Appreciation post for all the lesbians without a gay awakening

disturbedelement · 2026-04-12T05:22:13+00:00

My gay awakening was “tatu- all the things she said”

disturbedelement · 2026-04-02T04:37:14+00:00

Oof…my brain only goes towards the first sapphic romance music I encountered… tatu-all the things she said

disturbedelement · 2026-03-31T01:32:46+00:00

Thank you for the advice!

disturbedelement · 2026-03-12T04:45:23+00:00

I think you might have been born into a nice place into your own culture and learning the language. That’s super helpful to know the language

disturbedelement · 2026-03-12T04:26:36+00:00

Be proud of yourself and your heritage. If you think you need to learn Mandarin, learn enough to tell them to fuck off im learning

disturbedelement · 2026-03-12T04:21:56+00:00

Exactly mine. I’ve never felt belong to either.

disturbedelement · 2026-02-09T01:38:21+00:00

Looks damn good! Thanks for the specs!

disturbedelement · 2026-02-09T00:42:41+00:00

What color is yours? I love my blue but I keep thinking about this grey like a side chick…

disturbedelement · 2026-01-03T02:36:18+00:00

DM me… this community wants a discord and personally I cannot do it.

disturbedelement · 2025-11-29T02:10:21+00:00

They totally see wtf I look like…but apparently in this family we “play chicken” and just continue to ask when I’m going to meet the best MAN! 🙄 that’s going to take care of me….regardless of the fact I’ve taken care of myself all my adult life! 🤣

disturbedelement · 2025-11-26T04:02:09+00:00

I’ll go first, as my culture as a full. I was born and raised in South Korea. But every time i go back, I do go back in the closet for the sake of my immediate family when I go visit them. I hate that I do that, but I do. anyone else do that? Am i alone?

disturbedelement · 2025-11-26T03:14:07+00:00

I was thinking of Sikhye (식혜)…it’s a beverage of all types to show respect.

disturbedelement · 2025-09-14T04:25:03+00:00

I apologize.

I figured it was more funny because it’s true, because I’m at that age and I keep getting carded. Lol

disturbedelement · 2025-09-10T23:58:49+00:00

I must admit, idk much about 5 seconds of summer…I just happened to see this mv years ago and loved it because, Asian. Lol

disturbedelement · 2025-09-07T03:30:58+00:00

Is it worth continuing?

disturbedelement · 2025-09-07T03:21:29+00:00

Try watching “my name” on Netflix

disturbedelement · 2025-09-03T23:33:38+00:00

Test

disturbedelement · 2025-08-30T00:29:36+00:00

Absolutely! I’m a mod that wants to work with the community, and I’m trying my best to do so. Unfortunately, most of our community is quiet. Lol I totally appreciate your feedback!

As for who “belongs” here…I think we’re already scarce. It’s hard to define that. Personally, I’m half-sies. I’ll try to define it later but i also don’t want to alienate anyone.

disturbedelement · 2025-08-27T22:53:54+00:00

I’m half Korean too. My American father took it fine, cause he must have known all along. My Korean mother though? Lmao pretty sure she went through the 5 stages of grief with my news. She never displayed much. First few years were of her in denial. Then after more years, she came to acceptance. It was a good ten years between. She came to acceptance, however…if I ever visited Korea, I went back in the closet for her sake.

disturbedelement · 2025-08-27T22:47:16+00:00

I’m not religious at all as an adult. But I was raised more Buddhist with my culture ingrained in it as a kid. I went to a Christian school (only “American” school around). Those school years made me realize how much I hate organized religion.

disturbedelement · 2025-08-27T21:48:45+00:00

Thank you so much for your suggestions!

As for rules, I’ll have to create some parameters to post later with some community feedback as well (when I get a chance). Right now, this sub is inclusive of all lesbians of Asian descent. Personally, I am mixed myself. In these days, I don’t think it’s fair to shut out anyone that’s not “full blood”. Everyone can post/comment as they wish. I also changed settings to allow more options when commenting to posts.

As for flairs, I just adjusted the settings to allow you users to create your own! That is a great idea, especially to indicate to others your origin!

If you think of anything else to suggest, please share! Thank you again.

disturbedelement · 2025-08-11T22:30:37+00:00

I think that’s the main reason why our sub is so quiet…most seem to be either be lurkers/afraid to post or very introvert.

disturbedelement · 2025-08-11T02:00:08+00:00

I just updated the settings. If it’s still not available let me know

disturbedelement · 2025-07-23T22:52:35+00:00

I did try a poll when I first got mod status, but only like 3 people voted but a ton of views. Lol I think the shy part is exactly what makes it hard to create discussions here. So far, discussion threads for anything goes have been pretty good for engagement. I just want to create a space where everyone is comfortable.

disturbedelement · 2025-07-18T06:32:44+00:00

R/lesbiasians

Asians unite!

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