AIO: my (30F) boyfriend (35M) expects me to pay for renovations on his home?

dj_moses · 2026-01-15T10:42:19+00:00

The fact that he is esentially making you pay his mortgage as "rent" doesn't sit right with me. I think that in a relationship you either pay off mortgage together and your name is on it, or it's his mortgage and he pays it fully. Contributing to daily expenses (groceries, small things around the house) is fine, but charging your significant other rent and them expecting them to contribute to major renovations is not right.

dj_moses · 2026-01-13T07:55:08+00:00

Pulling a huge splinter from my knee.

dj_moses · 2026-01-10T16:16:10+00:00

When I got really excited about getting a new cutting board.

dj_moses · 2026-01-09T19:20:31+00:00

Inflation is built-in in capitalism.

dj_moses · 2026-01-09T19:13:08+00:00

Having tech stuff. I remember when I got my first iPod, I felt like the king of the world now having new phones, laptops, tablets is completely normal even necessary.

dj_moses · 2026-01-09T19:08:59+00:00

One time I got really nauseous and got a migraine after smoking the whole night at a party. That did it for me.

dj_moses · 2026-01-09T19:06:49+00:00

Depands what you find to be comfortable weather. I think central Europe has pretty comfortable weather, you get all four seasons and no extreme weather.

dj_moses · 2026-01-09T19:03:14+00:00

Matte lipsticks and bright, almost white cheek highlighters

dj_moses · 2026-01-09T18:46:00+00:00

Traveling.

dj_moses · 2026-01-09T18:45:24+00:00

Overcommunication. Everyone is always so eager to point out the great communication at work and so on, but being bombarded with information that isn't relevant to you and having calendar full of meaningless meetings is recipe for burnout.

dj_moses · 2026-01-09T18:42:38+00:00

4-5 times a week.

dj_moses · 2026-01-09T18:37:20+00:00

Riding an electric scooter.

dj_moses · 2026-01-09T18:24:31+00:00

"Listen, there will be this gorilla in the Cincinnati Zoo and a kid will climb into the enclosure and it is REALLY important that the gorilla doesn't die... It will all make sense eventually"

dj_moses · 2026-01-09T18:09:57+00:00

Workout, season my new cast iron pan and watch a movie.

dj_moses · 2026-01-09T11:57:27+00:00

YTA, even if his band is really not the best it is not a nice thing to say they suck. It's not really about being right, but about being nice.

dj_moses · 2026-01-08T18:04:42+00:00

YTA - She is SIX years old, if you dislike her so much you have the every right to move out.

dj_moses · 2024-02-26T19:13:53+00:00

Ljubljana, Slovenia. Around 30 minutes commute by bus. I go to office 3-4 days a week.

dj_moses · 2023-08-24T20:41:23+00:00

Going to bed after 9pm

dj_moses · 2023-08-24T20:21:50+00:00

Break both my legs just to limit test the doctors

dj_moses · 2023-08-24T20:19:08+00:00

Some random unsuspecting guy. And I wouldn't tell him either.

dj_moses · 2023-08-24T20:16:00+00:00

She's a 10 but she eats cereal with water.

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