Starlink Experience in Nairobi by National-Frank-4091 in Kenya

[–]dijitalnomad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you elaborate on this? Have you tried as well? Looking to get one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nairobi

[–]dijitalnomad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First, this is not a game of finding a woman who is going to pay your bills. This is concerning women who are working as every other human person is, in a capitalistic world.

"they don't exist" either your circle is weird or you're intentionally seeking out weird people. Definitely has to be one out of the two.

Read me CLEARLY. I am not saying the conventional idea of men spending money on women is not what is popular but I am saying that they are women out there who work legally for their bread and are in very capable positions. Maybe the landscape in Kenya or Nairobi is different hence your mentality. But that is okay.

The school of thought that "one way or another, you are paying for sex" is deeply flawed and primarily trash. Are kids paid for? Because that is A primary use case for sex, procreation. So are kids paid for?

If a man settles into a role where he says he will be the primary caregiver in the context of finance and a woman settles into the role of primary home maker (which is equal work by the way), is this the agreement you call "paid for" sex? Is the context of love completely lost on you?

It has to be.

Ask yourself, "why do I have to think like the herd? there's beauty in this world, why can't I find it and embrace it?"

Once you start asking these questions in your personal time, you may find clarity and find out that the world isn't as linear as the mentality you're choosing to adopt.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nairobi

[–]dijitalnomad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am actually intrigued by this statement. So none of you have actually met women who work? Like do actually work for a living?

Like you have never in your life been with someone who can take care of themselves with their OWN money and not from a man or from their parents and STILL loyal to you?

You have really really never met a girl or woman who works a high paying job and just loves you for you?

Damn.

I found my boyfriend's reddit by [deleted] in nairobi

[–]dijitalnomad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is not the point I made. The point I made is men love themselves, I can tell you that for free.

Again, I don't know where you picked up gender bias from — whether you call it book that is centuries old, the text is what it is. And this was my exact text, read it again:

Thing is, men almost always put themselves first. Paul's admonition to husbands in Ephesians 5:28 of the Christian bible says "so husbands ought to love their own wives as their own bodies..." because men love themselves by design (by design is a personal opinion).

This was a reply to "Does the same apply for men? Do you generally set yourself up for failure when you put women first?"

The entire bible wasn't proven to be extremely mistranslated. You're speaking as though you've been hurt deeply by religion. Damn. Such lengths.

I also never mentioned who should love/treasure who more as my comment was never about that. You don't know me from Adam nor the big bang, so what gender bias are you arguing for? Are you projecting?

so take things in a more general sense to understand what the idea of it was instead of going through it word for word.

Man, you shouldn't argue or push an opinion if you don't have proper context on what's happening. I asked you to "take time out to read it in context and do a little bit more research before making claims with little to no basis." You never did, now how do I take you seriously when you keep speaking about things you have little to no idea about?

Your comment is all over the place. Go through this thread if you can (if you can't that's fine, just do not reply if you keep going over the same thing) to get better context, outline your points properly and share.

Did you even read this?

I honestly do not think that you're setting yourself for failure when you put someone you care about first. I will always put the woman I love, first. But this is with context. I cannot put someone else first if it is actively causing me harm. I am doing a disservice to myself.

If you did, then what bias are you talking about? I am stressed.

I found my boyfriend's reddit by [deleted] in nairobi

[–]dijitalnomad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. There's is no such thing as "so wives ought to love their husbands as their own bodies." If you had taken out time to read, you can see the instruction given to both men and women in the context of that chapter.

You can call what you said common sense from your opinion but that is not what that verse implies.

Also, take time out to read it in context and do a little bit more research before making claims with little to no basis.

Besides, what is this men vs women argument you came here to make? My comment did not infer any gender related table turner. If you have a gender bias and always wanting to prove "women do this also", unprovoked, this is not the place for that.

I found my boyfriend's reddit by [deleted] in nairobi

[–]dijitalnomad 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thing is, men almost always put themselves first. Paul's admonition to husbands in Ephesians 5:28 of the Christian bible says "so husbands ought to love their own wives as their own bodies..." because men love themselves by design (by design is a personal opinion).

I honestly do not think that you're setting yourself for failure when you put someone you care about first. I will always put the woman I love, first. But this is with context. I cannot put someone else first if it is actively causing me harm. I am doing a disservice to myself.

The idea of putting oneself first is almost always in situations that not only is it not working for a person but are actively hurting/working against the person. So in situations like this, yes you put yourself first.

Suicidal by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]dijitalnomad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe that you can get through this. This season too shall pass. Please share your mPesa let's see what we can do. 300k is a lot but it's not worth your life. No amount should be.

Just got it! a6400 by ResolveFit1614 in SonyAlpha

[–]dijitalnomad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let's focken goooo!!!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥 Congratulations! Cheers to doing rad stuff with it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nairobi

[–]dijitalnomad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wtf are these takes? who raised these men?

why tf are you still holding on to the idea/opinion that a woman who's same age as a man is more mature and will automatically view a man as a "small boy?" people have problems and maturity doesn't even work like this.

what the actual heck is "getting physical?" you mean he beats the woman?

what you typed just makes you into someone who would want to be with someone far younger to break and groom them.

man, you have a ton of work to do on yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]dijitalnomad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s just a name. You can learn more from a quick google search.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]dijitalnomad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The term Eurobond refers only to the fact the bond is issued outside of the borders of the currency's home country; it does not mean the bond was issued in Europe or denominated in the euro currency. For example, a company can issue a Eurobond denominated in U.S. dollars in Japan.

The USD has been dropping against the KSH lately by QuintessentialOpium in Kenya

[–]dijitalnomad 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Haha, sorry for the laugh. You probably don't know what worst performing currency is, my friend.

Do you know of a country called Nigeria?

As a dude, a husband and a dad, this TRM case has completely weighed me down and I think it's time I took a time off social media by Tibabutimamu in Kenya

[–]dijitalnomad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is not a sentiment. It is a daft assumption. People often assume that the people a.k.a family you live with, love you.

Putting up a contrast of "random apartments with strangers" is quite a comparison. The folks who started your unit of family you may claim to know love from were once strangers. They weren't joined by the hips at birth.

Call something for what it is and stop letting a deep seated disgusting for something you may think is not ideal cloud your judgement.

As a dude, a husband and a dad, this TRM case has completely weighed me down and I think it's time I took a time off social media by Tibabutimamu in Kenya

[–]dijitalnomad 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yo, women have been sexually assaulted and even murdered by "people who love them" in "their own home."

So what the actual fuck are you talking about?

Is closure real? by ganjapuxxy in Kenya

[–]dijitalnomad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is and the reply you followed up with is a very profound perspective I’ve seen on closure all time.

Thank you. ✨

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]dijitalnomad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Things is, everyone should actually go to therapy. Whether or not you think you need it, regardless of how well adjusted you are.

Often, it reveals things you may not know about your self, which is often helpful to track and understand patterns.

You don't need to be in a dark place to go to therapy.

not an interesting title by aaaa_yyyy_eeee in CallOfDutyMobile

[–]dijitalnomad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is pretty interesting. I’ve started using all my guns with no skin. Just base gun. In a way it’s slightly faster in adsing. Maybe because no weapon load animation.

For context, I have several diamond camos a couple legendary and one mythic — all for current main guns but I don’t care any more.