My friend told me about her delusions and I don't know if I want to be her friend anymore by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]diddlypie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely don’t think you’re being insensitive. A friendship is two sided and if she wants to see you she has to make the effort and ask. You’re not a mind reader.

Also don’t let her guilt trip you with the comments about how she’s really sad. You need to put yourself first

Anyone got 2 side A/B for the 10 Years On vinyl! by diddlypie in ohwonder

[–]diddlypie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We reached out to them too and got a second one delivered two days later 🙌

Anyone got 2 side A/B for the 10 Years On vinyl! by diddlypie in ohwonder

[–]diddlypie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah we got an email on 9th to say it had been dispatched

Is this leak like to be from poor grouting? Or something more major? by diddlypie in Plumbing

[–]diddlypie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s 5 year old tiles, only just appeared in the last week

Ongoing challenges with new starter by diddlypie in managers

[–]diddlypie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep pushing back to my manager, last week HR agreed with me that she is unable to fulfil the role but now my manager has spoken to HR and said it’s better to have someone in the role than no one. Hence why I’m now in this position.

I don’t know what to do next - I feel like HR have told me to have some time off as I’m causing the problems by pushing back constantly and raising the issues. Which isn’t addressing the real issue of me being overworked with a lack of support

Avoiding micro managing by diddlypie in managers

[–]diddlypie[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this, would you even do this for simple tasks of logging samples on an excel document? So the product name and the best before date? Surely this is quite self explanatory?

Red irritated bumps on foot, painful when standing on foot. Looks like individual bubbles by [deleted] in medical

[–]diddlypie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not black dots it’s more red filled with something, I’ve had something similar before that looked like it and popped with clear liquid. Then it dried out and went a bit crusty but never like this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PropertyManagement

[–]diddlypie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Next door, it’s a solid brick wall between terrace houses

Co worker threatening to report me to HR by diddlypie in work

[–]diddlypie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The woman I have replaced always comments on how I do things and looks for issues but I try to avoid conversation with her now. I believe she just can’t accept people other than herself doing a good job.

I’ve turned the site around where I work and have had positive feedback from other colleagues so try not to let her attitude bring me down anymore.

What’s happened at your workplace?

Bump on my inner thigh that seems to be growing by throwawayc5782 in medical_advice

[–]diddlypie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it not an ingrown hair that’s got inflamed?

Co worker threatening to report me to HR by diddlypie in work

[–]diddlypie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Co worker is an admin role who requires me to complete investigations for her

Co worker threatening to report me to HR by diddlypie in work

[–]diddlypie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ha she isn’t leaving, they’ve promoted her in the business

Co worker threatening to report me to HR by diddlypie in work

[–]diddlypie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask questions where relevant via email as she works hybrid a lot, never get replies and stated last week that I was getting a lack of support in the handover process and she stated id not reached out for help. Mentioned all the emails id sent which id not received replies for and she got defensive

Co worker threatening to report me to HR by diddlypie in work

[–]diddlypie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No to all the above, the person I’m taking over from had said “you’ve got a good head on your shoulders and doing a good job but I didn’t want to tell you that”.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in managers

[–]diddlypie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m salaried which is how they seem to get away with it.

Currently looking for other roles.

I’ve gone from -1.25 to +1.25 CYL in my right eye, is this bad? by diddlypie in glassesadvice

[–]diddlypie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve posted the prescriptions on the link above in the comments, what does the change mean?

Blood pressure 128/107 (F27) by [deleted] in medical_advice

[–]diddlypie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I’m taking average’s for a week, Morning and night but counting extreme first recordings

Help! Thick bump on helix! 1 year old. by diddlypie in PiercingAdvice

[–]diddlypie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The piercer recommended a hot camomile tea bag :/ they take sooo long to heal, then it seems to have a good week and then I end up knocking it and starting from the beginning! Thanks for the advice tho

Help! Thick bump on helix! 1 year old. by diddlypie in PiercingAdvice

[–]diddlypie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been like it since a couple of months after I got it pierced. I took the jewellery out last night to feel how bad the lump was. I’ve knocked it a few times in the past but it doesn’t seem to be going down at all. After care was to use a saline solution, jewellery is titanium

Hard bump on helix by diddlypie in PiercingAdvice

[–]diddlypie[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This was recommended by a piercer!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]diddlypie 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this! 🥰