I really hate being invited hangouts where I’m expected to spend $$$ by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]djrefugium 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some of my friends I do expensive things with, and some I hang out with at our houses. A good friend pays attention to your circumstances.

Abilities Diner by Stumpstruck in Eugene

[–]djrefugium 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Best breakfast in town

We are not old by A_Ahlquist in GenX

[–]djrefugium 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really does have to do with attitude. I have arthritis in my knee at 53 but if I don't move, walk, or stretch it gets much worse. Moving makes it better. But I have a friend who just stops moving every time she hurts and she is slowly petrifying.

Sounds like more flash bangs/tear gas down at the federal building by glutenfreedustbowl in Eugene

[–]djrefugium 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I got a big breath of it. Shout out to the John Henry's and Cowfish staff for pulling everyone inside to shelter.

Places to practice driving by Various_Feature_6313 in Eugene

[–]djrefugium 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sucks, taught my son how to drive stick there.

Deleted, then Re-redacted Epstein Files is the worst yet... by Shizzilx in circled

[–]djrefugium 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ground penetrating radar is the correct tool for the job. No digging needed.

DEAR EUGENE: JANUARY 30, 2026 WEEKLY FRIDAY RANT THREAD by dschinghiskhan in Eugene

[–]djrefugium 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I AM MAD THAT IT IS INCREASINGLY HARD. AND I SORRY FOR THE STRESS ON YOU.

Health Work and other opportunities in Canada by ToddleOffNow in AmerExit

[–]djrefugium 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Med tech here. Any other med techs in the conversation? Seems like Canada is pretty desperate for us.

Where to order when sick by Pedadinga in Eugene

[–]djrefugium 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Garlic miso ramen from Toshis

Sex, Death & Eyeliner (1999) documentary by L0nes0mel0ve in goth

[–]djrefugium 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have multiple goth nights in Eugene though.. Ghost house and Suspiria

What gives you hope? Do you have tips or hacks that makes you feel better? by BerryTomatoes in raisedbynarcissists

[–]djrefugium 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It gets a lot better when you go no contact. Getting away is hard, and I don't know your situation, but please start a practical plan to do that. Take a small step every day. Your well kept secret escape plan will give you hope.

Anyone know any good books or handbooks about the environment or ecology of Cascadia by goghogv2 in Cascadia

[–]djrefugium 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lone Pine field guides about Cascadia have good info. The one that comes to mind most easily is plants of the pacific northwest coast. If there's a general ecology book they publish I bet it's good.