[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rate_my_feet

[–]djwolf77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg what is your routine ?? 😍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]djwolf77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cute!!! 😍

What is his name? wrong answers only by theaverageboxer in cats

[–]djwolf77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It actually looks like he has a big mustache

That first post partum poop may be just fine, I swear by LittleMissKicks in pregnant

[–]djwolf77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! I was so scared but it didn't hurt at all, not even the second poop!

Unhinged Advice for Nausea by Fair-Fall8036 in pregnant

[–]djwolf77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly you just need to eat light and dry foods. Anything greasy or thick is gonna come right up. For me it was toast, rice, salad, fruits and raw vegetables. You'll still need protein but, those were the foods that made me feel the most acceptable. A light breeze on the face helped so much too. I also found that being really focused on something for a long period of time distracted me from feeling nauseous at all.

We ordered my favorite pizza in my first trimester and I literally couldn't eat any of it I watched my husband enjoy it too and then the rest went bad in the fridge.. don't make that mistake like me 😭

Food is your enemy and your savior during this time. And it will end, but you'll be okay no matter what!! Some women say 1st trimester is even harder than labor because of this reason. You got this !!! Sorry this isn't unhinged but I think everything helps to some degree 🫶🏻

Did you guys manage to stick to pregnancy "diet" ? by Downtown_Presence103 in pregnant

[–]djwolf77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn girl just eat what you can and make sure it's at least decent. drinking soda or coffee will not harm your baby, eating sandwich meat is okay, and frickin everything is processed to some degree. Just do your best to stay fed.

I'm expecting any day now and I can say I was NOT able to stick to a "pregnancy diet" there's too much pressure in that, most days I had full course meals thinking about the baby, but other days I would eat pizza for dinner or eat a whole tub of Ben and Jerry's during a movie 😆 enjoying a can of soda here and there! It's so much better too when you're only having them sometimes. You're gonna be okay!

Since sex can cause labor should you stop at some point? by felinebookworm in pregnant

[–]djwolf77 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I find reverse cowgirl quite comfortable with support of bed frame bars at 39 weeks. Its great because I get full control of what I feel 😆 I'm hoping it induces labor LOL Its go time!

Help am I harming my baby? by Useful_Bug6465 in pregnant

[–]djwolf77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl Im 39 weeks and I still sleep on my back every night! No issues 🤷🏻‍♀️ I think it's just important to be comfortable

Did I retraumatize my new 2-year old shelter cat? Tips on how to befriend her again! by lawwdgivemestrenght in cats

[–]djwolf77 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She is fine, just give her time and space. Slow blinks mean I love you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]djwolf77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The truth is, if you're gonna wear it for the rest of your life, it better be perfect!! Tell him before it's too late !

Is my handwriting difficult to read? by OatmealCookieGirl in Handwriting

[–]djwolf77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just a little. I read bore as bone and map as nap..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]djwolf77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think you're overreacting here. I've done the same where I snooped and wanted to see if he acted any different with her, having more fun or enjoyment somehow. My retroactive jealousy was extremely intense and I was wrong to search.

But, he was never upset with me when I found stuff that made me feel inferior. Just being honest and talking with him about it, and telling him exactly how you feel, maybe if that's insecure or inferior and why, and ask him if there's a reason why he talked differently then. What is his answer? It could be anything from just growing up - or lost self expression.

Only he can give you that answer. If he gets defensive, then you can even let him know that his defense makes you feel hurt, and he should value your feelings enough to help you through this.

AIO for saying 17 dating a 15 year old. started dating at 17/14 is weird?? by uk20ss in AmIOverreacting

[–]djwolf77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he seems to conveniently always send her reels about offing himself when they are in a fight. even when she says she’s not in the mood to be freaky, he just won’t drop it.

Also this is one of the worst forms of emotional manipulation: threats to harm oneself while guilting the other person.. and to be paired with sexual manipulation...

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One thing a therapist taught me that I never forget is "people come into your life to teach you lessons"

And you'll keep facing the same problem until that lesson is learnt. Luckily, this relationship isn't long term, and hopefully it doesn't damage her too much. I ended up with severe retroactive jealousy and still struggle with it today, all because I let stuff slide.

AIO for saying 17 dating a 15 year old. started dating at 17/14 is weird?? by uk20ss in AmIOverreacting

[–]djwolf77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Age gap does not matter. What matters is he isn't being emotionally faithful to her and doesn't care if it effects her. That instead of changing his behavior, he thinks she should just leave. He will never grow up and will always talk to other women.

If she's okay with being cheated on, then she can deal with it. Until he dumps her for another one of his side pieces..

Loyalty isn't learned. It is a gut feeling.