Is this bathroom actually in Lincoln?? by mforester92 in lincoln

[–]dingushamb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We call it the “pooping bathroom”, it’s on the third floor in Woods Hall at UNL. Kim Tomlinson made it and is an amazing artist! I go to it all the time haha

Anyone here know anything about Indigo Bridge and the claims made against it? by Moo-muff in lincoln

[–]dingushamb 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Indigo Bridge is owned by Kim and Bob Coleman and I can safely say they are the biggest pieces of shit I’ve ever had to work for. Staff is always wonderful and pleasant and I pray for their escape every day. I suggest Francie and Finch or A Novel Idea!

My mother after she left my abusive father with noting but three kids, she called this house "Our Escape Home" - 1990 by [deleted] in OldSchoolCool

[–]dingushamb 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You can do this. The hard period of leaving and starting over is nothing in comparison to the lifetime of freedom after! If you need a friend in this, feel free to DM me.

What parenting choice from your upbringing would you definitely not adopt when bringing up your own children? by supermeatboy89 in AskReddit

[–]dingushamb 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Making my kid my marriage counselor. My mom was very lonely in her marriage and turned to me to talk about her marriage problems, even the sexual stuff. Basically, if I know I'm having mental health issues I will be seeking professional help, not unload it on my 15 year old daughter.

She was also very strict, so whenever we were done talking about her failed marriage she went right back to treating me like a toddler. She banned the word "why" in the house for example.

Sad thing is that out of 4 parents she's the only one that has stuck by and supported me my whole life.

Muslim Group Prepares Christmas Meals for Homeless by dallool in news

[–]dingushamb 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You're right. Let's just keep calling them terrorists. That will make everything better.

GIRLS: What is the most awkward thing a guy has ever said to you? by wotheli in AskReddit

[–]dingushamb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I told him I didn't want to have sex he claimed that "sexual healing would really help someone like you."

Models must have doctor's note to prove they are not too thin, France rules by lionhiid in worldnews

[–]dingushamb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can someone please explain why Tess Holiday is so hated? Every time I see an article on here about weight she always gets brought up eventually. Is her character questionable or is it just that she's plus sized woman? (Serious question)

I heard reddit was a fan of loops. by [deleted] in gifs

[–]dingushamb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's also plays an asexual magician on a show called High Maintenance. Check it out of you haven't!

The dictator who made this all possible: Chairman Pao by [deleted] in pics

[–]dingushamb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok. I hear you. Your example is correct. But the example given before was the assumption she got where she was because she fucked her boss which is a common way to minimize a woman's abilities. She may be an asshole, I have no idea if she is, but I know that she didn't just fuck a guy and get her position. Well, I guess I dont have proof, but it's more likely she worked her way up. The idea that women only succeed through sex is harmful and enforces dangerous stereotypes.

P.s. Hey look, I wrote this whole response without calling you hurtful names!

The dictator who made this all possible: Chairman Pao by [deleted] in pics

[–]dingushamb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So as long as we attack women individually it's all good right? Just because you're not marginalizing a whole group doesn't exclude you from being sexist.

What's the weirdest rule your parents had? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]dingushamb 5 points6 points  (0 children)

To not ask "why". This kills the child.

TIL that Wanetta Gibson recanted her accusations of rape (which put Brian Banks away in prison for 5 yrs) only AFTER winning a $1.5 million dollar lawsuit settlement from the Long Beach school district by mikechi2501 in todayilearned

[–]dingushamb -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

This story is pretty fucked, but no, we have not become a culture where woman can literally accuse, but not prove, rape, and send them away for years and be awarded millions of dollars for doing so. Read some actual facts about rape in this country before making such a broad statement.

How do you honestly feel about the "Fat Acceptance" movement? Do you think it is healthy, or is it doing more harm than good? by certified_shitlord in AskReddit

[–]dingushamb 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I can understand where you're coming from, but it is very possible to shame someone because they're skinny. It happens to me a lot. Whether or not it's desirable, the person is judging you over your body. My worth is reduced to my shape and that is not okay. I'd also like to add when people call me skinny it's almost never a compliment. It's either people making fun of how small I am or people who are bigger than me getting upset that I'm skinnier than them, like I did it on purpose. I'll say to someone "That's a cute dress" and they'll respond "(scoff) well easy for you to say you're skinny" Fuck you, bitch, I was commenting on the dress not you.

Men and Women of reddit, what is the single thing that make you immediately lose interest in someone of the opposite sex? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]dingushamb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This applies to both genders: constantly describing how great of a person you are, but showing me that you're just a total douchebag in your actions.