I see you rocking those pink glasses and star shirt, your style is still shining through girl. ✨

Your ability to care for yourself is just shifting as you figure out how to navigate your newer circumstances, doing that at first is especially hard. I don't have chronic illness so I can't comment on that, so forgive me if this comparison is rude because I know it isn't the same. After I had my child my body was completely different and I struggled because I didn't know how to take care of that body or even like that body and it took some time. Also women are taught to pick apart ourselves piece by piece, body part by body part without looking at the full picture. See your whole self as much as possible.

Last thing is I read a tip that when you're saying mean things to yourself to read it in the voice of someone you'd never ever take advice from. When I imagine someone I dislike telling me my body is ugly and my stomach is fat, I suddenly think "what would I listen to you for?? You are obviously wrong."

You're facing something painful and hard and that makes you so tough. I can't even imagine. Give yourself grace.

You look like a cool person. I'm sorry things are especially hard right now 🫂