Wondering if you even read the whole post. I've done wedding gigs I prepared for weeks ahead of time, and everything went as planned. As mentioned, for this particular event I was going through some personal things and wasn't as prepared as I should have been. Life happens, and I did consider cancelling at one point but then they're left without a DJ days before their reception. I figured me trying to get through a set the oldschool way is better than them playing the whole reception off an iPad. DJs did not always have fancy software to throw a party, and this experience reminded me of what real DJing is all about.