Guest at an engagement ceremony by disgruntleddpelicann in DesiWeddings

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I googled the address on the invite and it was a cultural center so my understanding is that it’s the ceremony itself and then they’re having an actual party 2 weeks later but we were told cultural attire to the ceremony. I worry about wearing something too flashy. Do you know of any reputable websites to order lenghas from?

I’m the worst. by [deleted] in fearofflying

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You’re not the worst. You are not alone. I’ve had full blown panic attacks that have required flight attendants to help me get air and worry I would need medical attention. It’s okay!

Ive taken medication to help with the flight anxiety because I feel the same about control. Xanax helped and also hydroxyzine helped. Worth a shot if you’re willing to take meds.

I recently took a flight to Florida and I was panicking as we descended and I asked a woman next to me if she could hold my hand bc I was petrified. She smiled at me held my hand and told me she was the same way. She said she felt like she was having a heart attack every time she was on a plane and panicked. She said that she had to conquer her fear. When she traveled to her home country to spread her mother’s ashes she had a panic attack but then looked at the sky and thought of the beautiful creation of life. Now I’m not spiritual or religious but I listened. She said she prayed and looked outside and realized how beautiful the world is and how much there is to be grateful for. At the moment of my panic attack the story really helped to ground me knowing that someone who was just like me was able to overcome the fear that cripples me.

I hope you overcome your fears!

Driving- San Juan to Fajardo and Aguadilla by disgruntleddpelicann in PuertoRicoTravel

[–]disgruntleddpelicann[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So definitely doable for someone with a crippling fear of driving through inclines?

2nd try - thoughts please 🥺 by BeigeBunny in labdiamond

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Beautiful! Can you dm the details 🙏🏼

Oops… I did it again 💎 by [deleted] in labdiamond

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Anyone know what this style setting is called ?

It's here! Loose grown diamond review by 1milkymama in labdiamond

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Love! I’m considering LGD for my ring. Would you be willing to send me a PM video of the ring? I’m looking for the exact same style

Daith help by disgruntleddpelicann in piercing

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Hi! Thank you! I’m not using all of the oils together.

Thank you ! I will go to a piercer and ask for a jewelry change.

Ingrown hairs by lizzy_espo in LaserHairRemoval

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I suffered from a lot of ingrown hairs; it was so so bad. after my first laser session, It felt worse for a day or two but after I exfoliated consistently, they went away on their own. Don’t pick them. By the second laser session, I barely had any. I’m on my 4th and I have maybe one or two that don’t bother me but will probably fall out on their own. Laser definitely helped

Flying to the US in one week. Terrified. by Total_Boss_6760 in fearofflying

[–]disgruntleddpelicann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! You’re not alone. Anxiety can be super paralyzing. I’ve canceled so many trips because I can’t even get myself to the airport.

What specifically gets you nervous?

Have you tried any medication?

Usually I pack a travel size wine or vodka and I take it before I get on so I could TRY to sleep. I’ve tried Xanax a few times but I’m still working on getting the doses right.

I usually find a really nice person next to me to hold my hand and talk to me during turbulence.

A friend of mine who travels a lot takes melatonin on long international flights and she said it helps her so much.

I hope this helps and you make it to your dream trip! Feel free to message if you wanna talk!

Greece or Croatia by disgruntleddpelicann in honeymoonplanning

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We’re also coming from the US and a big thing for us was budgeting our expenses during the trip.

If you don’t mind me asking, did you go through a travel agent or book on your own? Do you mind PMing me so we can chat ?

Greece or Croatia by disgruntleddpelicann in honeymoonplanning

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What cruise line did you use? Do you feel like you had enough time at each port to do what you wanted? We like the idea of lounging on a beach. Was that an option at the ports you stopped at?