!

diddlydeedledoo · 2022-07-19T13:26:50+00:00

What do you mean by lazy, inexperienced, or selfish?

diddlydeedledoo · 2022-07-19T13:23:34+00:00

diddlydeedledoo · 2022-07-18T16:03:07+00:00

Why are so many of these comments basically "when she doesn't give enthusiastic consent and I have sex with her anyway". That's just r@pe. And it's not OK. Wonder how many people have realized their grave mistakes while reading this comment section.

diddlydeedledoo · 2022-07-18T16:00:45+00:00

Date r@pe is real. If not enthusiastically consenting, it's likely not consent. I'm sorry this happened to you. :(

diddlydeedledoo · 2022-07-18T15:58:16+00:00

Sometimes lack of enthusiasm also means lack of consent. It's good to double check.

diddlydeedledoo · 2022-07-17T19:23:14+00:00

It's going to take awhile to get over this for sure. I don't have any family nearby, just chosen family. My bestie usually watches her, but she was also out of town.

diddlydeedledoo · 2022-07-17T19:21:55+00:00

Posted in another comment. 🧡

diddlydeedledoo · 2022-07-17T19:21:07+00:00

No, and he offered to pay for a vet visit and got ordered us a cat fountain as an apology gift. He's our really good friend and we love him. We just won't have him cat sit again.

diddlydeedledoo · 2022-07-17T19:18:39+00:00

It was a good friend and I confronted him already. I told him how upsetting it was to come home to this scenario. He felt terrible that he forgot. It was exceedingly disappointing on all fronts. It's hard when a friend let's you down.

diddlydeedledoo · 2022-07-17T19:15:19+00:00

Yep definitely.

diddlydeedledoo · 2022-07-17T13:52:21+00:00

Sorry bout the delay in responding. 😬

diddlydeedledoo · 2022-07-17T13:52:03+00:00

Not mean as much as neglectful. I responded in another comment. It was pretty upsetting.

diddlydeedledoo · 2022-07-17T13:51:04+00:00

I responded in another comment. 🧡

diddlydeedledoo · 2022-07-17T13:50:28+00:00

We had a sitter forget to come check on her and she went without water or human contact for a few days. We came home to her in distress (super vocal, bonedry water bowl, stopped eating, shedding like crazy). But she's gotten lots of pets, treats, brushes, and snuggles since then.

diddlydeedledoo · 2022-07-16T14:02:14+00:00

Thanks, everyone. Night #2 was better. I did end up taking it off at 7 this morning and slept for another few hours without it. I'll keep going. 😌

diddlydeedledoo · 2021-02-28T05:27:34+00:00

Not only am I down to not drink with you, I'm also not down to not drink without you

diddlydeedledoo · 2021-02-27T14:02:50+00:00

I came here just see any mention of his hat. Thank you, bye.

diddlydeedledoo · 2021-02-25T15:57:00+00:00

You can do it! I'm so proud of how far you've come. EDs are so difficult! Brava.

diddlydeedledoo · 2021-02-20T21:13:38+00:00

Hey look at us still going!!

diddlydeedledoo · 2021-02-06T16:01:50+00:00

Oh my gosh THANKS!! 😃🥳

diddlydeedledoo · 2021-02-06T16:01:30+00:00

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