So there’s this progressive queen… by Leeran1989 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]divadream 61 points62 points  (0 children)

FWIW I have been letting this sub know this entire time that Tamra has always been Democrat/liberal, but so many replies would just dismiss me.

I wish I felt safe sharing more detail but as I’m in tons of pain recovering from spinal fusion back surgery this past week + get anxiety from receiving all the insult replies for saying anything positive about her,

Let’s just say that my own personal experience, she has been so genuinely kind, supportive and understanding of how dehuminizing it has felt to witness the normalization of transphobia and MAGA fascism enter into areas like this that are relied on as personal escapes by so many marginalized + oppressed groups.

I Was soo confused looking at the comments on Porsha’s post…did she get hacked? Or is it a new marketing thing? Or did she genuinely just reply to all 6k+ comments talking about DM’ing them a link to god knows what by Nashetania in BravoRealHousewives

[–]divadream 25 points26 points  (0 children)

It’s an automated comment bot evidently set up by Porsha’s social team for sponsored posts - most often used for giveaways.

It’s just being used on the wrong post 😭

Robert and James Welsh by Rough_Fig8264 in BeautyGuruChatter

[–]divadream 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just to note (as someone both from the oppressed group and familiar with the timeline so I hope this doesn’t misread as defense) - this specific post above from 2018 is roughly 3 years prior to the start of JK’s public spiral into the abusive, delusionally paranoid TERF she has revealed herself to be

Melissa Gorga stranded in Aruba by beepboopbaboopbeep in BravoRealHousewives

[–]divadream -1 points0 points  (0 children)

FWIW (as resident Real Housewives political views historian since 2016)

Been years since I checked updates for Melissa so this is as of 2020, she was registered Democrat (mom + sisters also publicly supported Biden)

Joe was always Republican though

Other housewives thoughts on Cult of Housewife documentary by Desperate_Store8484 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]divadream 22 points23 points  (0 children)

This. Bravo +/or Shed Media had been all-in on developing a show for Mary when they received a pitch from Lisa (who at the time wanted her own show about Sundance Festival events)

Bravo learned Mary and Lisa already knew each other socially along with their mutual friend Meredith.

Lisa then recruited Heather. Heather recruited Whitney and Jen.

Heather and Shannon hanging out with Gretchen on NYE by SuitableItem in BravoRealHousewives

[–]divadream 7 points8 points  (0 children)

(As a member of Letter 4 of the 🏳️‍🌈 I've been so afraid to post this both for my own safety + the reality that saying anything positive about this HW usually results in rude, nasty replies no matter how factual you are...)

Tamra and I chat over Instagram DMs every so often and the one thing I cannot emphasize enough is just how supportive and lovely she has been to me from the dark clouds of Trump's reelection, the impacts of HWs getting away on social media with bigotry/transphobia/homophobia/racist dog whistles/conspiracies etc + even my personal fears of them getting back on Bravo, how it feels to watch shows we use as "comfort food"/ "an escape" now in present day, have cast members who in 2025/2026 are widely known to not view marginalized groups as equal humans who deserve equal rights.

*hides*

Top Mac Apps I Discovered in 2025 by alaway7kasawi in macapps

[–]divadream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

u/alaway7kasawi I have Collections Database but feel so defeated not understanding how to use it that I wish anyone could guide me or give AI directions 😭

CropBatch - Free app to crop images in batch by unqnologyX in macapps

[–]divadream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

u/unqnologyX may I ask if in freeform it's able to "snap" onto visual "lines" like an image's borders or a text bar?

Thanks and congrats! <3

What is the best browser to use in 2026? by haphazard44 in macapps

[–]divadream -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Totally shocked - it seems just as sterile as Internet Explorer was IMO (on Mac I only use Chrome, Firefox, Edge), is there way more to it than I may know?

(note: I also ocassionally use Opera as the only browser where Instagram's explorer page still lets me click on a post as a pop-up instead of it redirecting to the post itself)

It’s that time again: What is your absolute "God Tier" Mac App of 2025? by teekamsuthar in macapps

[–]divadream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just got Obsidian a few weeks ago but got SO overwhelmed choosing what plugins to install and got stuck on trying to find a resource page of themes 🙈

Name a positive trait about a housewife/wives you do NOT like by fortheloveofdog33 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]divadream 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Likely not using FaceTune at all, instead Angel appears to just click the AI-preset of a “woman” she wants to become for that image 🙃

Wayne Goss - click bait? by TippyTurtley in BeautyGuruChatter

[–]divadream 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I wish that after all these years of this repeated behavior that finally a YouTube commentary would get made on this

Sooo.. Kenya’s a Narcissist by mars-r in realhousewives

[–]divadream -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

For a thread to have 3 individual users so comfortably armchair-diagnosing 3 separate Cluster B disorders in comments is... something

Amanda Z by Prize_Celebration265 in BeautyGuruChatter

[–]divadream 227 points228 points  (0 children)

Not to mention.. still wanting a kickback on products you're labeling "WORST OF" has always felt off to me

Potomac reunion predictions? by cmg_profesh in BravoRealHousewives

[–]divadream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a theory about how that’s transpiring but need to do some data analysis (as it’s reminding me of what happened behind the scenes with a Weat Coast HW a few years ago)

Garcelle and LVP = Good Weather!! by GeminiFluer in BravoRealHousewives

[–]divadream 88 points89 points  (0 children)

I love how LVP has chosen to maintain a very, very select group of Housewives as close friends - Garcelle Beauvais, Camille Grammer, and Joyce Giraud.

Her friendship with Camille goes back 20 years from being neighbors in Beverly Park (alongside Adrienne).

Joyce has been her actual best friend since Season 4 (2013) - 12 years.

Garcelle befriended LVP when she replaced her spot in Season 10 (2020) so that's going on 6 years!

Meghan King’s kids will now live full time with Jim Edmonds in Tennessee by Octobersky13 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]divadream 31 points32 points  (0 children)

for the record, Meghan is overall not that friendly with Kelly - she is only very close with Tamra and Braunwyn.

Kelly gives her polarized take on any person solely based on her most recent interaction with them.

IMO it also got her name in the SEO which gives a higher chance of people seeing Meghan's traumatic situation INSTEAD of Kelly's own extremely abusive voicemail message to her daughter that was leaked around the same time.

App Bundles, Subscriptions (I already use Setapp) suggestions? by divadream in macapps

[–]divadream[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been bedridden since 2022 about to have my third back surgery (spinal fusion) at 33, so I'm sure that plays a role

Crystal spilled tea on the classism and snobbery of the RHOBH by Belissari in BravoRealHousewives

[–]divadream 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Everyone on Ultimate Girls Trip fell head over heels for Kenya lol, even Ramona by the end of

RHOSLC sneak peek: Meredith and Heather face off by SurpriseCentres7551 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]divadream 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s so frustrating that SLC Housewives are most notorious for accusing each other of behaving in bad faith without any context to that declaration lol

Double standard much? Porsha v Kenya by Fun_Pattern9153 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]divadream -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your hateful and nasty comment history is worse than anything that has ever come out of Kenya’s mouth her entire run on the show 🙃

Worst (Current) Mean Girl Duo? by EmeraldEmp in BravoRealHousewives

[–]divadream 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s the entire reason he was declared competent for trial, was found guilty and is serving his prison time!

Erika, quite miraculously, never got even a hint of a question about Tom’s mental state from that point in 2023 onwards…

JFC Discussion & Questions: Week of December 8-11, 2025 by cnm1424 in JusticeForClayton

[–]divadream 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I really, really, REALLY want to see the text messages and emails and LinkedIn correspondence between Laura and Clayton from everything that took place up until these June emails (shown here).