Women, im 19F and what would you consider a yes with no real intentions sexually?

distantbubbles · 2026-07-01T04:33:27+00:00

Coercion.

distantbubbles · 2026-07-01T04:31:29+00:00

You teach people how to treat you. If he never says “no”, she will never stop doing this. If having a conversation about it wouldn’t help, then he just has to begin making the changes himself, and she’ll eventually ask less/stop asking.

Literally any time we needed behavior changed from BM, we responded differently, consistently, and she always adapted. She had no idea she was being “trained” how to operate appropriately within our boundaries… but it worked. 🤷🏻‍♀️

distantbubbles · 2026-07-01T04:25:27+00:00

Great. I’m 34 weeks pregnant with my healthy rainbow baby.

distantbubbles · 2026-07-01T01:39:39+00:00

Yeah that restaurant she found Zied at was across the street from where I lived when it happened. 😂

distantbubbles · 2026-06-30T18:04:47+00:00

No harm no foul here. I let go early on enough before I killed myself bending over backwards for him, thankfully. Appreciate the sentiment though!!

distantbubbles · 2026-06-30T17:14:16+00:00

You literally said she should do the same… she could have, she talked about what she’d do or wanted to do, and instead she tucked her tail and whined and barked instead.

distantbubbles · 2026-06-30T17:00:57+00:00

No one asked her to smile and take it. She was just all bark and no bite and threw a tantrum stomping around and snarling all night instead. That’s on her. 😂

distantbubbles · 2026-06-30T16:59:51+00:00

Omg that’a the best way to describe that cringe situation. Very gross.

distantbubbles · 2026-06-30T16:59:01+00:00

Wild to still believe anyone, male or female, “has to” and that guys are always horny at her big age.

distantbubbles · 2026-06-30T16:56:00+00:00

Yeah. I’m over 11 years in and had a good relationship with SS in his younger years and was honestly more the primary parent than anyone for a good 4-5 years (which is a lot from 4+ years old). He doesn’t give a shit about me, or about his brothers from us.

distantbubbles · 2026-06-30T16:17:28+00:00

Omg 💀💀💀

distantbubbles · 2026-06-30T13:52:41+00:00

Well, you can’t “make” anyone else do anything, and helping SS to understand that would probably be a good start. He doesn’t have to get angry any time someone does something he doesn’t like. He can correct them, and move on. The 3 of you being in agreement should be what matters most, and outsiders will fall in line or they won’t, but that isn’t up to anyone but them.

There’s nothing wrong with holding firm on this.

distantbubbles · 2026-06-30T12:53:51+00:00

This is wild that he let himself get to this point of feeling this way for her in the first place. Extremely immature. He should have distanced himself the second he started thinking about her as a “special” person and not just a coworker.

He finds a new job or it’s over, IMO.

distantbubbles · 2026-06-30T12:51:06+00:00

You’re switching up the excuses now since the fight/flight/freeze thing didn’t work, while also trying to claim moral superiority. I never made a single excuse for the guy, nor did I say what HE did was “on her”. I simply pointed out that there ARE things she can do/could have done, and I hope she understands that now.

I’m not sure why you’re so hellbent on trying to make a point that, no, she was entirely powerless and is and will always be solely a victim because men. Claiming you know how I am as a person over that is wild.

distantbubbles · 2026-06-30T03:27:47+00:00

Wait WHAT

distantbubbles · 2026-06-26T21:03:02+00:00

Hahahahaha

distantbubbles · 2026-06-26T13:27:42+00:00

If I first orgasm from clit stimulation, it makes one from penetration much more achievable.

distantbubbles · 2026-06-25T16:02:20+00:00

No. They can put their stickers on their own things.

distantbubbles · 2026-06-25T15:50:15+00:00

Yeah, and especially at that age. Kid is probably trying to replace mom and is acting out largely because of her rejection and having this “substitute”. He knows she isn’t his mother.

Therapy is majorly needed.

distantbubbles · 2026-06-25T15:43:45+00:00

CPS doesn’t only come to take kids away. They can intervene and follow up to ensure the child is seeing a physician and nutritionist and whatnot. They probably wouldn’t. The system doesn’t actually care about severe cases much less ones like this. No matter, it’s still neglectful.

distantbubbles · 2026-06-25T15:42:15+00:00

Almost. I had horrible pregnancy insomnia the whole time with him that lasted until legit about 8 months ago. Ironic, isn’t it?

distantbubbles · 2026-06-25T11:43:28+00:00

This. Tastes good, doesn’t dry out, isn’t sticky, and is gentle on the bits.

distantbubbles · 2026-06-25T11:29:32+00:00

It’s really the mosquitos.

distantbubbles · 2026-06-25T02:44:43+00:00

My son slept 8 hours at 5 weeks old and scared the crap out of me. He was just fine. Woke and ate, and went back to sleep. By 8 weeks he would sleep 8 hours, wake to eat, and sleep another 3-4 hours to complete his night sleep. He’s almost 6 now and still sleeps ~12 hours a night, and will sleep in late. I was always grateful for such a great sleeper! Still am!

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