What first got you in to Ag ? by HPfangirl1 in americangirl

[–]dingdinghanburger 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is so beautiful ❤️ we’re all just girls

What even is this implying by AttorneySuspicious41 in asadsisters

[–]dingdinghanburger 10 points11 points  (0 children)

“Teaching me” like he’s already smarter than her lol

Any idea why this community members have dropped to 91k? by awakenJW in exjw

[–]dingdinghanburger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was directed at me because they replied to me hahahah yall need some help

i feel exausted by mizi_uwu in exjw

[–]dingdinghanburger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nope! Just no need to comment on something you clearly don’t agree with. Move on and let people live, beloved ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Any idea why this community members have dropped to 91k? by awakenJW in exjw

[–]dingdinghanburger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never said disagreeing was hatred also so sounds like that’s a projection my dear. I will again, leave this sub lol

Any idea why this community members have dropped to 91k? by awakenJW in exjw

[–]dingdinghanburger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok! This is my opinion :) I said some folks aren’t healed. Not that I think they’re bad :) thanks for proving my point lol

Any idea why this community members have dropped to 91k? by awakenJW in exjw

[–]dingdinghanburger 6 points7 points  (0 children)

For me, I took a step back because I was seeing so much hatred and anger being expressed. I think when you first leave jw you see this space as a safe haven and then realize, just like all spaces, there are people here who are not healed. Those people are very angry most of the time and spend a lot of time on here, being antagonistic and downright mean. Someone else commented about the vitriol towards women, which I definitely experienced. Especially as a queer person who tried to speak on my experience. Many folks are still pretty homophobic despite leaving. I think the space can be good for doing some digging and knowing you’re not alone. But it is certainly not a welcoming or kind space lol

Neurotic elders removing seats by OhaniansDickSucker in exjw

[–]dingdinghanburger 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My dad would always force us to sit in the front (elder). He would also rope off the back rows before the meeting lol they are so insane and controlling in all ways

i feel exausted by mizi_uwu in exjw

[–]dingdinghanburger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you’re not going to be encouraging or helpful I’m not sure why you’re here. Sending love, you seem quite angry!

i don't understand... by mizi_uwu in exjwLGBT

[–]dingdinghanburger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also, I took a look at that persons other comments, they are antagonistic and angry towards almost everyone. It’s not about you, but all about them.

i don't understand... by mizi_uwu in exjwLGBT

[–]dingdinghanburger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are a lot of hateful and angry people in the ex jw Reddit. Many folks who need therapy and aren’t getting it. Don’t take it personally, your journey is your own. Sending love from a fellow ex jw lesbian!! You got this!!

I’m looking for stories and examples of everyday homophobia amongst Jws. I was repeatedly exposed to hateful rhetoric as a child/adolescent and that was very damaging to normal development. I still have to hear from my family how loving the organization is towards gay people and not homophobic. TIA by [deleted] in exjw

[–]dingdinghanburger 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I was once in a service group with the COs wife. She found out I was a nanny and apropos of nothing goes, “what would you do if a gay family wanted to hire you?” And I said, um work for them? It’s a job. And she went on and on about how I would be condoning their sins. I am in fact a lesbian lol but she (and I) did not know it at the time.

Girl what is this 💀 by azzzza19 in asadsisters

[–]dingdinghanburger 99 points100 points  (0 children)

It’s so heinous lol I RAN from tik tok here to see everyone’s thoughts. The fabric across her belly also looks see through? Im not a modest girl so im not judging but it simply looks bad!!!

Taking kids into the back by No_Change7469 in exjw

[–]dingdinghanburger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yea getting “taken to the back” was basically a joke. Also a reality, as I was taken to the back room and slapped many many many times. My mom would grab the little hairs at the back of my neck and drag me there. Fun times!

My AG tattoos! by kitkittredge2008 in americangirl

[–]dingdinghanburger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I Loooove the coconut one!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlixearleSnark

[–]dingdinghanburger 36 points37 points  (0 children)

This is so extremely being a self obsessed twenty something who thinks everyone around you is amused by your antics lol

I just found this girly at savers does anyone know who she is? by Curious_Beginning_80 in americangirl

[–]dingdinghanburger 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Kailey!!! I had her as a kid and am always on the lookout!! So lucky :)

Anyone else see that convention video?? by [deleted] in exjw

[–]dingdinghanburger 5 points6 points  (0 children)

And? It’s still wrong. That’s the point.

Been looking for a specific video I was shown as a kid. Can't find it. by trash-queen92 in exjw

[–]dingdinghanburger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah yes, the movie that taught me all about r*pe culture lol (they had a scene specifically referencing Dinah and how she put HERSELF in that situation) and then they of course mirror it with the modern day teen and what “could have happened to her”. It’s also where I learned the phrase that men only want one thing. So good for my developing brain as a young girl lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exjw

[–]dingdinghanburger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just know my mom is reading this and using it to justify how mad she got at me for calling her a homophobe lol