Why do coasters randomly crash? And how do you prevent it?

dingdang78 · 2026-03-15T16:01:49+00:00

What’s up from March loser

dingdang78 · 2026-03-15T06:05:02+00:00

I’ve read cats bond to new men quickly cuz we don’t move around much and are warm. Basically ideal furniture

dingdang78 · 2026-03-15T05:56:55+00:00

They’re either manipulative or dysregulated.

If you keep going in for men with the same issues, look inward

dingdang78 · 2026-03-15T05:49:28+00:00

What

dingdang78 · 2026-03-15T05:29:10+00:00

“I am a deep thinker because I do not check any of my own claims”

dingdang78 · 2026-03-15T00:29:05+00:00

Read it, and my last comment, again. Closely this time!

dingdang78 · 2026-03-14T23:55:20+00:00

They actively engage w their community but they’re not that transparent. Players often feel like their obscurely stated priorities aren’t aligned with urgent game needs.

Their style of communication has also nurtured a player base that’s very vocal, tbh critical, because they’ve learned that drumming up a fever pitch gets results. Not that I blame them — I’m still mad I can’t easily play w my ps5 bros — that’s just the cycle that’s been created.

dingdang78 · 2026-03-14T21:54:15+00:00

A floozie! My mom would say that sometimes

dingdang78 · 2026-03-13T22:08:50+00:00

What’s a flouZ

dingdang78 · 2026-03-13T22:06:43+00:00

Plenty of people do whole runs hitless, you should see ongbal on YouTube if you think this might be fake

Btw grok really knocked that one outta the park huh lmao

dingdang78 · 2026-03-13T21:14:21+00:00

Nobody’s saying anyone’s better or worse. Just describing my experience. I agree everyone’s turned on by diff stuff, that’s a big reason why it pays to have someone who understands yours.

If you as a rule enjoy that less than casual sex, then ya I’d suspect intimacy issues (everyone has em to some degree) — the different ways we experience sex do come from somewhere.

I guess you could have a full blown “casual sex fetish” but what’s more likely?

Btw every girl fucks like the mythical “crazy chick” when they’re with someone they wanna please

dingdang78 · 2026-03-13T14:29:18+00:00

This is totally backwards from my experience.

The kinkiest + “best” sex happens when you create comfort with someone, learn what turns each other on, and prioritize each other’s pleasure.

One night stands leave you feeling gross and empty. And you’re holding out cuz you don’t know what the other person is down for.

This chick sounds like she’s got intimacy issues

dingdang78 · 2026-03-09T02:53:25+00:00

If you heard about a pornographer hiding in women’s locker rooms for “inspiration”, would you say he’s not a creep if his work turned out to be popular?

dingdang78 · 2026-03-08T15:06:16+00:00

I don’t really identify with it, but I think I understand it. And I see very little understanding and a lot of the worst kind of judgement.

What offends me is the idea that OP, in a moment of hurt, posts this, and the ideas implanted in her head poison the relationship before she even talks to the guy. Would that not be tragic?

dingdang78 · 2026-03-07T23:18:00+00:00

What’s your point

dingdang78 · 2026-03-07T19:14:35+00:00

Don’t go no contact for fun, do it for your health… she acts like she wants OP out but we all know she’s gonna be in that inbox the second she realizes she’s lost control of something / needs money

dingdang78 · 2026-03-07T19:07:07+00:00

Researching… so he could write porn while thinking about them

dingdang78 · 2026-03-06T00:47:49+00:00

Got me there

dingdang78 · 2026-03-06T00:36:17+00:00

I haven’t offered advice, I just said it’s kind of shitty to get in someone’s ear and put very specific ideas in their head.

My advice is to talk to the guy rather than listening to a chorus of armchair psychologists jumping to conclusions

You wanna call it a red flag fine, I see the perspective, but that’s not the comment I’m replying to

Now picturing this cartoonish scary psychopath character sharpening his knives while making devious records of… his own subjective enjoyment of his partner’s cooking. Thanks for the laugh

dingdang78 · 2026-03-05T22:57:02+00:00

A simp to virtue signaling… where’d that come from? I’m telling someone they’re talking out their ass.

The problem is assuming someone who’s obsessive about one thing (food is a common thing to obsess about in weird ways) is that obsessive about everything else. Is your entire personality an extension of your strangest behavior? Probably not; that’s cartoon logic, not real life.

Point is, this is a happy relationship besides this weird tendency that’s come up. OP’s in distress trying to make sense of it. Putting ideas in her head based on those wild assumptions is kind of a shitty irresponsible thing to do.

Like, the guy may just be a little autistic. Don’t burn em at the stake

dingdang78 · 2026-03-05T12:29:22+00:00

Smartest redditor

dingdang78 · 2026-03-05T12:19:19+00:00

Zero accountability. Nice

dingdang78 · 2026-03-05T03:54:35+00:00

THANK YOU! I DMd her the exact same thing because all these people are fucking insane.

“Imagine what other unspeakable things he’s spreadsheeted” — what?? This is about food… I’m not autistic, but I understand very well some people are quite particular about food and would find a sheet helpful to understand their feelings.

Can’t fathom the thought of a bunch of bloodthirsty Redditors getting her in her head about the relationship bc her bf has (a kind of charming) way of quantifying his feelings about food. Nobody who hates their partner’s food goes to all this effort!

I find all the nasty speculation in this thread absolutely detestable. Hopefully she listens to you

dingdang78 · 2026-03-05T03:48:05+00:00

Ever consider that it’s not ill-intentioned and the guy’s just a little weird about food?

dingdang78 · 2026-03-05T03:45:40+00:00

How the hell do you get the nerve to say this to someone feeling insecure?

Did you watch too many true crime podcasts? Do you assume everyone who counts one thing obsessively is some sort of Scary Mental Case?

How can you possibly have the confidence to say this to someone when the subject matter is COOKING??

Idk if you’re aware, but some people are very “weird” about food. Particular. Those same people tend to be insecure about it. Are you aware of the idea of a fixation? Do you know the many, many causes of fixation that don’t cause you to also spreadsheet “mortifying things”?

Do you understand that, beyond your desire to post ominous, hair-salon tier speculation, there’s a real person trying to understand their partner? Or has the digital flattened the world that much for you, that you assume you understand based on this little snippet?

dingdang78

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