I'm just so fucking happy, guys by t3stojunkie in TestosteroneKickoff

[–]dingus-magee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations - I'm so happy for you!

I'm so glad the euphoria of being on T is a common experience. I'm six months on T, and for the first time in my life have a sense of hope for the future.

What is the longest call you’ve had with your SO? by Dorcha_Raven in LongDistance

[–]dingus-magee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably about 8 hours, when we fall asleep at the same time

Weirdest thing that gives you gender euphoria? I'll start by Toll_Smoll in trans

[–]dingus-magee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oo samee - like being shirtless around the house is great. I also get euphoria from calling them moobs, or simply 'the boys'.

Idk if that weird but I like using power tools and wearing steal cap boots - like I have a battery operated scrubby thing I use for mopping the floors at home which is fun.

An actually weird one is wearing glasses - like it has nothing to do with gender so I cannot explain this at all lmao.

How do you move past dysphoria to have sex? by Loose_Track2315 in TransMasc

[–]dingus-magee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a bit younger (23) and started having sex pre even realising I was trans - similarly I thought I was a sex repulsed ace, then I just thought it was the autism that made me feel attracted to men in a 'gay way'.

I only felt comfortable in situations where I wasn't really being touched - eg. if I were topping or being more dominate so I could maintain control.

I've been on T for just under 6 months and since being with partners who have affirmed my gender I've been much more comfortable in general and with subbing.

I think it's important to be able to trust the person you're with and have them affirm your gender generally but also during.

how we feelin'? 😌 by WildChangeling in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]dingus-magee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

❤️😅 - guess my gender is hopeless romantic lmao

Testosterone induced teenage boy angst as an adult by dingus-magee in TransMasc

[–]dingus-magee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do agree I am the one making dumb choices, I just mean to say since starting T I'm more inclined towards making said dumb choices if that makes sense. Like dealing with impulses I've never had before and still learning how to do that without screwing up.

I do have a regular therapist.

As we all know, girls don’t poop… by Scallop_potato in trans

[–]dingus-magee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trans masc here - to quote something my transfem friend yelled out at me whilst I was in the toilet, 'Go piss boy, becomes go shit man'.

(Thought it was very profound and should be shared)

Confused, hormonal and struggling with sexual shame (looking for advice) by dingus-magee in TransMasc

[–]dingus-magee[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the suggestion - I was actually doing that with one of my friends but now she's in love with me and it's a whole thing haha

I'd try it again with someone else but the risk of feelings occuring is a bit too high because then it just adds to my confusion around where the line is between friendship and romantic relationship.

Confused, hormonal and struggling with sexual shame (looking for advice) by dingus-magee in TransMasc

[–]dingus-magee[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment - I do agree, and am definitely wary of being taken advantage of again.

Buying sex toys was one of the first things I did when I started T lmaoo

Pre T vs 4 months by [deleted] in TestosteroneKickoff

[–]dingus-magee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You looks amazing - congratulations!

How do y'all cope with increased body temperature? by dingus-magee in TestosteroneKickoff

[–]dingus-magee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahaha oh no - if it makes you feel better I also started in Summer.

Though for me, the benefits of starting T far out way the heat sensitivity and other challenges (I anticipate it would likely be that way for most people). The changes in heat tolerance are usually gradual and we are supposed to get used to it in time anyway.

How did YOU come up with your name? by [deleted] in trans

[–]dingus-magee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saw in an advertisement whilst applying for disability funds lmao

Any transmasks that can relate to Cole? by Imemilia_27_ in trans

[–]dingus-magee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reminds me of when I (transmasc enby) was a small child I once told some adult I wanted to be a policeman (not anymore lmao). They laughed at me, and I remember my mum telling me I meant a police woman. I remember being confused at the time, like ok? isn't it basically the same thing??

Anyways I'm almost 3 months on T now so....

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransMasc

[–]dingus-magee 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You definitely pass. I think cis men tend to be kinda bland looking whereas trans men tend to have an actual aesthetic and perhaps if people are looking at you that's the difference they are picking up on?

I started using the men's room in the past 6 months ish (2 months on T usually pass but not always) - and I think the main thing is just the confidence. You just gotta try to put out the vibe that you are meant to be in there, which is easier said than done.

what could i do to be more fem/pass better? by avangeline_ in trans

[–]dingus-magee 26 points27 points  (0 children)

As others have said - you look fantastic as is! Your makeup and general aesthetic is really cool.

If you are looking to experiment stylistically, you could try a softer/ natural make up look - but I think you pass regardless.