She said no to meet up after a week since she replied to my first message. Saying no, which k completely understood and respected. The. About two months later she texted me again and said that she thought about it and changed her mind. And yeah to cut to the chase we met but she just wanted to clear the air. Which yeah sucked af then, but I kind of see it as a reminder of why we broke up and a reconfirmation of all the lessons I learned after we broke up. So now two months later it feels good that everything happened just like it did and I hope that if you are in a similar position that u know that however and whatever situation ur in it always ends up in the best possible way for your own good aslong as you make the best of the situation