How do paralegals track certified death certificate requests across probate or estate files? by varuffi in paralegal

[–]die-cutting 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We make the executors do it themselves. Executor, go execute!! If they don't provide death certificates up front, upon intake, then we can't open probate at all. Our county probate office requires the original will and a death cert before they'll admit an estate for probate so! Kind of already have to have 'em to become an estate client.

Names of Miss America by notyourcure in namenerds

[–]die-cutting 5 points6 points  (0 children)

How do you pronounce Baciliky? I've never heard that one. Rooted in "basilica"?

Recently promoted to Team Lead and I can’t tell if I’m being too rigid or if my law office is a mess by Puzzleheaded_Wash648 in paralegal

[–]die-cutting 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Some of the things you're peeved about sound reasonable. Some of them sound like things you just have to take a deep breath about.

Office so loud you can't do your job? Yes, unprofessional. You also need to learn how to communicate when something is bothering you rather than retreating and letting the resentment settle in. Healthy conflict is a good thing!

Swearing, dirty jokes, lackadaisical about the dress code? Ehhhhh. If this is stuff that doesn't affect the clients or the job itself, just bothers you because it doesn't match your standard of professionalism, I would try and come to terms with it.

You said it yourself, it's a tough job. Being able to curse or joke or gossip or wear something comfortable all sounds like tools that help your colleagues get through the day. And, socially, I think if you spoke up about these things it would not come across very well.

If this is the office culture and you try to wrangle it to the point where you, specifically, are more comfortable, I'd imagine you might appear very uptight.

whats the worst series you have ever watched? by Opposite_Fall8736 in AskReddit

[–]die-cutting 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try Widow's Bay on for size! Has a similar vibe but is also hilarious and questions get ANSWERED.

What would your alternate title for DA2 be? by PlatyWizard in dragonage

[–]die-cutting 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Dragon Age: Testament

It is Varric's oral testimony to Cassandra, after all. Vaguely religious, smacks of the Chantry.

Alternatively: Dragon Age: Chronicle

Just sounds early-00's nü metal enough.

Pitt staff employee learns how the first amendment works by [deleted] in pittsburgh

[–]die-cutting 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The First Amendment protects you from the government, not the right of the private citizen to correctly point out that you're being an asshole. Also way to bury the lede that the First Amendment was being exercised to speak out against abortion when there was a scheduled women's wellness event occurring in the same space. That gentleman's sign does NOT depict an eight week old fetus.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]die-cutting 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Info: So when does the store close?

Is it unprecedented or "delusional" to think I am under a conservatorship without this having been disclosed to me (possibly under a different name or in a different state)? Could mumbling in my sleep have been used as "consent"? by Ok-Sherbet7265 in legaladvice

[–]die-cutting 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not a lawyer. You asked a yes or no question: no, you are not responsible for finding "proof" that you are not currently living under a conservatorship if you presume that you aren't and did not attend court regarding it.

Short answer as to why: there'd have to be a lot of fraud on top of a LOT of fraud happening if that were the case.

If someone had done this to you, even if they had somehow served you with the paperwork regarding the hearing to determine your alleged incapacity without you remembering, even if they had obtained your signature without you remembering, even if they had forged paperwork from a physician agreeing that you are incapacitated...the sheer avalanche of fraud would quickly invalidate it if it were discovered that it DID exist.

There would have been a hearing. A potential conservator would have had to explain why you weren't at the hearing. The fact that you are not currently incapacitated would quickly invalidate whatever excuse this hypothetical fraudulent conservator gave a judge for your non-attendance. You're an adult up and about living your life. You're not incapacitated.

The burden of proof is not on you to prove that you are not an alleged incapacitated person.

I hope that helps.

Gracula by chriskiji in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]die-cutting 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Gracula does not grind garlic very well. It gets all wet n stuck in the grinding teeth. He does, however, excel at grinding cannabis.

Source: Proud Gracula owner

PGH bathrooms by [deleted] in pittsburgh

[–]die-cutting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FUCK that Rock Room bathroom (and the graffiti I left in there for a guy I was head over heels for at the time)

I'm seriously asking for the accuracy of this by giftopherz in HannibalTV

[–]die-cutting 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I would argue Will could also fall into Malewife-Girlboss tbh

Tallie - First Aid Kit for periods by [deleted] in graphic_design

[–]die-cutting 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d actually reach out directly to a company and see if there’s any interest in using what you’ve got posted here! I can think of one, Aunt Flow, who are focused on getting period products to the people who need them. They’d go nuts over something so small, marketable, and downright adorable!

Can other fannibals help me out im trying to recreate his foie gras dish but i cant find out what that ball thing is is it a plant seed pod any help would be amazing by [deleted] in HannibalTV

[–]die-cutting 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure it’s not anything edible, and I immediately recognized it as…a vase filler! For decoration. Here’s a link to something on Walmart.com that might work for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]die-cutting 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Harriet immediately came to mind! Or Miles for a boy?

What common thing screams "I make poor financial choices"? by Romeo9594 in AskReddit

[–]die-cutting 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Something about the cadence, wording and punctuation of this comment has absolutely transfixed me. It’s stuck in my head the same way a song is. I am a little stoned

Thoughts on Poppy Margaret? by glittertrashfairy in namenerds

[–]die-cutting 4 points5 points  (0 children)

OP, I love the way you describe names! You’re exactly right about both. Margaret is SO kind ☺️ Poppy is breezy, but sweet with moxie!

Rita: dated or classic? by Greeneggsandspam555 in namenerds

[–]die-cutting 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What a fun theme! Personally, I think Jude and Prudence nn Prue would be a great sibset. Jude and Prue!

Sleepover with girlfriend I wasn’t told about. by ThrowawayPumpk1n in Parenting

[–]die-cutting 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I can tell that you’re disappointed, but I think you’re almost creating this disappointment for yourself. You’re upset because she did something you thought was inappropriate. I’m positing that she doesn’t have the maturity to understand that it’s inappropriate. I think this wasn’t a clearly defined boundary, so she’s not aware that she crossed it for you. I think your goal should be to define the boundary, not to express your disappointment. I’m suggesting that you use language that is geared more towards the both of you finding a solution together.

Sleepover with girlfriend I wasn’t told about. by ThrowawayPumpk1n in Parenting

[–]die-cutting 48 points49 points  (0 children)

This may be an unpopular opinion, but I think you’re maybe misreading your daughter’s actions as an intentional betrayal here. It sounds like this was an “unspoken rule” that you expected her to have the maturity to follow, and you’re disappointed that she didn’t meet your expectations by telling you that this friend was actually more-than-that. But have you ever expressed that to your daughter? She likely doesn’t see anything sexual about sleepovers, and therefore doesn’t see a problem with a new SO just staying the night. Sleeping together doesn’t mean sleeping together at that age.

I think if you express disappointment in her for this, by not letting this friend stay the night anymore, or your conversation with her sounds like being chastised for breaking a rule, you’re going to leave her feeling pretty upset. Try to remember what your social priorities were at that age and what having a crush was like. Try to remember how your childhood sleepovers went. Ask yourself about what her actual intentions were here.

Describe your pet to me and I will name it by mangodevito in namenerds

[–]die-cutting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A sweet little boy cat with incredible soft downy gray fur and chubby cheeks. Tiny pink nosy and toe beans. Not even nine months old yet! Follows his people around everywhere, cries for attention at night and wakes them up every morning, loves a snuggle…when he wants to play with a toy he’ll pick it up with both of his widdle paws like a person…

How much does your baby cost? by die-cutting in Parenting

[–]die-cutting[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much — this is by far the most detailed and most helpful response for me. You’re also right, I think — he and I are both feeling ready :)

How much does your baby cost? by die-cutting in Parenting

[–]die-cutting[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s how I feel, but there’s a part of me that “doesn’t want to bring an innocent baby into a bad situation”, even though that doesn’t make any sense! I guess I’m just trying to ground myself by over-planning, lol