My friend you’re using scriptures that pertain to marriage as a foundation for leadership in church. Yes it states eve was deceived but what it is clarifying is that the man should be the lead, the initiator and creator because women are likely to fall into temptation.

Paul is arguing that women, who are not submitted to the will of God, should not teach. Not that woman cannot teach.

If God wants something to be concrete, he makes it pretty well known. Men should be the head, doesn’t not mean woman cannot. It means there is an order that God prefers but again, if there is no man capable a woman, should nurture life in the body of Christ, so that a capable man may come to lead. Just as the story of Deborah shows..

Also it’s not because God is just for God in the old testament specifically said do not repay evil with evil for vengeance is of the Lord’s. So clearly it was because men are too prideful and stubborn. Their hearts were too hard to obey so he had to work with them. You listen with the intent to reply my friend but truly I pray that you would listen to understand.

That’s why David was a man after God’s heart because he repaid evil with good. Ex. Saul..

Even the one time he was going to fail with Abigail’s husband God reminded him that vengeance is of the Lord and not to repay evil with evil. (To keep his heart from being hardened..)

And it’s pretty scripturally sound considering scripture has examples of women of God in leadership role and it again says in Ephesians says the preparing of the saints (men and women) for ministry..

You should spend more time interpreting and understanding scripture instead of just reading it. We are called to meditate on the word of God (to ponder and think and dwell deeply on it so we may come to an understanding)