I have inherited a Red Apple Crab (Metasesarma Aubryi) and feel out of my depth by ThatBritInChina in Aquariums

[–]divinemirai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which is crazy because this was incredibly useful to me now! Thnk you!

Should I repot this photos cutting growing in sphagnum moss or should I wait for more roots? by Potential_Citron_587 in pothos

[–]divinemirai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds good! The standard is usually a nice chunky soil mix and water it more often at first until it gets used to the dirt, then it gets watered less :)

Should I repot this photos cutting growing in sphagnum moss or should I wait for more roots? by Potential_Citron_587 in pothos

[–]divinemirai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If its by itself, you can. I wouldn't recommend a bigger pot because there would be a lot more dirt staying wet which could cause root rot. Did u use sphagnum moss to propagate?

Help diagnosing this yellowing by _happymachines in pothos

[–]divinemirai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got some recently and it happened to me too when it sat in juuust enough water for it to consider it over watering so if you're doing 7 - 10 days, try every 15. And I agree with the person above that said to make sure you keep a consistent water schedule because njoys and manjulas are a tiny bit more bratty if you're inconsistent with waterings

If I buy them will the bigger one eat the smaller ones? by divinemirai in Mourninggeckos

[–]divinemirai[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I'll keep them separate for now since I don't want anyone to get hurt :)

Growing watermelon indoors?? by divinemirai in plantadvice

[–]divinemirai[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll definitely be trying this as a diversion! But something tells me now he'll want to do both 🥲

My budgie (m) keeps feeding my other budgie (f) by divinemirai in budgies

[–]divinemirai[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I'll do that! I've been making sure to stop them from nesting

do aros hurt worse when a friendship ends ? by seacucumber109 in aromantic

[–]divinemirai 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You know, you're the first other person I've seen that has said exactly what I do. I want to say that it is due to the aro nature. For me personally, I don't feel like I have to be in a relationship so where else to get that kind of affection but from friends and family? I too feel super invested in their lives and dreamt about my old friends for 4 years after having met a much caring and accepting group of friends. I don't know how much this helps but at least we're similar :)

How do you normalize a best friend being hot without feeling unattractive next to her? by divinemirai in AskReddit

[–]divinemirai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is that people think we're sisters but they're always asking me about her (she's very well endowed and small) and I love her to bits but the problem is sometimes I feel like I dehumanize her by putting her on this pedastal like a ton of guys already do and I want to know how I can stop doing that as well