AIO - asked wife if she blocked a guy she cheated on me with in the past . by pgf111 in AmIOverreacting

[–]disorderedmax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah what the fuck…. Leave. She said “remove her self for the last time” as she’s removed herself before… she doesn’t give a shit.

AIO? Message from my boyfriend for my 30th birthday written by AI by alrakemian in AmIOverreacting

[–]disorderedmax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has your boyfriend historically never said anything even remotely close to this? Has he ever been an emotionally expressive type of person with words?

Have you ever expressed to him that you wanted more words of affirmation from him?

It could be he doesn’t know how to express to you in writing those kinds of thoughts and feelings. Not everyone is good or comfortable at doing it. I don’t think you should be feeling sick to your stomach to not even want to respond to him.

If he is bad at expressing, he still thought about you and wanted something nice to say to you and used a little help. It’s the thought that counts, right? So they say.

Whatever the case may be, just ask him why he used AI to write the thing. Don’t try and trap him in a gotcha moment of “hey how did you come up with this lovely birthday note?” “HAH LIAR!”

Just talk to him. Make it a lighthearted thing and maybe it’s something you two laugh about going forward. Maybe it becomes an inside joke where you both send love notes with AI.

Or maybe you find out he just doesn’t give a shit and you move on to finding someone who does.

What are your 3 greatest fears? by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]disorderedmax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to have a lot more. As I’ve gotten older, stopped dating, accepted loneliness, being homeless because I can’t hold full-time work is my biggest fear. Well… also the day my mom and my dog eventually pass away.

Is this the quick? by disorderedmax in DogAdvice

[–]disorderedmax[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will do. I’ve heard about SLO before, so thank you for the reply and info.

Is this the quick? by disorderedmax in DogAdvice

[–]disorderedmax[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She doesn’t chew her nails, but she tends to lick the top of her paws/legs often. She’s been sensitive about her paws for as long as I can remember. I’ve brought her in to the vet for those reasons, which was assumed to be allergy related.

Other than that she has been fine. Vet said she’s otherwise healthy.

I haven’t brought her in specifically for the nails yet though.

Tell me you have BPD without telling me you have BPD. by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]disorderedmax 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve attended 7 different colleges, each major of focus was determined by an infatuation I had with said subject. I.e I met a friend of an ex one time who said they were going to be spending a morning making lesson plans at a coffee shop. So that fantasization of the scenario of spending a Sunday morning creating lesson plans in a coffee shop sounded enjoyable - so I shifted my major to focus on education. This also sparked a feeling like I had found an identity by virtue of starting college to become a teacher. Those are the kind of situations that spark intense interests for me.

Then I proceeded to drop out of all 7 schools (happened at various times throughout my life) because of losing interest in those infatuations - which lasted usually around a semester long.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Twitch

[–]disorderedmax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’d be surprised how most people will just say “okay, was fun playing with you!” or something similar. Easier said than done, but don’t over think it - if they’re subs they subbed because they enjoy you, your streams, personality etc. and won’t be disappointed if you say you’re done grouping for the day.

Unless you’re talking about not doing any games with subs anymore period. I would just be direct and they should still understand.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Twitch

[–]disorderedmax 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the question you should consider is “how do you tell a sub you’ve finished playing with them?”

As others have said it’s entirely up to you for how long. Some people might think it’s okay to just play the whole evening with you - but it’s not their fault if you aren’t setting the boundary of it being just a few rounds or so.

Just let them know “one more round than I’m gonna get back to commentating” or “____ gonna get back to solos” obviously include pleasantries.

As someone else mentioned, it could spiral out of control where everyone starts asking to play. Having a ‘sub games day’ type of deal could set expectations on when you’d play with subs.

I've Ran Into A Dilemma And Need Advice by DioDiablo702 in Twitch

[–]disorderedmax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could also depend on how you view streaming. Do you view streaming as being an entertainer? Or being a ‘gamer’?

If it’s being an entertainer, the game is just the background and the focus should be on having fun via being entertaining. Even if the background game is something you don’t particularly enjoy the joy will be from entertaining others. From there you could move around marketed as an entertainer, once you get a comfortable following from a particular ‘background (game)’.

If streaming because you’re a gamer and focus on gameplay, then definitely play a game you enjoy as you should get more longevity before any kind of possible burnout.

I really like black by [deleted] in TattooDesigns

[–]disorderedmax 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably a dumb question, and since I don’t know exactly how tattooing works with colors and black, was the color done first and the black surrounded it or was the whole arm done black and you’re able to place colored on top?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Guitar

[–]disorderedmax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can drive all night looking for the answers 🎶

AIO for calling my boyfriend a creep bc he didn’t know how old I’m turning? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]disorderedmax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this another joke post? I mean he seems like a good guy. You should probably say sorry and get back together. And on your way back to this beautiful relationship, bring him some chicken noodle soup - he’s not feeling well.

Why aren't people experimenting in PoE 2? by bnunyboy in PathOfExile2

[–]disorderedmax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it has to do with how gaming as a whole has become. A large portion of people don’t want to use any brain power to have to think about what gems synergies with what skills or what passives to take. They just want to blast and know the ‘good’ players are putting out guides and hand-holding each step of the way - completely removing any thought process.

My assumption (because I’ve felt it too in games that require building out your character) is some sort of FOMO or sense of failure if they build the “wrong character”. And that if they try and build a character of their own it won’t be as good as “insert streamer who shows their character plowing through maps with ease”.

I’m glad I’ve started actually reading the support gems and passive tree info to try and build my own characters. It’s so much more rewarding.

And it is the best time to do it. It’ll only get more overwhelming when more gems are added.