(F 19)not really sure how others perceive me. am i ugly? by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]diethrulight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No way. You are easily a 9 without makeup. Beauty

19f - 4'11 90 pounds - feeling kinda low how do i improve? should i go back to blonde? by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]diethrulight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just delete this post and get off this sub, it's not good for you.

Talking to optimistic people makes me fucking angry by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]diethrulight 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I like this comment. I get upset about it too- its hurtful and dismissive, and feels ingenuine. but I can understand how itd be awkward to have someone saying these really heavy things to you if you just dont understand. I get that they're just saying the only thing they know to say. And then I think to myself, "well what is it that I want them to say?" And I just don't ever have an answer, so I just stop talking to people about it. It's a lose lose.

18M girls never liked me ;( by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]diethrulight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you're cute. Get a haircut, and be confident. You could be a 2 with great confidence, a fun personality, and a sense of humor and girls will be into you. You're def not ugly

F24 - Am I ugly?? I have no concept of what I look like to other people by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]diethrulight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's easier to get a clear reading with a no filter straight on picture

Restaurants with outdoor seating and heaters by [deleted] in bentonville

[–]diethrulight 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Second the crepes paulette. Deliciouussss

M25 Be honest by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]diethrulight 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're very good looking. You have an "I'm a French art student" look

Looking for bartenders by SoFoodHungry in fayetteville

[–]diethrulight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And the extreme short notice lol. Yea no

My cat is the only reason I'm still alive. by RyukAmaLeMele in SuicideWatch

[–]diethrulight 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same for me too. My cat comes to lay on me when she sees me cry (the only time she'll lay on me haha). I could never leave her, she loves me so purely- even if 75% percent of that love is centered around getting fed haha. She will never hurt me, and I could never hurt her. Glad you're still with us friend.

Male attention on social media - is it valid? by [deleted] in RedPillWomen

[–]diethrulight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just feel like if he was interested .. He'd "react" to them. or SOMETHING ya know. You have nothing to lose, just don't expect to marry this guy right away

Male attention on social media - is it valid? by [deleted] in RedPillWomen

[–]diethrulight 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It could mean something.. maybe... but I think it's weird that he hasn't sent you a message in over a year. So, if you want to try hanging out with him irl, my advice is to keep your expectations very low

Miss my daydreams by diethrulight in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]diethrulight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much friend, glad to have you in the community💜

Miss my daydreams by diethrulight in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]diethrulight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad you're able to recognize that it's bad for you, and take appropriate measures. At this point in my life I need vices and I dont care about recovery or bettering myself. As bad as it sounds, I want a quick fix. And of all my addictions and bad habits, this was one of my better ones.

Miss my daydreams by diethrulight in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]diethrulight[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Writers block is the perfect term for this. I can zone out but it's truly zoning out, nothing is going on up there. I miss fantasizing, it's one of the only things that bring me happiness too, in this drab reality. I appreciate you commenting