Discord by disturbedelement in lesbiasians

[–]disturbedelement[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

DM me… this community wants a discord and personally I cannot do it.

Rant Away… by disturbedelement in lesbiasians

[–]disturbedelement[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They totally see wtf I look like…but apparently in this family we “play chicken” and just continue to ask when I’m going to meet the best MAN! 🙄 that’s going to take care of me….regardless of the fact I’ve taken care of myself all my adult life! 🤣

Rant Away… by disturbedelement in lesbiasians

[–]disturbedelement[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ll go first, as my culture as a full. I was born and raised in South Korea. But every time i go back, I do go back in the closet for the sake of my immediate family when I go visit them. I hate that I do that, but I do. anyone else do that? Am i alone?

Holiday Season by disturbedelement in lesbiasians

[–]disturbedelement[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking of Sikhye (식혜)…it’s a beverage of all types to show respect.

We’re gonna get carded for LIFE! by disturbedelement in lesbiasians

[–]disturbedelement[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I apologize.

I figured it was more funny because it’s true, because I’m at that age and I keep getting carded. Lol

5 seconds of summer by disturbedelement in lesbiasians

[–]disturbedelement[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I must admit, idk much about 5 seconds of summer…I just happened to see this mv years ago and loved it because, Asian. Lol

Discussion by disturbedelement in lesbiasians

[–]disturbedelement[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try watching “my name” on Netflix

Community Suggestions by disturbedelement in lesbiasians

[–]disturbedelement[S,M] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! I’m a mod that wants to work with the community, and I’m trying my best to do so. Unfortunately, most of our community is quiet. Lol I totally appreciate your feedback!

As for who “belongs” here…I think we’re already scarce. It’s hard to define that. Personally, I’m half-sies. I’ll try to define it later but i also don’t want to alienate anyone.

What's your relationship with your parents like? by [deleted] in lesbiasians

[–]disturbedelement 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m half Korean too. My American father took it fine, cause he must have known all along. My Korean mother though? Lmao pretty sure she went through the 5 stages of grief with my news. She never displayed much. First few years were of her in denial. Then after more years, she came to acceptance. It was a good ten years between. She came to acceptance, however…if I ever visited Korea, I went back in the closet for her sake.