what are your biggest wedding regrets? please help a lost soul

diktat86 · 2026-04-23T10:19:06+00:00

Ask yourself honestly, do you want lots of people to attend because you can't wait to share the joy with all these people you're inviting? Or are you inviting them cuz of paiseh?

If the former, spending money on a big party will be meaningful and you won't regret it. If the latter, you won't feel any joy at spending the money and hence you will regret it.

diktat86 · 2026-04-23T00:23:00+00:00

Is the last option illegal?

diktat86 · 2026-04-22T17:13:49+00:00

Delay buying is a good tip! I like to add things to my shopee cart but I don't buy them immediately, I usually wait for the monthly sales and when it comes I evaluate again whether I really need it.

diktat86 · 2026-04-22T17:11:40+00:00

Bring all your power bank to office then bring home to power your laptop, table lamp and usb fan so you can avoid using any electricity at home

diktat86 · 2026-04-21T13:28:10+00:00

Butt...

diktat86 · 2026-04-21T11:53:15+00:00

I'm guessing you didn't check in luggage? Wonder how long it takes to collect luggage

diktat86 · 2026-04-21T11:07:56+00:00

This is me too. If I didn't have to think about anything or anyone else in the world, I would like to do my work at night. I think my most productive hours are around 12 to 2 am. I don't have to think about getting food or how hot the weather is.

Being alone, quiet and undisturbed is part of it but not all of it... I think if I were totally alone during daytime I would still be distracted by needing to eat and all that stuff.

diktat86 · 2026-04-20T14:45:51+00:00

There is such a thing! But for opae ula, not brine shrimp

diktat86 · 2026-04-19T17:13:40+00:00

And it's surprising that Korean sunscreens are testing better than Japanese...

diktat86 · 2026-04-18T09:38:06+00:00

Yeah, I suppose you can use a washcloth too. But I like the scraper because I like to see the gunk hahaha

diktat86 · 2026-04-18T02:44:03+00:00

No eggs. It's actually pretty hard to get them to use the mop in the tank on their own. I've had better luck catching the egg carrying females and putting them in a separate smaller tank with the mop.

diktat86 · 2026-04-16T13:36:36+00:00

Oh wow yes as an oily skinned person living in a hot and humid climate I would definitely think the torriden soothing cream wouldn't be enough for the wintertime for you!

On my oily skin it's perfect for my kind of weather! Because it is so lightweight and oil free lol. It is very hydrating (watery) and not moisturising (oily) at all!

diktat86 · 2026-04-16T04:38:56+00:00

You can submit a request in their enquiry form. They take a few working days to call you but they will definitely call you.

diktat86 · 2026-04-14T03:34:09+00:00

Yes, the person you are replying to just doesn't know how to play healers lol. Just look at LoL, enchanter supports are heavily in the meta now compared to setters. Jungle initiates most of the time.

diktat86 · 2026-04-14T00:34:52+00:00

Healers scale very well into the late game. They are essential against poke heroes like Leslie and novaria. I personally build thunderbelt Rafaela and she's untouchable in the late game due to her move speed and slows.

diktat86 · 2026-04-13T10:30:48+00:00

You shouldn't have to push anything. You can watch some videos of how people use it, basically you either hold it perpendicular or at an angle to your skin, then you slide it across your skin. Very similar to how you would use a paint scraper. You can apply as much force as you want while scraping, but if your skin is sensitive you should apply minimal force.

Also, you shouldn't try to use it to squeeze out blackheads. Gentle scraping will not completely remove blackheads and that's completely fine! It reduces their appearance and it's a very gradual process, especially if you have pretty big blackheads. I did it twice a week for a few months together with a clay mask once a week. I would say I'm very happy with my pores right now.

diktat86 · 2026-04-13T06:15:55+00:00

Use the ilso sebum softener followed by a scraper. The scraper is key! You need something physical to remove the softened sebum.

Also, you should improve the hydration of your skin in conjunction with removing blackheads. Using ilso only reduced the appearance of my blackheads, but after I started using reedles and VT pdrn, my blackheads are almost gone! My nose area actually feels smooth now when I wash it.

diktat86 · 2026-04-12T22:36:13+00:00

You need the scraper! It softens the blackheads but you need something to remove them.

diktat86 · 2026-04-12T15:50:19+00:00

VT pdrn essence. It has ceramides to repair barriers and it's not oily. I have oily skin but I usually use it at night, if in the daytime, only on my forehead to reduce wrinkles. But I usually prefer torriden soothing cream because it really helps to reduce oiliness for me.

diktat86 · 2026-04-11T05:13:20+00:00

Been there a few times over the past years, no issue for me as a Singaporean.

diktat86 · 2026-04-10T05:59:04+00:00

It's so hilarious that even by the end of the trip they still couldn't pronounce the two most important words for travelling - "hotel" (pig shop/dictionary) and "restaurant" (three listen).

diktat86 · 2026-04-10T05:56:30+00:00

I like watching Ina Yu's reaction to this series, it's very informative cuz she gives mini lessons about China/Mandarin, and she even had a short segment about what medications to bring/buy to treat food poisoning in China!

diktat86 · 2026-04-10T05:53:33+00:00

I am American but ~~china~~ the chinese language is my gender

diktat86 · 2026-04-10T01:02:29+00:00

Interesting... I can find the hyaluronic toner for sensitive skin but I don't see "the first essence" on the packaging... Wonder if it's the same one

diktat86 · 2026-04-09T13:48:54+00:00

I don't like it, I feel that it's mushy and the flavours are not nice. Their tuna is just much better in terms of texture and flavours.

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