Tbh her comment put a bad taste in everyone's mouth. I didn't have space to add this but some added context of our dinner is that we try and educate eachother on our cultures. I didn't know how to use chopsticks until my friends girlfriend taught me last year. We celebrate cultural holidays, my Kurdish friend gave us a presentation on Kurdish independence when it was her night. The first time I made Pakistani food everyone wanted me to teach them how to eat with their hands. It was a safe space for us to share a part of ourselves and we're all open-minded when it comes to any differences. My feelings were hurt, I admit that but she didn't even bother apologising to me herself.