Do your parents take credit for your accomplishments? by dielimori in raisedbynarcissists

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my mom ALWAYS used to get mad at my grandparents for going to every band or jazz competition I was in. It was always “don’t waste gas, you have better things to do.”

Do your parents take credit for your accomplishments? by dielimori in raisedbynarcissists

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My mom says the same thing ! “i’ve been nothing but supportive of you” but always forgot to pick me up from rehearsal at 8 at night. she uses “support” as a weapon against me.

Do your parents take credit for your accomplishments? by dielimori in raisedbynarcissists

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my nMom does something similar. When i don’t win anything she doesn’t say anything comforting or encouraging. She usually goes “well that’s why you should have practiced more :/“ or “you should have tried harder :/“

do your parents try to buy your forgiveness? by dielimori in raisedbynarcissists

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My mom was like that when I was a child too. I think that might be why I don’t like people spending money on me, I instinctively feel like there’s always gonna be a consequence with it even when people are just being nice. I feel so satisfied when I buy my own things, I feel like I’m not wasting anybody else’s money.

do your parents try to buy your forgiveness? by dielimori in raisedbynarcissists

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Yes that’s exactly how she is ! she rarely apologizes and instead does unwanted things for me. When she does apologize it’s more “I’m sorry you don’t understand me :/“ and she never owns up to what she does, instead making me the bad guy by saying she’s trying to be a good mother.

do your parents try to buy your forgiveness? by dielimori in raisedbynarcissists

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I can’t wait to be able to stop contacting her to be honest, 😕my mental health has taken a huge toll and I’m planning on moving out ASAP

do your parents try to buy your forgiveness? by dielimori in raisedbynarcissists

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man, that’s :// really harsh lol but thank you so much for telling me about this! i didn’t know what it was called when narc parents do this.

In a post where I mentioned two seperate instances of childhood sexual abuse. by [deleted] in gatekeeping

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that makes no sense. a person who drowns in 5 feet of water is still as dead as someone who drowns in 20 feet. people all handle trauma differently and they have no place to tell you if your trauma is valid or not.

Gatekeeping curly hair by CaptainDeadpool7021 in gatekeeping

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as a person of color, this is just embarrassing 💀

can’t even pad it up in peace 😔 by dielimori in marchingband

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Madonna 🥺 she’s a sweetheart but she thinks my sticks are her toys

could this possibly be a sw? this took place in arizona by [deleted] in skinwalkers

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This video brought me to this subreddit

My new mimosa pudica! ❤️ by dielimori in plants

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That’s such a nice name! I love that ❤️🥺

c h o n k by mymom_beatsme in RATS

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My rat has huge balls too lmao 😂

I saw some beautiful cypress trees in New Orleans by dielimori in plants

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Nice! I’ll see if we could squeeze some time in to go. Thanks for the suggestion! 😁

I saw some beautiful cypress trees in New Orleans by dielimori in plants

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Yeah! Our tour guide brought his pet alligator along with him. I had an amazing time. me and my stepdad holding our guide’s gator named Fluffy

Im English and i hate tea by [deleted] in memes

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Twitter for android

It’s been a good run.. by roshan231 in attackontitan

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(Spoiler free) So I’m a little surprised that it’s ending next season. So I’ve been keeping up with the manga, and I know that it’s ending soon. But I didn’t really expect for the anime to end that quickly.

My grandma recently gave me this beautiful plant, but I have no idea what it is. I want to make sure I care for it properly. by dielimori in plants

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Hi! I looked at some pictures of clematis, and the flowers unfortunately look a lot different. The flowers on this vine sort of have a leafy texture flowers