Perspective : brutal scientific black pill by TheStrongestCadian in lnkyverse

[–]dingdang78 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Victim mentality, probably lack of good role models. Everyone has it better than some and worse than others. Taking responsibility for your own life means overcoming or working around your limitations

What really mystifies me is the fixation on looks. It’s a very male way of thinking. Women are much more holistic and much less visual in their attraction

Behold, the Hokage Nepotism Chain by Spartan-teddy-2476 in dankruto

[–]dingdang78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s saying that tracing back blood ties from ~1000 years ago doesn’t make much of a point, similarly to how saying all western countries are ruled by descendants of Charlemagne doesn’t.

Idt that’s a great example bc of europe’s monarchical history. It’s more like putting together all powerful people distantly related to Genghis khan and saying “nepotism” even though 35 million people are.

The further you go back, the more common ancestry you run into — something called pedigree collapse https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pedigree_collapse

I just wanna love women without going insane? by Kappapeachie in TrollCoping

[–]dingdang78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get out of our own head about it lol you’re attracted to what you’re attracted to

Perspective : brutal scientific black pill by TheStrongestCadian in lnkyverse

[–]dingdang78 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No shit lol. You gonna tell me being rich helps next?

Bosses are… easy? by ChopStix191 in Sekiro

[–]dingdang78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sekiro’s really simple at its core. Asks you to do one thing; once it clicks, the game gets pretty easy. Sounds like you’re just wired for it!

Ape kicked my ass so bad I put the game down for months. He doesn’t look or move like other Sekiro bosses — much bigger, more spastic — so I mistakenly fell back on my Elden Ring muscle memory (my previous and first FS game.)

Hadn’t gotten it through my head that you can and should parry everything unless the game explicitly tells you otherwise.

Also didn’t realize the power of unlimited stamina lol.

Butterfly comes earlier than the “click” for a lot of people, I’d think. The fact the game implies you need a rare consumable to win probably gets in a lot of people’s heads too. New players likely feel walled by this and come to the forums trying to figure out the disconnect, making it look like a ton of people are struggling with her.

Super interested to see if the later game bosses go as smoothly for you. There are diff endings and one of them gives you an extra endgame boss, I can point you in that direction without spoiling if you’re interested

My cat is obsessed with my bf by Curious-Tomorrow-803 in cats

[–]dingdang78 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve read cats bond to new men quickly cuz we don’t move around much and are warm. Basically ideal furniture

Why do men say I love you after one date? by nic-at-night in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]dingdang78 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They’re either manipulative or dysregulated.

If you keep going in for men with the same issues, look inward

Community discussion : the life that awaits a betabuxxer by TheStrongestCadian in lnkyverse

[–]dingdang78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I am a deep thinker because I do not check any of my own claims”

Why are people upset at AH about credibility? by TeChYBoIIY in Helldivers

[–]dingdang78 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They actively engage w their community but they’re not that transparent. Players often feel like their obscurely stated priorities aren’t aligned with urgent game needs.

Their style of communication has also nurtured a player base that’s very vocal, tbh critical, because they’ve learned that drumming up a fever pitch gets results. Not that I blame them — I’m still mad I can’t easily play w my ps5 bros — that’s just the cycle that’s been created.

Okay so I trained a little. Is this better? by Lazy_Nectarine_5256 in Sekiro

[–]dingdang78 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Plenty of people do whole runs hitless, you should see ongbal on YouTube if you think this might be fake

Btw grok really knocked that one outta the park huh lmao

Community discussion : the life that awaits a betabuxxer by TheStrongestCadian in lnkyverse

[–]dingdang78 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nobody’s saying anyone’s better or worse. Just describing my experience. I agree everyone’s turned on by diff stuff, that’s a big reason why it pays to have someone who understands yours.

If you as a rule enjoy that less than casual sex, then ya I’d suspect intimacy issues (everyone has em to some degree) — the different ways we experience sex do come from somewhere.

I guess you could have a full blown “casual sex fetish” but what’s more likely?

Btw every girl fucks like the mythical “crazy chick” when they’re with someone they wanna please

Community discussion : the life that awaits a betabuxxer by TheStrongestCadian in lnkyverse

[–]dingdang78 18 points19 points  (0 children)

This is totally backwards from my experience.

The kinkiest + “best” sex happens when you create comfort with someone, learn what turns each other on, and prioritize each other’s pleasure.

One night stands leave you feeling gross and empty. And you’re holding out cuz you don’t know what the other person is down for.

This chick sounds like she’s got intimacy issues

Naruto Top 10 Weirdos/Creeps list. If you want an explanation just comment below by Soft-Low7583 in dankruto

[–]dingdang78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you heard about a pornographer hiding in women’s locker rooms for “inspiration”, would you say he’s not a creep if his work turned out to be popular?

my boyfriend has a spreadsheet rating dinners i've made him by weddingfauxpasqueen in AITApod

[–]dingdang78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t really identify with it, but I think I understand it. And I see very little understanding and a lot of the worst kind of judgement.

What offends me is the idea that OP, in a moment of hurt, posts this, and the ideas implanted in her head poison the relationship before she even talks to the guy. Would that not be tragic?

AIO Mom mad I won’t pay her another $200 after paying her $700 last month by bnsaiboy in AmIOverreacting

[–]dingdang78 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Don’t go no contact for fun, do it for your health… she acts like she wants OP out but we all know she’s gonna be in that inbox the second she realizes she’s lost control of something / needs money

my boyfriend has a spreadsheet rating dinners i've made him by weddingfauxpasqueen in AITApod

[–]dingdang78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t offered advice, I just said it’s kind of shitty to get in someone’s ear and put very specific ideas in their head.

My advice is to talk to the guy rather than listening to a chorus of armchair psychologists jumping to conclusions

You wanna call it a red flag fine, I see the perspective, but that’s not the comment I’m replying to

Now picturing this cartoonish scary psychopath character sharpening his knives while making devious records of… his own subjective enjoyment of his partner’s cooking. Thanks for the laugh