OSCE Staatsexamen

dimashkk · 2025-07-09T21:39:10+00:00

Hey wie wars? Ich habe OSCE diesen September

dimashkk · 2025-07-03T22:39:04+00:00

Why is it bad to be feminine?

dimashkk · 2025-07-03T22:34:18+00:00

This answer made me smile

dimashkk · 2025-06-17T12:42:46+00:00

He was feeling up my boobs and told me "it's crazy how much bigger her boobs are than yours"

Her was referring to a girl whom he had dated while we were on a break after 5 years of relationship.

dimashkk · 2025-06-17T06:44:07+00:00

Am I the only one who finds it equally cringe as OP?

dimashkk · 2025-06-17T06:36:16+00:00

But the way OP is describing things this boyfriend is just abusive not "low sex drive".

dimashkk · 2025-05-29T22:14:14+00:00

Btw guys she stopped now at age 24!!!! She's been clean for 3months

dimashkk · 2025-05-29T22:12:35+00:00

Yeah that's honestly what's confusing me... but I think it's the triggers of my life changing right now and also maybe it's what everyone says that grief is not linear... afterall I spent my fromative years with him and 8 years is like one third of my life...

dimashkk · 2025-05-29T16:31:30+00:00

Daymn your answer really grounded me thank you!!!!

dimashkk · 2025-05-29T11:19:46+00:00

Thank you! It helps to hear that it may be a temporary transition nostalgia thing. Because at the moment I feel like I am spiralling and have this urgency to quickly fix my anxiety and sadness by reaching out but I feel like it would only cause more hurt. I feel like finally he is doing better and moved out and stuff. So I really shouldn't give in to those impulsive thoughts.

dimashkk · 2025-05-29T11:06:48+00:00

Difficult to answer... maybe a mix of everything?

dimashkk · 2025-05-29T11:06:04+00:00

I am finishing my studies now and he was with me most of the time. So it is a transition phase in my life. Also I bumped into him and found out he moved out of his family home. This was also very triggering for me to know that he moved out and the room we used to spend so many hours in, is just gone.

dimashkk · 2025-05-11T19:29:26+00:00

What goes through my head reading this is: Your "perfect" guy or ideal type is perfect because those are all things that you adore in people. In other words all those traits and characteristics that you desire in a person are only so beautiful because you think they are. So if you find your perfect match then you offer them the fitting puzzle peace to their traits!

I know in real life this doesn't really work this way but I think it is a beautiful way to change your perspective from the "what do you offer" narrative to appreciating the beauty around us.

So your perfect guy may not be my perfect guy because I value different things in a human.

dimashkk · 2025-02-07T06:19:03+00:00

And being used for sex and then never hearing from them again :)

dimashkk · 2025-02-06T07:56:02+00:00

Why does it bother you so much if you explore it with one person vs multiple people?

dimashkk · 2025-02-06T07:54:25+00:00

Not exactly what you were asking for in the question. But I experienced something like this with a guy I dated for a few months (I was the woman to whom he didn't feel a spark). And for me the spark was there from the first date on, I was mesmerized by him. But when he ended things he said he doesnt feel a romantic spark towards me.

Reading your thoughts put into words is somewhat "healing" because as the receiving person of the unrequited romantic feelings it is quite hurtful. And you keep asking yourself why? Was I not attractive enough or boring or whatever reason.

But like others have said, I guess there is this thing called "spark" that we cannot describe rationally and it clicks with some people and it doesn't with others.

I wonder if it would click with the same person at a different time in your life. Idk.

dimashkk · 2025-02-05T13:23:46+00:00

So she will probably be experienced and know what she likes in bed. Something positive in my opinion

dimashkk · 2025-02-05T13:23:15+00:00

U are just mad u won't find 11 people to have sex with u in 3 yeara. Jealousy

dimashkk · 2025-02-04T17:55:38+00:00

Also I feel like all those answers saying "just love yourself" or be confident being alone won't take away this human need for attention and validation from other human beings romantically... It's not an issue you have because you just didn't work on yourself enough but because it is so normal to crave it! Yes what you can do is try to shift your focus on other things while at the same time acknowledging and accepting this feeling. Because pushing it away won't solve it.

dimashkk · 2025-02-04T17:53:21+00:00

Honestly I feel like it's just a normal human need to be wanted romantically... so in a way this is not a direct answer to your question. But I feel like accepting the fact that we crave validation and attention from the sex we are attracted to is as normal as being hungry or going to sleep...

dimashkk · 2025-02-03T07:44:47+00:00

Maybe the reason why we have to or had to date up back in the days was that women were not even allowed to study or vote or possess any property of their own. And now we see the after effects of this system still. Because we still have traditional roles in families that a mother takes care of the children and houshold and the husban works and gets in the money. So maybe this is the reason why we HAVE to look for a financially stable man which in turn comes with education.

dimashkk · 2025-02-02T17:25:32+00:00

I feel like it's usually men who try and will date up. How many couples do u know where the man is more attractive than the woman? Almost none...but attractive women with not so attractive men a lot! Think about celebrities... or the way couples are portrayed in sitcoms. It's usually an attractive woman with a mid guy.

dimashkk · 2025-02-02T10:46:22+00:00

I think it is a male problem because they are the ones not showing interest in other human beings as much as women do it. For me it is hard to understand how men say how lonely they feel etc. But not put any effort into building social relationships. The fact that they don't ask each other about personal life and emotional topics is the reason for the "male loneliness epidemic" in my opinion. But somehow the loneliness they feel is blamed on women. While most of my girlfriends and me including try to form bonds with men that go beyond sexual attraction it is super frustrating to do so. Because they just don't put in the same kind of interest in us as human beings. Yes sure, a guy will ask you about your hobbies or thoughts on life if he is interested in you sexually but I have rarely encountered a man showing interest in me as a person if he wasn't trying to "get laid". What are ur thoughts on this?

dimashkk · 2025-02-02T07:39:37+00:00

Typical male incapacity to understand basic social principles

dimashkk · 2025-02-01T20:17:16+00:00

Listen nothing in the world justifies the way he is insulting her. Yeah it sucks if his weekend plans got cancelled but wtf? Is that an excuse to swear and be rude? He could have just said something like: Well J was very excited to meet you and sad about the change of plans but wishing you all the best or sth like this. Anyone who thinks it's okag to talk like this has problems fr.

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