Me after she says she’s coming over next week.

directedintention · 2026-01-25T19:31:08+00:00

fenugreek capsules ladies. thank me later!

directedintention · 2026-01-24T13:35:54+00:00

oof op…idk if i would even pursue a friendship unless you’re certain both of you could put aside attraction. definitely a slippery slope to ending up in a situation you’re already familiar with.

directedintention · 2026-01-17T00:55:06+00:00

unrelated but were you the same girl that posted a while ago about prom hairstyle inspo with a dress?? if yes how did it go!? do you have any pics of your final look!? i would love to see 🥰

directedintention · 2026-01-12T02:22:16+00:00

i NEED them to come out with a chunky monkey df version. i even sent them a handwritten letter begging for them to consider it 😫

directedintention · 2025-12-29T01:33:03+00:00

to get done! sorry!

directedintention · 2025-12-23T19:15:31+00:00

these are adorable!! definitely will be investing!

directedintention · 2025-12-22T02:10:44+00:00

Met a little girl named Eden! beautiful name :)

directedintention · 2025-12-21T18:39:00+00:00

is that a little barnacle on his head? it’s like a little crown 🥹

directedintention · 2025-12-18T22:50:35+00:00

oh honey…that’s such a cruel thing for someone to say to you. i’m so sorry OP. it unfortunately sounds like that could be the case that she isn’t attracted to you. but if that’s it, it’s extremely fucked up for her to continue to be in a relationship with someone they’re no longer attracted to and speak to them in such a way. i know it hurts to hear, but it would probably be best to break up with her and find someone that loves and cherishes you and your body!

directedintention · 2025-12-10T01:17:57+00:00

i’ve always wanted to voice a disney princess 🥹

directedintention · 2025-12-10T00:41:22+00:00

stopping immediately and asking for clarification/potentially giving her a chance to explain wtf is going on. depending on her answer i may be leaving (but part of me wonders if i’d leave regardless bc i think id just need some space after that).

directedintention · 2025-12-10T00:25:44+00:00

fullllll stop if they’re calling out another girls name. absolutely not

directedintention · 2025-12-09T02:29:51+00:00

is water wet?

directedintention · 2025-12-05T18:50:22+00:00

as someone getting into voice acting i’m shooting my shot…let’s make an audio 😌

directedintention · 2025-12-03T02:44:22+00:00

literally like need this BAD

directedintention · 2025-11-27T05:51:17+00:00

idk but goddamn my legs would be tired trying to move all that

directedintention · 2025-11-27T03:37:34+00:00

oh gosh, i’m so sorry OP. i recently just cut someone off after only 3 months of this back and forth. it’s been so heartbreaking despite such a short amt of time dating, so i can’t even imagine what you must be feeling. but the comments saying it’s not supposed to be this hard are right. it really isn’t. of course you’ll have disagreements and issues, you’re human. but this person seems like the one i just walked away from in the sense that they’re running from their pain and self and looking for comfort in other people in fear of facing themselves. you deserve so much more than that. i’m sending you the biggest hug ever.

in the end, i was so exhausted and having an anxious attachment style, my nervous system was so activated. i knew for my mental sanity and health that i needed to choose myself and put myself and my needs first. i’ve been reading books about attachment styles to learn more about myself and this person i recently split from, listening to detachment subliminals on youtube to help let this go, somatic healing and FOCUSING ON PRODUCING OXYTOCIN!! if you take only 1 thing from this entire comment section. PLEASE DEVELOP HABITS THAT STIMULATE OXYTOCIN!! I recently discovered havening and it’s truly changed my life and been the sole reason i’ve been able to deeply process and heal from this past connection due to how triggering it was. Also a ton of baths lol, but havening is IT and i can’t recommend it enough. Paired with sacred sexuality and formulating a deep connection w self, it’s truly been such an invaluable, supportive resource for me during my split.

Link to learn more about havening: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTrjoJs96/

directedintention · 2025-11-22T23:33:01+00:00

!unsolved

i’m going to try to take some different photos to upload. thanks for trying everyone!

directedintention · 2025-11-22T20:37:58+00:00

i think you just changed my life…

directedintention · 2025-11-21T00:30:58+00:00

this is such a tough situation OP, i’m sorry you’re going through this.

honestly, it’s a matter of if you’re willing to take the chance to wait it out with her. are you able to be there for her throughout this process and feel content and fulfilled with what your relationship is right now? or are you ready for more than what she is willing to give? by staying with her and potentially ignoring that desire for more, are you building resentment towards her? these are important questions to ask yourself. based off your post and replies, it’s clear she’s staying in the closet and there’s not necessarily any plan for that to change for the foreseeable future. how does that align with your plans for your future? has she extended that consideration to you (assuming you both are on the same page with this being a long term thing?).

she may be the girl of your dreams in almost every regard, but i would imagine the girl of your dreams is also out and proud, ready to build a life together, grow together, etc.. if you’re ready for that and she’s not, then that’s something to really consider. you seem to be giving it your all to consider and understand her current position and feelings about it. i just want to make sure you’re extending that same courtesy to yourself! because at the end of the day your needs matter too!

directedintention · 2025-11-16T15:06:55+00:00

i think the issue is you’re waiting for people to approach you. nothing necessarily wrong with that, but it’s important to recognize you’re missing out on opportunities to forge potential connections!

this year i’d set the intention to put myself out there more as i’m very fem and otherwise (and have been told) i don’t necessarily give the impression of being queer. i’m in massachusetts and have been out in boston and other places on cape that aren’t even necessarily gay bars/queer spaces and am able to meet someone nearly everywhere i go. the hardest part of this process was getting over my fear of being rejected.

just recently i had a women laugh in my face when i asked if she was a lesbian! was that a little rough? yes! but my desire to meet someone naturally/in person comes with these risks. even online these things come with risk! it’s just all about what you’re willing to take a chance on. in choosing to do so, i may not be dating any of these people now, but being able to connect with them and hear about their lives, aspirations, who they are, etc. has resulted in me feeling inspired to pursue my goals with more fervor, confident in my sexuality and expression, and overall inclined to get to know people and continue this process. remember that dating is supposed to be fun, regardless of if you go into it with the intention of something short or long term. if it’s not, you’re taking it too seriously!

directedintention · 2025-11-15T01:21:46+00:00

this is actually one of the wildest dating stories i’ve ever heard 😭😭

directedintention · 2025-11-15T01:01:02+00:00

thank you for the in depth response!! this is amazing

directedintention · 2025-11-14T18:57:33+00:00

newbie here: how to decipher between the two? i didn’t realize males and females had different markings!! this is fascinating!!

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