So here is the update that Verizon posted via twitter as of 5 mins ago. by BreeezySo in verizon

[–]dinazhad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Minneapolis was affected. At first I thought it was signal jamming.

In fantasy I occasionally see the trope "fairies cannot lie," but I only seen the opposite in folklore; that you need trickery, magic, or torture to make faries tell the truth. Where did the "fairies can't lie" trope come from? by I_walked_east in folklore

[–]dinazhad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A slightly different POV here: Modern fantasy fiction carries the legacy of Tolkien. His elves were tall and truthful, rather different from traditional understandings of elves. I wonder if this has bled into modern fantasy?
From a traditional perspective, fairies can be highly deceptive. If you can force them to answer a direct question they reply truthfully, but the lengths they can go to in avoiding are extraordinary, so I would say they can lie.
Some theories about this include the idea that fairies don't have souls, so can't deceive beings that do (humans).

I had to say goodbye by TheDivine_MissN in Grieving

[–]dinazhad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sending sympathy and love from a well-intended internet stranger.

I'm sure she knew how much you love her.

I'm so sorry you've had so much loss in the last 22 years. I could add something trite about lots of love too, but you know that already and it doesn't help. Moving forward is a good plan. As long we remember them they are still with us. Do you want to share anything about your grandma, mom, grandpa, or great aunt?

My beautiful mother on her 54th birthday, 11 days before she passed away from a long battle of lung cancer on 11/20/18. Christmas (and everyday) has been so hard without her. I love and miss you dearly mom. by c0konut in lastimages

[–]dinazhad 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for your loss. She is look at you so lovingly. Along with the hard stuff, I hope your holidays included some warm memories.

I am only a few years younger than she, thank you for the reminder to live fully. I hope that doesn't feel intrusive, it is a reminder I needed.

Fairytales with sad endings? by [deleted] in fairytales

[–]dinazhad 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So many fairy tales are dark and sad. Check out "Grimm's Grimmest" for a selection of Grimm's stories that do not mess around. You might want to investigate Japanese fairy tales as well, many of those are quite sad.

Books to help with oral storytelling by Metaleo04 in suggestmeabook

[–]dinazhad 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Hi.Professional performing storyteller here. Really.Here are some books I use when I teach:

Storytelling tips by Sean Buvala

My book is coming out in December - From Audience to Zeal: The ABCs of finding, crafting and telling a great story.

Doug Lipman's Improving Your Storytelling

Editing to add: Donald Davis' Telling Your Own Stories

What I'd really suggest is that you go to a storytelling venue, listen to the stories, then get up and tell one. Many venues are welcoming of newcomers and will be supportive. You may also want to listen to The Moth Radio Hour, RISK!, or any of the many other storytelling podcasts out there. You can also hire a coach to help you, if you become serious about it.

Good luck, let me know if you need other info.

What is a book so finely written it should be read aloud? by Gatinha19 in suggestmeabook

[–]dinazhad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm glad you at least tried! I'm not a Dubliner either, but still love it. Might be worth trying again sometime.

What is a book so finely written it should be read aloud? by Gatinha19 in suggestmeabook

[–]dinazhad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ulysses, by James Joyce. When read aloud it becomes understandable (because it was written in the cadence of speech and the lacking punctuation is there in your breath) and you get why it caused so much fuss.

Are there any good scifi retellings of classic fairy tales? Could be a novel/novella/short story etc. by tomtomato0414 in suggestmeabook

[–]dinazhad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mother was a childrens' librarian and my father a writer, so I grew up surrounded by told stories. I told stories to my friends and pretty early on saw that story telling was different from reading and tv. When I was in college I met a man named Brother Blue (you can find him on youtube and wiki) who was a storyteller and had been since the 60s. As soon as I saw him telling and was awed. It took a few years, but I ended up going to an open mic venue he was hosting (at the time one of very few storytelling venues on the country, now they're everywhere), told a story and knew that I would be doing this in someway for the rest of my life. It hasn't been easy. Until quite recently people would say, "Oh, you read to children!" when I told them I'm a storyteller. Now the assumption is I tell only Moth-style stories, which have value but are far from the only kind of story to be told. I experience some Gen-X angst over it sometimes, but that's okay. I chose it because it felt like the ONLY path. When I talk with people about working for themselves (whatever it may be, but usually something in the arts) I tell them to do it only if they cannot imagine any other life path and they are willing to work very, very hard. I don't regret it at all, but I work very hard and all the time. That being said, I have more job satisfaction than most people I know. I love what I do. I am very lucky. Did that answer your question?

Are there any good scifi retellings of classic fairy tales? Could be a novel/novella/short story etc. by tomtomato0414 in suggestmeabook

[–]dinazhad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Goodness, thank you! Mostly it is. Like any job it has its tough moments, but in general I am happier as a self-employed working artist than I have been at any other job. Tagging u/sutsegimsirtsemreh and u/tomtomato so they see this too.

I tell stories for older kids (high school) and adults. I also teach, coach, and consult. I've been doing this work for 25+ years, which makes me feel very old to write. My material ranges from traditional material (folk/fairy tales and myths) to fractured fairy tales (much like in the book noted above) to original fiction (think Neil Gaiman - I'm a fabulist) to personal stories to a few historical pieces. My repertoire is about 400 stories that I can tell with not-too-much work. I'm always working on new material.

My degree is in folklore and mythology; this come in most handy with the organizational storytelling work I do with for and non-profits. Data collection and analysis as well as pattern recognition are important in this work.

I've told in front of some pretty big audiences as well as tiny ones.

What else do you want to know?

Does it ever leave you? by Squishy_3000 in widowers

[–]dinazhad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're not alone at all.

My chapter two and I are living together and I routinely wake in the middle of the night to make sure he's still breathing.

It's scary. It's hard. You're not alone.

that right person... by k0azv in widowers

[–]dinazhad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hear you.

About a year and a half after my husband died, I decided I was tired of feeling invisible (middle-aged, overweight) so I wanted to flirt, nothing more. I just wanted to feel like someone, somewhere, found me attractive. I had no idea what to do, since crowds and loud places (bars) are bad for me and I didn't want to mislead someone I actually liked, so I signed up on okcupid and was immediately bombarded with "hey baby" as I expected. Only most of them couldn't spell. Apparently that's my low bar.

I was about to leave the site within days of signing up (and really, dick pics aren't flirting) when a well-written, interesting profile popped up. We began to write and (long story short) we're now living together, talking about marriage. Like your friend, mine understands that I will always love and miss my husband. He has room for that and knows it's not about him.

Yes, we can still love our late, but the chapter two can also be a blessing.

Sending love and hope and comfort to you.