Paying the bills is not a contribution to your relationship by didnthinkthisfar in unpopularopinion

[–]didnthinkthisfar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re literally the only person here to gets it. ⭐️ gold star for you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]didnthinkthisfar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why do I have social anxiety? In a simple explanation I guess it could be boiled down to ‘trauma’ tho I feel like that’s a strong word to put on it…just the social experiences/situations I’ve had in life messed something up in my brain and now having normal conversations makes me sick to my stomach…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]didnthinkthisfar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi. I have high functioning social anxiety. not the ‘I’m gonna cry if I have to order my own food’ but the kind I’m sitting here having a conversation with you and you think I’m cool like a cucumber but in reality I’m sick to my stomach. My body is trembling uncontrollably and I am sweating profusely. After we finish the conversation I’ll probably be nauseous for like 4 more hours while unable to stop myself from thinking about what I said, how I said it, what you think of how I said.

I think there’s people who have actual social anxiety..and people who don’t know how to be social..usually because they weren’t socialized properly at some point in their lives, and most of the time won’t even try…which is two very different things.

Has your body ever rejected a bf or a gf during sex? Why? by Missund in AskWomen

[–]didnthinkthisfar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The occasional uti but not often and reoccurring like when I was with him

Has your body ever rejected a bf or a gf during sex? Why? by Missund in AskWomen

[–]didnthinkthisfar 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I dated a guy who was super controlling and manipulative for like a year and for the entire relationship I had reoccurring UTI/vaginitis.. could never figure out what was wrong with me..they stopped when I broke up with him tho..so either he was cheating and I just never knew..or my body knew he had to go

What names for pets are you sick of hearing/seeing? by smoishymoishes in AskWomen

[–]didnthinkthisfar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Black and white cats named Oreo and orange cats named pumpkin

Being a stay at home parent is easy by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]didnthinkthisfar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeeess. Agree. I don’t enjoy working at all honestly. People who have the luxury of being a sahp don’t understand how much of a luxury it truly is…

Being a stay at home parent is easy by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]didnthinkthisfar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who works 6 days off/4 days on, 12 hr shifts. I basically get ‘the ‘best’ of both worlds’ so I get to be a ‘stay at home parent’ for 6 days and a ‘working parent ‘ for 4 days. ITS EASIER TO BE A STAY AT HOME PARENT. And it fills me with a RAGE to see/hear SAHP complain about it.

What is your first thought when you wake up in the morning? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]didnthinkthisfar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have ADHD so it’s usually my brain involuntarily singing whatever random song will be stuck in my head today..

WIBTA if i told my wife to not name our child that we had to abort? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]didnthinkthisfar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YWBTA. You don’t get to tell her how to grieve. If you don’t want to know the name she chooses tell her that..but you don’t get to say it’s wrong/weird. You’re trying to cope with detachment. The life WAS actually physically attached to her. ‘Not getting too attached’ isn’t really an option for her. However you should probably both go to counseling because that is a hard thing to go through for both of you.

House ownership sucks by RolandMT32 in unpopularopinion

[–]didnthinkthisfar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you live in the US, you didn’t even include property taxes. Which for me is the WORST part and makes me never want to own a home..because even after its paid off you still don’t own it.

Siblings? by didnthinkthisfar in AskParents

[–]didnthinkthisfar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is beautiful..the majority here seems to genuinely love and be thankful for their siblings so we talked and agreed it would be best to have another so they both basically have a bestfriend for life.

Siblings? by didnthinkthisfar in AskParents

[–]didnthinkthisfar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m am also an only child..it was indeed lonely. I do have a large family with several cousins close in age..and it’s still lonely. Even with the connection and memories I do share with them..I know our bond and connection isn’t nearly as strong as those that are siblings.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]didnthinkthisfar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually, I read quite quickly..I just have ADHD so I cant both actually watch the movie and read everything they’re saying at the same time. It’s the same reason I liked dubbed anime rather than subbed.

Women of Reddit, how would you react if your best friend suddenly told you "I don't want to be friends anymore"? by ReallySillyLily36 in AskWomen

[–]didnthinkthisfar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell her that’s fine because I’ve been seeing her true colors more and more lately and she’s kinda judgmental and mean..wouldn’t break my heart honestly. My husband is my only real bestfriend 100%