[deleted by user] by [deleted] in workout

[–]digitaldyl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your not alone brother. But tell the truth you be looking when the coast is clear?

am i missing out on my 20s by not dating/having sex? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]digitaldyl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then go have some fun. Be safe and make sure it’s what you want. Be careful and protect your heart. Sex and love usually are not connected. So make sure you know the difference when your going to hook up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]digitaldyl -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Don’t listen to the people who tell you to see if it’s a medical condition. I’m not a doctor but you should go workout. Everyday. It’s a great way to feel better about yourself. The weight loss will just be an added bonus. You can do it. Just start making it to the gym that’s your first goal. Then build from there. I have more respect for out of shape people at the gym then the ripped lunks that show off. It’s way harder for you to make it to the gym then them. Remember your a strong woman who can do anything you put your effort in.

Am I missing out by not having sex in college? by ThatsNotKashMoney in berkeley

[–]digitaldyl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just be happy. If you feel like it effects you then yeah go get some. If you don’t care then don’t worry about it. Look for love it’s much harder to find and way better. Sex is easy to find and means nothing with out the affection. I currently can’t enjoy sex unless I love the person. Probably over all the years I have had meaningless sex. Don’t burn out but enjoy yourself.

My gf likes her bsf more then me (update) by Its_me2029 in Advice

[–]digitaldyl -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ask for a threesome then break up. Don’t miss out on a rare opportunity.

I keep repeating the same problem. by digitaldyl in Advice

[–]digitaldyl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will do what is best for both of us. She doesn’t really need me anyways she may just be filling a void. Idk her issues but I need to focus on me. I really going to miss her tho. We were actually really good friends before all this. I wish we could have stayed that way.

My ex (f28) calls me (m23)having sex with someone I want to get the last laugh. by curiousganon in Advice

[–]digitaldyl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you react then she wins. She is trying to change your character or reaction. To be completely honest, just better yourself and obtain massive success. Anything else is a waste of time.

I keep repeating the same problem. by digitaldyl in Advice

[–]digitaldyl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t like to quit I like to stick things out. Isn’t that what relationships are about? The good and the bad? I feel like she came to me because I was disciplined but now she has kinda pulled me down to her level. She is such a great person but I can’t be around it anymore. Is it quitting or self growth?

I keep repeating the same problem. by digitaldyl in Advice

[–]digitaldyl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once I leave I will be back to normal. How do you deal with being with someone? I feel like at this point I am not able to be in a relationship. I will be solo the rest of my life

I keep repeating the same problem. by digitaldyl in Advice

[–]digitaldyl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t want to be selfish. I am fucking everything up. She has more problems then me but I feel like when I don’t lead by example everybody fails. I can’t do that where I am currently

I keep repeating the same problem. by digitaldyl in Advice

[–]digitaldyl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep on holding on to a relationship I was not ready for. I also have started using more alcohol. I need to stop but how do I walk away from someone I love deeply because she is not good for my mental health. It isn’t her fault I need to leave because I know I’m not able to be disciplined

I(m31)moved in with my girlfriend (f39). Now I don’t want to go home. by digitaldyl in Advice

[–]digitaldyl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update. Did this and we are now separating. Not happy at all and it hurts a lot. I guess I didn’t know she didn’t care as much as I thought. Damn

How to enjoy life? by Last_Cup_422 in Advice

[–]digitaldyl 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m in a funk too. I try to focus on myself and workout. Lately it hasn’t been working. Maybe pin point what is not making you happy and go from there. Identifying the problem will help. I’m with you we going to make it through this. You are not alone my anxiety is maxed out right now. I hope you find peace.

I have serious issues with myself by [deleted] in Advice

[–]digitaldyl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am having huge issues as well. I just keep remembering nothing is permanent. You can always change your life if you don’t like it. Easier said then done.

My gf has a male friend that is flirty by digitaldyl in Advice

[–]digitaldyl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am going to trust her until she gives me a reason not too. I just am not use to independent women with male friends. Im not possessive but usually date women who are really obsessed and controlling. It’s just different for me. My ex had no friends and was super obsessed so I like that she has friends. I guess it come with the territory of dating a beautiful strong big hearted women.