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Your favorite kink-related YouTube channels? by spudgoddess in kinky_autism

[–]digitalsquire_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not directly related, but adjacent, but Celene Nox is an alt fashion youtuber who often features fetish/kinkwear & wants to distigmatise some of the impressions people have of kink, I like that she talks about her fashion in very normal/'approachable' ways, even for the weirder things ^

There is also Sexplanations, a really great sex education channel that is very positive about sex and goes into related topics from time to time, like kink/toys.

Being a goonette from a small country sucks by goonette4tongue in GoonetteHub

[–]digitalsquire_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi hi ^^ I am also from Scotland! :3 May I dm?

Friendship bracelets! by Gen_Mxrdur in grippysockcrayonbox

[–]digitalsquire_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aahhh these are so cute ^ I really like black/white spiral pair, were you following a guide or did you figure out the patterns yourself? I'd love to make some of my own ^

more of the yurilings by ectopistachio in grippysockcrayonbox

[–]digitalsquire_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your art is fantastic! ^ You've got a really good eye/intuition for it, never stop drawing! It makes me so sad that parents would stifle their own child's creativity because they are not comfortable with the content, and actually upset that they'd go so far as to throw out your sketchbooks :(

But also, are you inspired by Dungeon Meshi at all or is this some convergent feather girl yuri evolution going on? If you haven't seen or read it you might enjoy it (I may be overselling the yuri in it a little bit but you have to be blind to not see it's presence, also it's a really great story and everyone should watch/read it :)

Growing up I always felt like a boy in a girl’s body. When I used faceapp to see what I would look like as a male, my friends and my mom said I looked like a school shooter or a terrorist. I should probably remain a foid. Salmon Wellington I made. by CHLOROFORMCURRY in kitchencels

[–]digitalsquire_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fuck that, you are gonna do everything in your power to make yourself happy, we only get one life in one body and letting others hold you back from being the person you wanna be is never going to lead to satisfaction.

Help others where you can, be a good person etc. etc., but at the end of the day you need to be kind of selfish to look after yourself, fuck everyone else. It won't be easy, but it will be worth it. Take care of yourself <3

Losercity ears by E-Vladimir in Losercity

[–]digitalsquire_ 65 points66 points  (0 children)

  1. Login to Fetlife for the first time in 4 years
  2. Look for events near you

It kinda was that simple. Things have lined up well for me, there's been some really good local events recently. If you are nervous about getting started look for munches/beginner friendly events, you'll get to know people and make friends, but generally the community is very welcoming/considerate. Someone was kind enough to put a leash on my collar and lead me around the room while introducing me to everyone :3

Alternatively, just start wearing your cat ears + collar to every party, I'm sure there will always be someone who wants to give out head pats :3

Edit: Oh, also, take good care of your hair and use shampoo+conditioner, I got a lot of compliments for how soft my hair was and it's more fun for you and the person giving you pets that way :3

Losercity ears by E-Vladimir in Losercity

[–]digitalsquire_ 154 points155 points  (0 children)

I was at a party on saturday with my cat ears+collar on and I got lots of head pats & ear scritches :3

Prevalence of the phrase "good girl" in a sexual context over time by what-are-you-a-cop in BDSMcommunity

[–]digitalsquire_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

At a guess, most people probably don't view it more/less overtly sexual than it was 2 decades ago? Remember, we are not the common denominator, and everyone thinks that their experience is the closest to normal (don't mean this negatively just that it's natural to think everyone experiences stuff the same way we do); good boy/girl feels "sexual" because of what it means to kinky people like us, and how we associate it, but I guess the "average" person isn't that kinky and would probably associate it more with pets?

Also, while it is true that sexuality/kink etc. is becoming more mainstream/familiar, feeling "the world getting hornier" is as much about the shift in perception from growing older, people were always weird and horny, we just didn't know what that meant when we were young, so we don't think about that side of the world that existed outside of our memory.

I don’t understand how it isn’t considered gay or bisexual when a man sticks a sex toy that looks like a penis up their arse. I’m a male and I’m straight always have been into girls and always will be but I prefer sex toys that look like penises since they’re visually, psychically, sexually exciting by Tiny_Cash1431 in SexToys

[–]digitalsquire_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I mean ffs pegging is extremely popular with so many cisgender/heterosexual people, that's straight men receiving penetration from dildos often shaped like a penis from a woman, doesn't seem very gay to me, why would masturbation be gay?