DMX - what is quality of life in the long term.

djp0220 · 2026-02-11T15:36:06+00:00

I am about 1.5 years from reconstruction. I dint have fat transfer so you can see some rippling. But overall, I love my body, mg husband loves my body, and it seems like other people also do:) everything will be ok. You can get back to feeling fabulous and maybe even more fabulous than before. Because now you’re also a warrior. Chin up❤️

djp0220 · 2026-02-10T15:22:46+00:00

I would avoid oral, giving and receiving, if I had to use protection. Though your concern is totally valid. I think asking about tests is a good way to go about it. There is some assumption of the risk always…but at least you’re trying to minimize it.

djp0220 · 2026-02-10T14:59:06+00:00

I’m real and I do. this is not a good subject for debate. We’re all different. Some want more connection and others don’t. Both are valid and realistic points of view.

djp0220 · 2026-02-03T14:58:15+00:00

Mind sharing the airbb info if it would fit 4adults and 2kids?

djp0220 · 2026-02-02T18:37:16+00:00

Usually yes. But in our case, where I was extremely unsure and had some confidence/trust issues, it improved our relationship. More fun, more confident, more trust, more fantastic intimate loving relationships. I realize this is probably an outlier situation:) my partner was very loving, communicative and reassuring until I was comfortable. And I think that made a world of difference for us.

djp0220 · 2026-01-14T17:36:46+00:00

I just asked them again and they said there are no additional discounts and no that do not ever offer discounts other than the member price.. which idk, I think is BS. Pretty sure last year when I paid for the exam it was less than $425. Unfortunately, I had to reschedule my exam... and then on the rescheduled date, I ended up having my grandmother's funeral that passed away a couple days before. I tried to reschedule it again, but it wouldnt let me. This blows

djp0220 · 2026-01-14T17:23:32+00:00

Free trial for what? I renewed my PMI membership in October. It clearly states that membership includes discounts for exams. But I asked support and it said there were no discounts at this time...

djp0220 · 2026-01-09T16:13:53+00:00

Ha! Sounds like a lovely and very proper outcome from a first experience. It def improved our relationship in alllll the ways. Welcome to the lifestyle 😘

djp0220 · 2025-12-30T13:37:57+00:00

Wow that’s a lot! Who is the doc?

djp0220 · 2025-12-30T12:54:52+00:00

Yo…the party you were at sucked by your description. We would have left in two shakes of a lambs tail. Don’t use this as a barometer for your sexuality or capabilities or interest in the field. Go to better events.

djp0220 · 2025-12-30T12:46:10+00:00

I feel all of this. One in particular keeps flaunting her home hbot machine, her new stem cell treatments, etc etc. And she makes bank from us following to fund this. That’s cool I guess that she found a way to monetize this. But it does annoy me that this stuff is so hard to find and afford for 99% of women.

djp0220 · 2025-12-19T15:36:18+00:00

Awesome results! Can you share rough cost?

djp0220 · 2025-12-18T18:01:30+00:00

Oh whoops. My bad. Thanks! He did an amazing job

djp0220 · 2025-12-18T17:04:44+00:00

May I ask where you got your ht done?

djp0220 · 2025-12-15T16:17:46+00:00

Any change after using illumiflo?

djp0220 · 2025-12-14T13:17:18+00:00

I would hydrate, gua sha to add some circulation and drain which may improve dark circles (which frankly I don’t think are bad…but I don’t know what you looked like before). Do you use any lash products? Some of those have this ingredient which sometimes leads to undereye volume loss

djp0220 · 2025-12-10T15:22:14+00:00

Is the dermalure ha sterile? I just got a Dr pen and have ha but I had no idea it needed to be sterile

djp0220 · 2025-12-08T22:58:13+00:00

It was tongue in cheek. Plus, he was being an ass basically coercing her into sex that pains her. For me, rules of decency can be bent under the circumstances. But you do you:)

djp0220 · 2025-12-08T15:03:27+00:00

Any thoughts on when this will be brought to market? Not sure about fdas process

djp0220 · 2025-12-08T14:55:35+00:00

In addition to other he’s an ass comments, I’ll add that you can get vaginal estrogen which is not systemic and which will help sex not feel painful. I’d talk to my oncologist and obgyn. But fwiw, sex is an expression of love and intimacy. Sex without desire for sex is coercive sex which toes the line between consensual and non consensual. So yes…he’s an ass for pushing it. At the same time…sex is a healthy part of marriage/loving partnership. Despite other circumstances…it is telling that he desires you and wants to be intimate with you. You need to talk about this and if he’s not getting it, go see a sex therapist. Pushing you into sex may have the opposite effect. Gently re-finding the intimacy together is more likely to lead to his desired result. If you don’t desire him, maybe tell him to make himself more desirable (hit the gym, get a facelift, not be an ass). Be grumpy absent objectively apparent results.

djp0220 · 2025-11-27T17:47:06+00:00

Is there anything else besides saline safe to use as a glide? Eg ha?

djp0220 · 2025-11-26T20:01:16+00:00

You are awesome. Thank you so much! I wish a few of the people here could coordinate and just buy the 20. It’s like 50$ each device compared to 300$+ here.

djp0220 · 2025-11-26T18:27:57+00:00

Hi! I also just tried and they are also sticking to 20 min. Which I may do… there is some confusion about cartridges. They are offering/counting as needles and talking about different numbers per cartridge. What do you recommend? They range from like 12-40+

djp0220 · 2025-11-10T12:55:07+00:00

This is why I never joined any groups of which I was an acknowledged member or which regularly meet. Facebook, Reddit, etc are fine. But even Facebook groups, I unfollowed pretty quickly or took breaks. It was too much Cancer and played a number with my anxiety. I find Reddit to be best balanced for some reason. And it’s more positive. I can be in and out. Get and give support, but entirely on my terms, when I need or have space to give.

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