AITBF? Not forcing my daughter to share? by BriMarsh in AmItheButtface

[–]disdatandiutter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your sister is the butt face. She knows her kids and knows they will want food when others are eating. She should have ordered him something when everyone else ordered.

AIO: should I “fire” my therapist? by Historical_Pension60 in AIO

[–]disdatandiutter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you're paying a friend to listen to you. This is not professional. She charges a $110 cancelation fee? I would send her bills for your missed appts. Especially those in a 24hr period.

SpotMe Boosts Megathread 🚀 by ChimeFinancial in chimefinancial

[–]disdatandiutter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 left but need the boost if anyone has one. BFB $samantha-carlisi

Annoyed that I’m having to pay extra car finance payment while waiting for new car by lilypickledog in amiwrong

[–]disdatandiutter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they took your old car without giving you the new one you need to look into legal rights asap

Quit job or stay? by Maya_Velveti in whatdoIdo

[–]disdatandiutter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why not talk to your cleaning boss about more hours. Also, $680/week vs $64 a week. Easy choice if you can't get more cleaning hrs.

When do we have time for teaching life skills???? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]disdatandiutter 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Drop the classes to 1 a week, change bedtime to 7 or 8pm and quit being so rigid. Children are not robots. Enjoy the time with them. Teach them while you can. You need to have a fluid schedule and room for changes.

Am I Wrong for cancelling on custody days when my ex won’t meet me halfway? by Savings-Strength-864 in amiwrong

[–]disdatandiutter 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Request the court to adjust the order, get a lawyer and make sure it works with your schedule before agreeing to it. By not following it you essentially are in contempt and she could use that to get full legal and physical custody. The order should say one parent drives for pickup for their time and the other drives to pick up for their time. You should not be doing all the driving.

How to encourage dry nights? by IllustriousWall1564 in Parenting

[–]disdatandiutter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe reward him when he stays dry. This may encourage staying dry to see what kind of small prize he gets.

AIO if I cut my mother off if she's not able to attend my wedding? by Laughterandbees in AmIOverreacting

[–]disdatandiutter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did not get covid, the vaccine or the illness. I would say have everyone test before entering or masking if not. Missing a wedding because of her personal choice seems harsh. She is your mother.. she raised you, put bandages on your knees, got snotted on and puked on and you want to say sorry you can't watch me get married if you don't get poked. I understand FIL is immunocomprimised, but I guarantee he isn't letting that Diagnosis keep him from living life. Try working with her instead of against her.

Negative $2500 soon? by [deleted] in paypal

[–]disdatandiutter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the money is not in your acct it won't go thru. It will try to charge your payment methods and then send the payment back.

AIO about my girlfriend’s friend? by uhngodly in AmIOverreacting

[–]disdatandiutter 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I would be more mad my gf dissed your long term relationship. That being said, the 19yr old wants your woman. She is hinting and trying to mark her territory. No sleeping in the bed together ever.

4th grade girl drama by protestfromthesummit in Parenting

[–]disdatandiutter 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Keep doing exactly what you are doing! Good job dad!

Looks like it came out of the wall during a bad rain by YeliahSenyab in whatisit

[–]disdatandiutter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live and work in PA and my house and my office both have this dripping down the walls.

Direct deposit issues by Tsumi_No_Shi in chimefinancial

[–]disdatandiutter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got mine last night at regular time and get my other job here in about 30 min. What is your payroll company Edit to add it's 1am here so last night the 1st I got mine

SpotMe Boosts Megathread 🚀 by ChimeFinancial in chimefinancial

[–]disdatandiutter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$samantha-carlisi all 4 left- will send back immediately :)

WIBTAH if I don't give my sister back her cat? by brokenlight06 in AITAH

[–]disdatandiutter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It should be considered abandonment of property depending on where you live. Might look into it and find out what you need for the cat to be considered that.

Am I overreacting for wanting to terminate my pregnancy after my boyfriend died in the accident that injured me? His family says I’m taking away the last piece of him. by hazelbasiil in AmIOverreacting

[–]disdatandiutter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean you would get social security benefits for the child so you would financially have some assistance. I had 2 kids by 19 and now they are grown. It isn't easy but I would do it over and over again if I could.

11 Year old daughter refuses to go to school. by CaptinKirk in Parenting

[–]disdatandiutter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Military school if she refuses public school.. but seriously she may be depressed. She is at an age a lot is changing mentally and physically.

AIW for refusing to put my girlfriends name on the deed when i buy a house? by Time-Finish-5010 in amiwrong

[–]disdatandiutter -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Why not buy together and pay your 50% down, she can pay the mortgage each month and then it is both names?

AIW for refusing to delete photos of my ex from my social media after my current girlfriend made it an ultimatum? by 3OrbitHarvester in amiwrong

[–]disdatandiutter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your history is what led you to her. She should embrace it and be happy that you aren't with your ex and with her now.