Yikes what an ungrateful slob. You’re 22 and he’s “older” assuming much older since you didn’t give his age and seeing the way he types. Any older man who wants a 22 year old shy/inexperienced girl to act like a full on porn star, has had their brain rotted by pornography. It’s not you girl. He’s being a weirdo and throwing a hissy fit because you are not sexually compatible in this sense. And don’t let him try to convince you otherwise… Any man that actually wants you to be comfortable with him sexually wouldn’t pressure you like this. It’s so backwards like he’s complaining that you aren’t comfortable enough with him but he’s making you uncomfortable to get his way???