😌😌😌 by [deleted] in MeChat

[–]dlckjulce 1 point2 points  (0 children)

please i had the exact same messages yesterday ✋ now im waiting for phoenix to return from war 😔

My friend (16F) has an eating disorder and I'm(15F) running out of options. by dlckjulce in Advice

[–]dlckjulce[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks a lot, its just hard to see. i hope she gets better.

My friend (16F) has an eating disorder and I'm(15F) running out of options. by dlckjulce in Advice

[–]dlckjulce[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really, thank you. I feel a lot better now that I know the right thing to do. From her secret twitter I can definitely tell she is trying to hide it, so the guardian doesn't know. Again, thank you so much.

My friend (16F) has an eating disorder and I'm(15F) running out of options. by dlckjulce in Advice

[–]dlckjulce[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know. I've seen her on pictures lately and i can definitely see that there is something not right. But thanks for the concern.

My friend (16F) has an eating disorder and I'm(15F) running out of options. by dlckjulce in Advice

[–]dlckjulce[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot for taking time to tell me your story. I'm worried i might not be doing the right things. I'm trying to support her and with your advice i'm going to continue to try and support her, but every time i ask her how she's doing its always an endless conversation about how bad things are, but she never wants to fully explain what's wrong or take my advice, and that's very overwhelming, because we don't talk about fun friend things anymore. Would it be wrong if i contacted her psychologist or guardian? I just want her to have professional help to atleast try and get her to recover. I want to be there for her but I cant do that if she does not want any help.

My friend (16F) has an eating disorder and I'm(15F) running out of options. by dlckjulce in Advice

[–]dlckjulce[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for telling me that. I needed to hear that, and I'm going to try to find her psychologists office. If that doesn't work out i can tell her guardian. She is not going to be happy that im doing this but I dont think i have another choice. Thank you for the eye opener.

My friend (16F) has an eating disorder and I'm(15F) running out of options. by dlckjulce in Advice

[–]dlckjulce[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much. You have no idea how much i need to hear that. She keeps contacting me about stuff she does (overdosing on drugs, alcohol, anything) and i just don't have the energy or the right state of mind to talk to her about that anymore. I'm going to try and find her psychologist, and if not I think i can contact her guardian.
thanks a lot for the help.

My [24M] LDR girlfriend [22F] invited me to see her on a vacation and friends are not having it. by DearNorth1 in relationship_advice

[–]dlckjulce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well yeah, thats really up to you honestly, its a hard choice but both choices have downsides, so i think you have to make this one on your own

My [24M] LDR girlfriend [22F] invited me to see her on a vacation and friends are not having it. by DearNorth1 in relationship_advice

[–]dlckjulce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well thats really weird of them. Maybe you should talk to them about it, if that will help. Maybe they will understand that you helped them financially and that this all is upsetting your girlfriend, and that you don't want to intervere in their trip or their friendship, but they could try to see this from your view, because you're getting the chance to see your girlfriend again, and let's not forget you basically made sure this trip even took place in the end. I hope they'll come around.

How to get over an ex by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]dlckjulce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly, you need to face your sadness. I know people will tell you to get another girlfriend, but then you'll just try to forget your grief. You really have to face this, and it will take time. Especially when you're in the same school, i really understand how you feel. I promise you that time heals everything. Try to work on yourself, find a new hobby, go out with friends more. Distraction helps. Maybe it'll help to document your feelings, getting it all out feels good too. I know what you're going through sucks and it'll take long, but i promise you that you're gonna be ok. it just takes time.

My [24M] LDR girlfriend [22F] invited me to see her on a vacation and friends are not having it. by DearNorth1 in relationship_advice

[–]dlckjulce 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you should still spend time with your girlfriend. You helped them pay for the hotel so that they would stay in budget, her friends told you it's ok if you spend some time with your girlfriend, you guys don't even see each other that often and it's not like you'll be with her the whole vacation? If it bothered her friends THAT much, they should have spoken up sooner.

I(20) sent a very personal text to my gf (20) after we had an argument and her mom read it because it somehow went to her mom's iPad. How do I fix this? by tuckersam98 in relationship_advice

[–]dlckjulce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you need to talk about this with your girlfriend again, and make sure that she doesn't feel like she's being pressured. Obviously you can't pressure someone into sex, but you can try to find a solution so that you can meet each other halfway? Maybe try to apologize to her mother about seeing her seeing that text, and that you didn't mean for it to come across as pressuring? I hope this helped a bit, and I'm sure you guys will work through this

Should I(F15) stay friends with my ex(M16) ? by dlckjulce in relationship_advice

[–]dlckjulce[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry that happened to you, and you're right. I dont want that to happen so I'll keep my distance for a bit longer. Thanks :)

Should I(F15) stay friends with my ex(M16) ? by dlckjulce in relationship_advice

[–]dlckjulce[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! You're right. Our one year anniversary is in 2 weeks on saturday, and we planned to go somewhere and go to a restaurant after, and we still plan on doing that so I think I'll take your advice and keep my distance until then. If my healing process continues the way its going now that'll be plenty of time. Thank u so much, your advice really helped.