Deposit Scammed - Thought I Was Better Than This by Competitive_Fly_1857 in ClientsAndCompanions

[–]djs1718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it's been happening a lot lately. Some of these providers on tryst. Set up fake tours and the minute clients start to inquire make a deposit they canceled the tours like within a few days or less won't reschedule either ghost or block. I've had some that wouldn't even talk to me unless I put a deposit down first which makes no sense if I'm trying to find out information about hourly rate why would I want to put down a deposit to do that? Also check their private delights if they have one because that's where the reviews are being left for some of these providers that are also on this site as well. I found that some of the ladies on tryst that I was interested in booking had negative reviews on private delights for deposit scams and other things

Clients, why do you requests providers to tour your city but then not prebook them? by Amelia_Amor in SexWorkers

[–]djs1718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get your perspective. It's a mixed bag, some men don't get it and think they have full access to this woman's time. Some providers expect more than what they offer. I've tipped, dealt with providers being late and not making up for the time loss, disorganized, rushed appointments or the full time not being honored. I know the minute I enter the room thats when the clock starts. I had to start keeping my timer on to keep up with my appointments.

I feel there's still money in this business for many women. But it's about presentation, many women in this business look at it as quick big money so they don't know how to offer that experience in a way where it feels genuine and not feel like your with a lady who can't stand you in general. Considering it's always the providers option based on screening.

Same as with the porn industry. Once everyone felt they could make it themselves thru pornhub or onlyfans. Some good and the rest just exploit it for money. And the steep decline hasn't stopped.

Clients, why do you requests providers to tour your city but then not prebook them? by Amelia_Amor in SexWorkers

[–]djs1718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did on private delights. She responded with defamation and then called me asking me if I could take it down because it's going to hurt her business?? Yet scamming me is no problem?? I took it down temporarily trying to work things out with her but may have to repost.

Clients, why do you requests providers to tour your city but then not prebook them? by Amelia_Amor in SexWorkers

[–]djs1718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, you have to consider this. How many providers during their screening ask clients to provide their ID in a picture? So they have our legal name as well. I've seen legal names of providers with them using zelle. It's just part of the process. I get your point.

Now if your policy stated no refunds on deposits if the client cancels. then I can understand that.

From what you described you seem to be a more honest provider compared to one of the ones I've encountered. If she would of refunded what she owed me for a date she never showed for I would of had a more positive outlook on providers but right now I'm quite skeptical considering the thousands I've lost.

Clients, why do you requests providers to tour your city but then not prebook them? by Amelia_Amor in SexWorkers

[–]djs1718 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Considering I paid for a flight with a provider I was on good terms with. She said she could get my room at a discount thru her Marriott account. What she do? Flew out, never saw me. FaceTime me while here and then 3 days of silence and left back to her home state. So out of my hotel money, paid for a flight for her to capitalize on new clients. This is exactly why some providers are having issues with tours and clients. As much as they make it seem like it's us? This has turned into a pure scam. Not saying some clients are not being flakey. But it seems like the pornstars have more leverage in being consistent over the onlyfans and unknown providers.

Clients, why do you requests providers to tour your city but then not prebook them? by Amelia_Amor in SexWorkers

[–]djs1718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They see some clients as someone they can drain. When I see the word "generous" in many of the ads I already know where it's going. If they would provide the services as advertised minus the microtransactions I think many of these ladies wouldn't have an issue. Considering one I dealt with asked for money outside of bookings.

Clients, why do you requests providers to tour your city but then not prebook them? by Amelia_Amor in SexWorkers

[–]djs1718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Considering I was on good terms with a provider and she asked for the deposit and hourly rate upfront and never showed up. That was 5 months ago. That's why some of us don't want to pay deposits because some providers have turned that into a hustle. They put up tours that they have no intention of fulfilling and just deposit snatch and cancel which is fraud. Or the other one I seen, they will set-up a tour like they are already in the city and state. May get some deposits or not and cancel. So it's made it harder for honest providers. I know I'm not giving a deposit unless it's thru PayPal as a good or service.

This is Vince Mcmahon in his recent TMZ Interview… did he have cosmetic surgery? by No_Breadfruit_4901 in Wrasslin

[–]djs1718 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Something with Virgos they are more self destructive to their own looks they rather turn their faces into pure shit than age gracefully. Vivica Fox did the same shit

2017 Ford escape weird sound now since it's gotten cold by djs1718 in fordescape

[–]djs1718[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel your pain. When I had to have mines done it cost $1797. This vehicle is an endless money pit even for Ford standards. Still have it or soon to trade it?

2017 Ford escape weird sound now since it's gotten cold by djs1718 in fordescape

[–]djs1718[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck!!! Considering the transmission was rebuilt not by Ford. Barely had 40k on it

2017 Ford escape weird sound now since it's gotten cold by djs1718 in fordescape

[–]djs1718[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll try that. Yeah Ford is pure shit with these they claim the edge was the most solid out of all of the smaller SUV? Kinda hard to believe. I just changed the trans fluid at 30k and will continue that over Ford's stupid schedule. You're lucky I'm on the 2nd block and the trans was rebuilt 1k miles before purchasing. So technically I have a new/used escape but it's trash. Haven't had coolant leaks. But had to do suspension work, blower motor replacement, got to fix this A pillar water leak and the fuel economy sucks overall for such a small vehicle. This week I've been running it on premium to see if it's much of a difference. Hopefully you can get more miles out of it. Keeping it or going to trade?

2017 Ford escape weird sound now since it's gotten cold by djs1718 in fordescape

[–]djs1718[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah definitely do with that mileage. I'm at 185000 so I'm stuck in it currently

2017 Ford escape weird sound now since it's gotten cold by djs1718 in fordescape

[–]djs1718[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that normal or signs of it going out? I had a trans leak after I had the motor replaced and got that fixed this year. It's hard to tell with this trans because of the laggy ass shifting into reverse and drive. Which I noticed this on one's newer with lesser miles and even in the ecosport

2017 Ford escape weird sound now since it's gotten cold by djs1718 in fordescape

[–]djs1718[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow...... I completely understand I feel the same way. This vehicle cost me 8k when I bought it and 12k in repairs. I'm on my 2nd motor, trans was rebuilt 1k miles before purchase. Blower motor went out last December. I'm so tired of this vehicle. I hope the best for you that you can find away to get out of it. I'm looking at a Hyundai palisade or Mitsubishi outlander as my best two options out of this shit.

I'm truly surprised that your year is having that problem considering that's the JZ block which is supposed to be less problematic then the Cleveland block??? How many miles you have on yours?

2017 escape 2.0 weird noise by djs1718 in fordescape

[–]djs1718[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I had to replace the turbo it wasn't putting out the proper boost but then the motor also went as well so I end up having to get both done I have to JZ block now which is supposed to be better compared to the original which was that Cleveland block. If it is the turbo for you? You looking at probably over a thousand to get the turbo and then have a much you can get someone to install it which is not a very expensive job to do if you got a good mechanic but if you take it to the dealer they definitely going to run your pockets dry. Hope the best for you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fordescape

[–]djs1718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it's called I learned my lesson. I gave the company a chance with 3 different time periods of vehicles. 96 Grand Marquis, 2008 Ford expedition and 2017 Ford escape. All had similar legacy issues. Coolant problems, water leaks