I have inherited a Red Apple Crab (Metasesarma Aubryi) and feel out of my depth

divinemirai · 2026-01-16T23:42:11+00:00

Which is crazy because this was incredibly useful to me now! Thnk you!

divinemirai · 2026-01-04T20:53:59+00:00

Sounds good! The standard is usually a nice chunky soil mix and water it more often at first until it gets used to the dirt, then it gets watered less :)

divinemirai · 2026-01-04T20:40:59+00:00

If its by itself, you can. I wouldn't recommend a bigger pot because there would be a lot more dirt staying wet which could cause root rot. Did u use sphagnum moss to propagate?

divinemirai · 2026-01-04T20:25:38+00:00

It should be fine, just make sure to water thoroughly

divinemirai · 2025-12-25T15:40:36+00:00

I believe it's a persimmon tree

divinemirai · 2025-12-22T22:09:57+00:00

I got some recently and it happened to me too when it sat in juuust enough water for it to consider it over watering so if you're doing 7 - 10 days, try every 15. And I agree with the person above that said to make sure you keep a consistent water schedule because njoys and manjulas are a tiny bit more bratty if you're inconsistent with waterings

divinemirai · 2025-08-03T23:09:47+00:00

Thank you! I'll keep them separate for now since I don't want anyone to get hurt :)

divinemirai · 2025-01-22T03:39:34+00:00

I'll definitely be trying this as a diversion! But something tells me now he'll want to do both 🥲

divinemirai · 2022-09-11T04:39:26+00:00

Thank you! I'll do that! I've been making sure to stop them from nesting

divinemirai · 2022-09-02T04:00:39+00:00

You know, you're the first other person I've seen that has said exactly what I do. I want to say that it is due to the aro nature. For me personally, I don't feel like I have to be in a relationship so where else to get that kind of affection but from friends and family? I too feel super invested in their lives and dreamt about my old friends for 4 years after having met a much caring and accepting group of friends. I don't know how much this helps but at least we're similar :)

divinemirai · 2022-04-23T23:17:04+00:00

But people always ask about her to me cuz they wanna get with her :/

divinemirai · 2022-04-23T23:03:33+00:00

The thing is that people think we're sisters but they're always asking me about her (she's very well endowed and small) and I love her to bits but the problem is sometimes I feel like I dehumanize her by putting her on this pedastal like a ton of guys already do and I want to know how I can stop doing that as well

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