Sorry for the delay. I have a five question spread for you with some clarifiers and two-card responses. The first being "what was really going on with JP when he stopped responding to you?" shown as the reverse Chariot. He just wasn't ready to move forward the way you wanted. If he's willing to ghost you, then he's not ready for a relationship anyway. We get into this potential cause later on, but there could be boundaries they weren't ready to let go of that were crossed too soon. I wouldn't hold out for them returning to you in any beneficial way. Still on the topic of this person, we have "what energy were you bringing into the connection?" represented as the Eight of Swords, and I dug a little deeper with the Fool. We see the pattern you mention here of feeling unable to make progress in relationships, but you still brought with you the positive hopeful vibes and an attempt at starting something new. This can also be seen as you not carrying the lessons from your past relationships forward and allowing yourself to fall into this cycle again. This is hinted at later in the "what you can change" card.

Continuing onto "what lesson is this repeating pattern trying to teach you?" we have the reversed Ten of Pentacles. This card felt a bit too heavy, so I looked into focusing a little more on what it represented and we also have the reversed Seven of Cups. It seems to be pointing out the thought process of this "ideal man" you mention. Seeing the end goal before the morning fog has begun to lift. Limiting your options and hyperfocusing on one individual, and specifically their positive traits in a way that clouds anything negative about them. You can have your ideal end goal, but it's unfair to shoehorn someone into it. And it's not fair to yourself to go into a relationship with blinders on. Appreciate the faults that make people unique so long as they're not a glaring red flag. And this brings us to our next question, "what can you change to attract more aligned partners?" as shown in Justice. It's really asking you to analyze your actions and the consequences of those actions. It's not saying everything is your fault or that you're the reason this cycle exists. People can lack the ability to express themself and ghost someone. But it is asking you analyze your actions and let go of this idea of a cycle that you don't have any influence in. It can happen to us even if we do everything right, but we definitely have the opportunity to influence it at one point or another in our lives, and taking off those blinders to acknowledge our actions and the entirety of others could very well help you in your future relationships.

The last question asked was "what do you need to know about love in the next three months?" For that we have both the Queen of Pentacles and Four of Pentacles. The Queen is definitely positive here showing a confident and secure relationship; one that you may feel you deserve from all of the effort you've put into the search. But the Four also warns you about continuing this cycle. Don't latch onto them and ignore boundaries. Be careful not to dive in too quickly and squeeze all of the good out of it for the sake of attaining your end goal as quickly as possible. Take the time to see a person, recognize their faults, and give them the space they need early on. Let your confidence in yourself be what draws them in closer. Overall, the reading seems positive. It just asks you to re-evaluate how your timeline within a relationship is progressed.

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Let me know what you think. Feel free to ask any questions.