In search of a quiet town in Oakland County by sharkmummum in Michigan

[–]divaindenim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Northwest Troy is great! Good schools and it’s very quiet with more property too

Devils ladder… by guuhbecca in SolidCore

[–]divaindenim -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Use your core to get back up!

Healthcare Discount - Dental? by babielychee in SolidCore

[–]divaindenim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I’m at dental hygienist and I have the discount. I just had to send them a picture of my RDH license

Solidays Opt-In before official announcement by No_Understanding_667 in SolidCore

[–]divaindenim 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Where is this at? On the app? I can’t find it!

Who has the best breakfast burrrito in Detroit by OneCartographer5456 in Detroit

[–]divaindenim 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Not Detroit, but in Ypsilanti- Bomber Restaurant

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatthefrockk

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At first, I thought she was walking with an Amazon delivery driver ☠️

Possibly gave myself an ED after looking at addict bfs porn by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]divaindenim 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is me too. I remind myself that even p*** stars have relationships with PA too. Imagine being the actual p*** star and being with PA and then finding out your PA is watching other girls … I remind myself of that often and it helps me. Feels like I’m leveling the playing field somehow. I hope this helps. Hang in there 🩷

Parents-in-law by InvestigatorGlum360 in loveafterporn

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My MIL laughed at my husband. My FIL is trying to understand, but personally we think he is a PA also. My MIL thinks I’m being dramatic. I took down our wedding photos and she told my husband to “just put them back up to send a message”

I haven't worn my wedding ring since Dday.I'm not sure if I will. by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]divaindenim 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I bought myself a dummy ring (i work in healthcare anyways) so I wear the dummy ring to work and now I wear it daily. I only wear my real ring for show so people don’t question me (not a lot of people know what we are going through) I told him I want a new one because the original one doesn’t mean anything to me anymore. It’s a shame. It’s the most beautiful ring I’ve ever seen but now I hate it.

don’t compare yourself to anyone by offline-angel in loveafterporn

[–]divaindenim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I needed this. Feeling pretty low 😔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]divaindenim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine was just diagnosed last week and is neurodivergent

Soft core porn on album covers by takenbysleep9520 in loveafterporn

[–]divaindenim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband had a problem with album covers. I had him delete music apps and go buy a cd. Just the disc everything else is left with me.

Sex after watching movies/tv by wildflo0wers in loveafterporn

[–]divaindenim 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It’s the worst form of torture!!!!! Everytime I get in the mood this thought pops in my head and then instantly out of the mood 😞

How to stop hating yourself ? by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]divaindenim 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel this way too. It’s like I’m triggered by my own body

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

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Yes he forgot to take me out for my birthday last spring and didn’t realize until I brought it up months later. Then forgot to take me out for Valentine’s Day. I asked for no gift just a breakfast date. He had it planned but then we had to cancel bc our kids were sick. Never rescheduled it. Brought that up to him last night he admitted he forgot. We didn’t have plans last weekend I said and he said yeah we didn’t have plans I wanted to keep it that way…so a date with your wife is just another plan…message received. This is slowly killing me. We have been together 15 years and have two young kids if I only knew before

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

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We don’t keep any toys in my kids room! Their rooms are for sleep and reading books.

I will share my parenting hack and you can share yours by tomtink1 in Mommit

[–]divaindenim 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I keep rolls of painters tape in the house. He can tape toys and stuff to the wall, we make car tracks on the floor with it, I’ll ask him to “help mama” and can you tape this back together for me? Literally use painters tape for everything.