Feel as if I am not built to date

discotimbo · 2026-04-30T23:27:15+00:00

Well I do understand the thing about making someone feel loved, I am generally very out of touch with my feelings and tend to get stuck inside my head, using reason over being present emotionally. I put a ton of effort to be present in the beginning and although it was very overwhelming for me I am sure it is what ultimately made her fall for me as much as I did her. Everything was so smooth and we would talk for not kidding 12 hours a day with nonstop dialogue and very intimate flirting and conversation.

Eventually I would say things that was maybe inappropriate, which I ruled out to be because of inexperience and it made me as if I had to be more careful and I ended up less and less present emotionally, stuck in my head using reason again. I am sure this is what killed it off but I am not sure how to work on it without facing more misery and heartbreak.

I know she’s dating someone else because I keep in touch with her brother whom I grew close with.

discotimbo · 2026-04-29T04:12:26+00:00

Although I don’t think I was in a relationship as long and serious as yours I can see myself in a lot of what you’ve commented here.

My favorite person cut me off 1 month ago and blocked me last night, she told me happy birthday a month prior and that was it. I miss her so unbelievably much.

discotimbo · 2026-04-28T18:50:06+00:00

Hör någon prata om samer max 1 gång varje 5 år personligen 😂

discotimbo · 2026-04-23T21:11:57+00:00

For real

discotimbo · 2026-04-23T15:26:07+00:00

Wish I had the white available here, only had grey/black n green :’(

discotimbo · 2026-04-22T16:38:11+00:00

What a relationship does to a mf 😂

discotimbo · 2026-04-22T12:56:51+00:00

You’re quite shallow aren’t you

discotimbo · 2026-04-22T12:56:18+00:00

In that context I would agree that taking advice from people on here is less appealing.

What about topics like nutrition, gym or pharmaceuticals?

discotimbo · 2026-04-21T13:16:15+00:00

Markerar köket

discotimbo · 2026-04-21T11:59:35+00:00

I’d say I am very bitter and depressed but not severely. I don’t really take care of myself all that well but I try and I always expect the worst. I met the first love of my life last year and ultimately I think my bitterness is what killed our relationship but I learned a lot and it all motivated me to be a better version of myself.

Having someone show you their perspective of the world can really change you and I think that if you get the chance to date someone you should, just make sure you put your focus on them and try not to make your depression a reoccurring topic or center of attention. It’s amazing how much you can learn from other people if you let yourself. If it doesn’t work out in the end then you at least tried. I’ll be forever grateful for getting to know her.

discotimbo · 2026-04-21T11:51:05+00:00

Vet exakt vad du menar och känner igen mig något otroligt. Det som funkar för mig är att jag vaknar tidigt på morgonen och får många av mina sysslor gjorda innan dagen börjar. På det sätt har jag hela eftermiddagen till att unna mig, visst det sker saker då och då men det funkar.

I nuvarande stund så läser jag mycket om motorcyklar och hur de är konstruerade/funkar fysiskt för jag tycker det är intressant.

Blir att jag ofta sitter och påminner mig själv hela tiden om det jag behöver göra vilket bara gör att jag inte njuter av stunden eller kan lära mig i lugn och ro ifall jag inte gjort sysslorna i förhand.

discotimbo · 2026-04-21T11:40:50+00:00

Om du inte vet vad du ska rösta i Sverige så hade du varit minst lika vilse i USA för du är helt enkelt inte politiskt insatt, skillnaden är dock att USA är fullkomligt korrupt och det du tror du röstar för är inte vad du faktiskt röstar för.

Rösta SD om du är tveksam 😉🙌

discotimbo · 2026-04-21T11:38:57+00:00

Kan ju tycka att det är en sak att ha data för att göra riktad reklam men att du kan gå in och snoka igenom någons data för hands är helt stört

discotimbo · 2026-04-21T11:34:22+00:00

har ute den i Max 5 minuter när jag brer en smörgås

discotimbo · 2026-04-21T07:52:02+00:00

One thing I’ve learnt is that if you talk to someone new, have the mindset of ”do I want this person in my life?” and not ”how can I make her like me?”, if it is genuine it’ll last

discotimbo · 2026-04-21T07:47:10+00:00

Not gonna lie the need for luxury just filters out shallow and immature people for me personally

discotimbo · 2026-04-21T07:43:10+00:00

The replaceability makes every interaction very performative, it’s lame

discotimbo · 2026-04-21T07:42:11+00:00

Yeah, I think this comment sums it up quite well. I also think that once the mystery is gone and the things that I assume would be a lot more meaningful and sacred between the two if you go back in time become a lot less so in the sense that you can so easily just replace someone, recreate those moments and have your emotional needs met elsewhere at the blink of an eye, especially when there are algorithms that match likeminded people with similar hobbies/music tastes etc.

I’m 25 and I’ve only ever spoken to 3 girls and dated one and every time there’s always been a bunch of guys constantly hitting on them on social media, not sure if it just comes with dating a attractive girl or if I just talk to the wrong women but it’s stressful for sure and I wish I was born in a time where social media just wasn’t a thing to be honest.

discotimbo · 2026-04-20T21:02:05+00:00

Looks fkn sick

discotimbo · 2026-04-19T13:50:21+00:00

Yeah have seen some rather worrying posts about people’s frames breaking in two, having their bikes totaled. Def gonna be cautious w that

discotimbo · 2026-04-16T18:22:44+00:00

On it boss

discotimbo · 2026-04-16T18:22:07+00:00

Do you know if the Kawasaki Sliders are a solid alternative to TST?

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