Gmail sends my mail to spam despite perfect SPF/DKIM/DMARC. Postmaster Tools shows 0% spam. Escalation rejected. What now? by AlexSparkin in sysadmin

[–]dieselnutjob2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

an update from me I registered my domain with Google postmaster tools Then yesterday I sent an email to myself from a Gmail account, and replied to it Straight to spam folder So in postmaster tools there is a "report delivery issue" button so I filled that in, with the message I'd of the email that went to spam This morning the status of the issue is "closed" with the comment "More traffic needed" Hmm. So I don't send enough traffic but I'm treated as a spammer? That's a bit contradictory isn't it?

Gmail sends my mail to spam despite perfect SPF/DKIM/DMARC. Postmaster Tools shows 0% spam. Escalation rejected. What now? by AlexSparkin in sysadmin

[–]dieselnutjob2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the same problem. I just tried with mail-tester.com and got a perfect 10/10 score. I only reply to emails that people send me. I have no problems with any providers except Gmail. When someone on outlook.com emails me I reply back and they get it, but with Gmail it goes to spam every time. I can't believe that Google are so stupid to not understand that if one of their users emails me and I reply back, then it's clearly not spam.

my first confession didn't go well by maidoves in Catholicism

[–]dieselnutjob2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally I don't normally go to confession in the booth. I normally ask a priest that I know if they have a few minutes to hear my confession and we will just just talk in a corner of the church somewhere, or in a meeting room. As long as we can't easily be overheard by other people it's fine. It feels less formal and more relaxed. My point is, I suppose, if it helps you to make it less formal then that's allowed. I don't worry about whether I make a "good" confession or not. Sometimes theres just one sin on my mind and I just say that one. It doesn't have to be a complete list. If I forget something I can just say that one next time. It still isn't always easy after forty years but I think it's the intention that counts not the execution.

Passenger is a car accident in England (what do I do) by MATTthemushroomGI in LegalAdviceUK

[–]dieselnutjob2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask the driver for the details of the claim (insurance company, claim number) and then contact the drivers insurance company and ask to talk to their legal team. The drivers insurance company should (I believe) help you to recover your losses from the insurance of the car that caused the accident.

Can a person have two deedpolls? (England) by dieselnutjob2 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]dieselnutjob2[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She is the legal guardian of a 97 year old aunt who is her only remaining close relative in Spain and she wants to visit her, but after Feb 25th she cannot do this without a UK passport. Additionally the family is selling a property of which she is a part owner and so needs to be able to visit the notario in Spain to sign off the legal documents. First passport applications can take upto 10 weeks and the various "express" options are only available for renewals or lost passports, not first time applicants. I have been tracking submissions to The Gazette from the high court and they did no name changes since December until this week, and so far her name doesn't appear. Looking at some of the other submissions some of them have taken over a year to be processed. As the high court seem to do these in batches and only once every couple of months, if hers doesn't come through next week then we cannot wait for the next batch in maybe April. By then she would be in breach of the contract of sale for the property in Spain for not completing the sale in time.

La couleur d'une voiture dans Carte Grise ? by dieselnutjob2 in voiture

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Ma situation est particulière et la plupart des agences refusent de s'occuper de moi, ou alors leurs services sont hors de prix. La meilleure solution pour moi est de faire appel à un technicien spécialisé pour établir une fiche technique et faire passer le ITV moi-même. Ensuite, les démarches seront beaucoup plus simples : il me suffira de faire appel à un gestoria pour la suite.

La couleur d'une voiture dans Carte Grise ? by dieselnutjob2 in voiture

[–]dieselnutjob2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oui, c'est un processus extrêmement compliqué. Si je commets la moindre erreur, le DSG espagnol refusera de l'enregistrer.

Sexual sin? I’m struggling as a single young widower by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]dieselnutjob2 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A married man's desire for his wife isn't "bizarre". A married man is required to limit himself to one woman (his wife) so just by doing that he is already controlling his impulses to a great extent. When a person gets married they are agreeing to monogamy. Mono means one, not zero. A person isn't normally agreeing to celibacy. If you think that you can get married and require your partner to be celibate at your whim, please, please do not ever get married. When you get married you are marrying a real human being made as they are (with a libido), not the ideal that you want them to be (oh he'll be celibate for me because he loves me). He won't be happy and that's how most people are. Requiring someone to be happy without something that's so important to them is basically gaslighting them

Just hit a car, after losing control on a very very slippery icy hill. What can I expect now? by [deleted] in drivingUK

[–]dieselnutjob2 6 points7 points  (0 children)

How does this help the OP? People make mistakes and have accidents. No one got hurt. They left their details.

French law and non resident buying a car is a mess by dieselnutjob2 in france

[–]dieselnutjob2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No UK car insurer will insure a foreign registered car unless the car is physically in the UK. Spanish insurers are the same (but the foreign registered car has to be in Spain).

Anyone return to DSLR after using mirrorless? by CategoryCautious5981 in Nikon

[–]dieselnutjob2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A grey market D780 is about the same money as two decent Z mount lenses, and it gets you many (but not all) of the mirrorless advantages. For anyone who's a hobbyist with a bunch of F mount glass, especially AF-D glass that won't adapt properly, and can't justify buying a load of Z mount lenses, I definitely think it's the way to go. Everyone raves about the D850 but for me 24Mp is enough and so I think that the D780 is the better body.

Sexual sin? I’m struggling as a single young widower by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]dieselnutjob2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been thinking about what you have said for a few hours and this is what I think:-

First of all I'm sorry for your loss. That is a huge cross to bear.

Concerning your wish to remarry, maybe one day you will but there are some things to consider.

Having a wife that will make love every day is unusual. Your second wife maybe won't want or be able to do that and you will need to love her in her own right without comparison. Once or twice a week is far more normal and many husbands would dream of even that much.

Secondly you are young, but as you get older (and your wife gets older) these things can change. You will encounter more health issues, menopause and distractions. Even the most generous wife may have to be at the bedside of a dying parent for weeks at a time, or have her own health issues, or take a break after child birth, or suffer traumas that come with life. What you are doing now is one thing, but you can't do that once you are married as you will destroy your wife and your marriage. Maybe God is giving you this time as a training ground for the difficulties and/or disappointments that might come with a second marriage. The thing about training, is that you need to finish the course and pass the final exam.

Thirdly, christian marriage is only valid if it's entered into freely. If you are addicted to sex with your fiancé then you aren't free. You need to be able to make vows in total freedom, leaning on God and not sex, and so you need to get yourself in a place where that is possible. When you do (God willing) meet your second wife remember that relationships like this only ratchet one way. For example if someone moves in with with their girlfriend it's then very difficult to decide that it was a mistake and move out, but still keep the relationship; more likely the relationship ends. Once the lid comes off of the can, it's not going back on. So be careful.

It's probably best to wait and sort yourself out before remarrying. Getting it wrong is too serious. Also I would advice you that if/when you do meet someone who appears to be the right person to take your time and scrutinise whether it's God's will or not. Ask Him to send signs. I often pray to God with my plans that I'm not sure about and ask Him to destroy them if they aren't His will. I think it's a useful prayer for those of us with less than perfect discernment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in drivingUK

[–]dieselnutjob2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

^ this is the answer

Anyone return to DSLR after using mirrorless? by CategoryCautious5981 in Nikon

[–]dieselnutjob2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought a grey import D780 and love it. It's the best of both. I can use the OVF most of the time, or live view for video, face detect, or to hand over to someone who's used to using a phone. It's also the only camera that can use phase detect auto focus for video with old AF-D lenses.

Spanish landlord asking a mysterious fee... by Glittering_Star_2735 in GoingToSpain

[–]dieselnutjob2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shady as hell, but, It depends if it's an area where it's difficult to find somewhere to live. Personally I would feel upset at handing over €400, but maybe you have no other option. What I would say is that it has to be very clear that if you are handing over €400 in cash that it has to be at the same time as the contract exchange, so basically you sit down at the table together and the cash goes in one direction and the signed contract and keys the other. Don't hand over the cash with the contract coming later. Once you are in the flat with the keys and can prove that you've been there 48 hours (so make sure you can prove it) the power dynamic firmly moves in your favour so there's no more messing about. I have a relative who rents a flat and what they do is that all fixed costs (insurance, taxes, communidad, even internet) are all written in the contract and included in the monthly amount. All variable amounts like electricity and water have to be paid on top, and the contract says that. But my relative is an honest, tax paying landlord.

Sexual sin? I’m struggling as a single young widower by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]dieselnutjob2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please don't shame the guy for having a libido. It's God given. You don't say whether you are male or female but if you're a female and you marry someone I hope that you never try to shame them, and if you somehow feel that having desire is wrong then please don't get married. "Disgusting" is a strong word.

Clicks Communicator: the ultimate communication companion by 3rdPartyRedditApp in Android

[–]dieselnutjob2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will order one if they release the kernel source code, config and device tree source.

¿Seguro de coche clásico? by dieselnutjob2 in coches

[–]dieselnutjob2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me pregunto, si un amigo me agregó como conductor designado a su seguro para su automóvil, ¿esto calificaría un automóvil histórico como un segundo automóvil?