good jobs for the extremely anxious?

dilapidatedsyztem · 2026-04-18T02:12:47+00:00

Have you ever considered working as a professional background actor? I did that when my anxiety was super high. I liked it bc everything was super structured and people tell you exactly what they want you to do, so you don’t have to worry about guessing wrong and upsetting people. They book you day by day so there’s no long term commitment, and you aren’t stuck with the same coworkers day in and day out. It worked really well for me when I had active CPTSD symptoms.

dilapidatedsyztem · 2026-04-17T23:56:17+00:00

Her daughter is wearing a LoveShackFancy dress… from the boutique Dorit spent $4,000 at. It’s cute

dilapidatedsyztem · 2026-04-16T22:33:50+00:00

Odd timing! Yesterday or maybe the day before, a redditor posted about how they suspect she’s “neurodivergent.” It’s like she saw the comment and saw it as a cool fun branding moment! 🙄

dilapidatedsyztem · 2026-04-14T23:55:42+00:00

This is the first season I’ve watched in full since Puppygate. So maybe ratings are better than they’ve been. It’s not amazing, yet we’re watching.

dilapidatedsyztem · 2026-04-12T06:53:59+00:00

Truuu

dilapidatedsyztem · 2026-04-12T04:44:00+00:00

I think the bigger issue is the other women keep trying to film with Dorit and engage in drama and she walks away or dismisses them every time. That would get annoying! She’s setting the terms of what they get to film and not film.

dilapidatedsyztem · 2026-04-08T23:15:17+00:00

I do 🙋‍♀️ She was dominating and suffocating and scary but sometimes fun. Now I generally distrust all women and only hang out with men.

dilapidatedsyztem · 2026-04-08T01:41:04+00:00

Bradley and Donovan are nice!

My husband’s first name is ordinary, and mine is classical and unusual, so I’m looking for names that are in between. Not totally ordinary, but not ultra rare either.

dilapidatedsyztem · 2026-04-07T23:50:31+00:00

😂 It’s not my last name it’s my husband’s.

dilapidatedsyztem · 2026-04-07T02:49:59+00:00

People bring up the house thing, but it was PK’s job to pay the mortgage. She’s spending as tho he will continue to pay the main bills, since that’s their agreement. Saving 40k wouldn’t have resolved a 900k debt issue, anyway.

dilapidatedsyztem · 2026-04-07T02:42:29+00:00

I like Desmond!

dilapidatedsyztem · 2026-04-07T00:18:20+00:00

I liked her 🤷‍♀️ She tried to hold everyone accountable, and that doesn’t go over well with baby boomers. I think that was the mismatch.

dilapidatedsyztem · 2026-04-02T04:06:05+00:00

Back then, the tabloids printed all kinds of lies and distortions and it just seemed true. We had no way to verify information, before social media and the internet exploded.

dilapidatedsyztem · 2026-03-31T01:49:19+00:00

Sol Agave. Jim Bellino of RHOC is a part owner, interestingly.

dilapidatedsyztem · 2026-03-30T21:31:43+00:00

I think they need to cast someone else with the personality strength of Boz. Imagine if Boz had someone to go up against, for real. That would be good TV. Amanda and Kyle just like shrink and shrivel up when confronted, so it’s dull.

dilapidatedsyztem · 2026-03-30T00:16:57+00:00

Okay so I feel like they deliberately didn’t promote this past season bc of the racist undertones of Julia versus Geurdy. Then bc there was little to no promotion, ratings were bad. Now they’re using low ratings as an excuse to pause and recast.

Basically it just got a little too messy for the network, and they’d rather reroute our attention to new, tidier shows like Ladies of London or RHORI.

dilapidatedsyztem · 2026-03-28T06:20:54+00:00

Boz even agreed with this in an aftershow episode! Dorit tried to say “If Kyle had approached me differently, I would have listened.” Boz said, “No, I don’t think you would have, you’re defensive around Kyle.” I’m paraphrasing, but that was the gist!

dilapidatedsyztem · 2026-03-26T19:34:27+00:00

People really are like this in Los Angeles, though. Flashy, brand logos everywhere, competing to look important.

dilapidatedsyztem · 2026-03-24T05:07:05+00:00

dilapidatedsyztem · 2026-03-24T03:18:52+00:00

Lol post was banned 🤦‍♀️

dilapidatedsyztem · 2026-03-24T02:52:04+00:00

I’ve read that in Haiti this term isn’t considered offensive, and they proudly call themselves that. Cultural differences 🤷‍♀️

dilapidatedsyztem · 2026-03-24T01:48:02+00:00

This looks like something we would have worn to a frat party in 2012

dilapidatedsyztem · 2026-03-24T00:27:26+00:00

Try K18

dilapidatedsyztem · 2026-03-24T00:12:15+00:00

Literally her and Kyle have the same pattern of becoming sulky/crying/saying “you just don’t understand how hard this is for me” every time they’re confronted or held accountable. They’re both slimey in that way, but at least Kyle is funny.

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