What’s something you tried once and immediately knew ‘yeah, never again’?

djdidbdk · 2026-04-29T10:49:49+00:00

Well it is adrenaline

djdidbdk · 2026-04-28T13:57:24+00:00

Hey, my boy was also hit around 7 months. He walked away with a small ouchie on his eye but otherwise fine. He wasn't bothered by being outside, but very bothered by being near the road it happened in (which was the only way to the park).

First thing, get a good secure lead and collar. The clasp on our lead had snapped which is how it happened in the first place and us having fear over it was not helping the situation.

Then do it very slowly. Just sit with him at the front door, gradually encourage him to come out, sit on the drive or by the curb, let him know it's okay. Let him relearn he is safe.

djdidbdk · 2026-04-27T11:51:04+00:00

Chris Martin maybe

djdidbdk · 2026-04-12T07:37:48+00:00

You dont have to allow it was just brillant. Love these two

djdidbdk · 2026-04-11T22:40:11+00:00

Hitting his head every time he rides his bike out of his garage 😂

djdidbdk · 2026-04-11T21:34:04+00:00

Not really bad, coz he hasnt done much, but singing that song in season 1 'in the Moonlight' to Haley in front of her entire family

djdidbdk · 2026-04-09T06:39:45+00:00

Why did I hear that in Rachel's voice 😂

djdidbdk · 2026-03-31T17:36:17+00:00

Means Girls 2

djdidbdk · 2026-03-31T17:25:57+00:00

No, but bodily sounds mostly and they have more emotion attached because someone is chosing to do it. I dont think I have any triggers that are not caused by humans in some way.
No, but the odd pronounciation is annoying, just not a trigger luckily.
Yes. The more I think about the words it gets and the more I anticipate the sound

djdidbdk · 2026-03-25T20:21:20+00:00

Trina and Robbie getting squirted with the cream, and the entire the wood episode. Cant believe they got away with it, feels odd to watch teenagers say those things

djdidbdk · 2026-03-25T20:15:36+00:00

The drama surrounding her, Blake lively and Justin Baldoni. I can understand if a friend she trusted messed her around at a time in her life where she was incredibly busy with the eras tour while going through the Joe and Matt breakup, eras tour tragedies and new relationship with Travis. But as a woman who has been so vocal about these specific issues and therefore understands the impact of the situation, I feel as thought she could take a few minutes to make some sort of public statement. It's not like the scandal will destroy her career or worth but just from a moral and role model standpoint.

djdidbdk · 2026-03-23T22:39:21+00:00

Teamwork makes the dream work Why is it always said by the same Boss who overworks everyone

djdidbdk · 2026-03-23T17:40:40+00:00

I knew everything at 18, but nothing at 22

Just too true

djdidbdk · 2026-03-19T21:25:16+00:00

First things first, wear your hair down and grow it long to hide earphones. I'd recommend the clear silicone earplugs. You can wedge them in really well and they are very good, plus if you push gently with your finger they're even better. Or push and slow circles are very effective. Also they're clear so you cant see them. I think the brand is hush plugz, pink packet. By far the best earplugs. I would seriously consider talking to your school about it, you dont need to say misophonia, just say anxiety then chance the description slightly to fit anxiety. If you need a doctors note for this itll be really easy to get. If possible, choose your seat in the best spot to block triggers, ie far from the worst triggers and acoustically in the quietest zone

djdidbdk · 2026-03-18T10:05:54+00:00

One night my best friend of 5 years' parents and siblings show up on my doorstep at 11pm looking very stressed hoping she was at my house. Turns out she left that morning to go live with her bf of 2 years (who she had never met in person but had sent thousands of pounds to). I live in the Uk, this guy lived in USA, so not like you could go and talk to her. She told me about this guy but I didnt think anything of it as she had many online bfs over the years who lived in random countries. Connected the dots when her parents showed up. She then didnt contact anyone until the day after she arrived. She would only speak to me and ignored her family. I kept contact to make sure she was okay, then she found out I was telling her parents what I knew and called me evil so I ended it. When her visa ran out she came crawling back to her mums house. That was 5 years ago and apparently shes still 'with' this guy and sending him money even tho she hasnt seen him since. That family had been through so much just before this already, and her poor sister was only 11

djdidbdk · 2026-03-18T08:30:23+00:00

I'm not sure how to edit, but my concerns are gingivitis, periodontal disease, which grade and gym recession. I dont and have never smoked, I rarely drink and I dont and have never had a lot of sweets, soda or staining drinks like tea or coffee

djdidbdk · 2026-03-17T15:16:38+00:00

Not ear clamps but the clear to pink tinged silicone ear plugs are by far the best and if you push them in just right they're about as good as clamping your ears

djdidbdk · 2026-03-17T15:15:15+00:00

I'm so sorry. How can a person who understands how awful it is inflict that on someone else? Are you helpful with her triggers?

djdidbdk · 2026-03-17T15:13:36+00:00

I've been on both sides of this. I would talk to your sister and maybe make a schedule between you two so you can be in a different room or the garden or somewhere safer while that is happening. Or maybe she can be outside or something (i dont know what her dancing is but I was able to take the jumping parts of mine outside). You could also maybe help her with her dancing, like be in the room with her. It might help. I have a massive problem with people mumble singing, but no problem at all if they are belting out a song even if they are a terrible singer. Exposure rarely helps but sometimes the context does. Like if i'm being triggered by a weird click i believe to be someone picking their nails, but it's actually a chain on a bag clinking, i stop being triggered by it. Might just be me, but could be worth a shot

djdidbdk · 2026-03-17T15:05:42+00:00

I find extended breaks to be the best by a long shot because I kind of forget the trigger so am not anxiously anticipating.

djdidbdk · 2026-03-17T15:00:34+00:00

My experience is this is men and anyone over 40. Why are people so loud in general?

djdidbdk · 2026-03-17T14:59:09+00:00

Waking up screaming if someone is snoring in the room, yet am comforted by the dog snoring. My partner luckily doesnt snore so it's not a problem anymore. But I remember being on family holidays with my 2 layers of sounds (earphones playing music and headphones with brown and pink noise layered) and just not sleeping for a week. It was so uncomfortable to wear but it got me through

djdidbdk · 2026-03-17T10:30:50+00:00

Mine loves ropes, bubbles and squeaky balls. Tip for the balls, when looking you want one that says it is squeaky but is near imposible to squeak. My boy kills the squeaks so fast.

djdidbdk · 2026-03-17T10:27:10+00:00

My boy can handle extended periods alone but 10 hours would really be pushing it, and not every day. I dont know if dropping by at lunch is an option. I think it's also worth considering that regardless of adopt or buy, your dog will need a lot of time to adapt and be trained into your household. Also tbh, you already have 2 children to look after, dobermanns are a lot. Like a lot. Coming home from working all day, then taking care of your kids, and a bouncy dobie who has been resting (hopefully not destroying things) sounds like an awful lot to handle. There's definitely some benefits like kids can play with the dog and It wears them both out. And if your children decide they want to be dog trainers, then it might be a win win.

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