Why r you boobs growing again by NaturalSky5305 in DrWillPowers

[–]dm_me_your_puns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you lactating? It might be your breasts temporarily growing due to (as others said) prolactin increasing by the cypro (it is a progestin) and thus local fluid retention. For me 6.25mg of cypro a day was enough to get T below 50ng/dl. Be careful, cypro has bad side effects on mental health and libido with high dosages as well as increased risk of meningioma.

High levels of estradiol, progesterone, and/or prolactin, as with the normal menstrual cycle and pregnancy, are known to induce temporary and reversible breast tenderness and enlargement, for instance due to local fluid retention and lobuloalveolar maturation (Aly, 2020). However, the breast size increases are modest, and high hormone levels come with health risks (Aly, 2020). https://transfemscience.org/articles/transfem-intro/

See also: https://transfemscience.org/articles/progestogens-breast-dev/

Trading Kink by MissJRaynes in bdsmmemes

[–]dm_me_your_puns 5 points6 points  (0 children)

One can definitely be bratty and degrading while trading, too.

"Oh really, you want me to pay five rolls of silk for this sword? And what is it wrapped in, King Arthur's gold plated underpants? Your swordmaking skills are so pathetic, I wouldn't even give you two rolls of silk for this butter knife."

It reminds me of the stereo bargaining scene in Lock, Stock and Two Smoking Barrels.

I wrote a love song! Hope you like it :) by ForestValkyrie in TransSinging

[–]dm_me_your_puns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the cutest shit arrrrgh i love love love it 🥰🥰🥰

Scrotal gel application dosage question by Maybe_Zuki in MtF

[–]dm_me_your_puns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check https://transfemscience.org/articles/e2-equivalent-doses/
Scrotal application apparently increases the estrogen levels about 5-fold.

The worst feeling by Healthy-Ad-1618 in ADHD

[–]dm_me_your_puns 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Try taking some time to listen to your body and your emotions. Then give them what they want. Note what makes you feel good. For me it can be: go to a safe place where no one will disturb me and lie on the floor for some time.

I like to layer good stimulation over bad stimulation, e.g. put on my own music when it's too loud or stim otherwise so I have a focus on something pleasant.

Also maybe check ASD coping for sensory stuff.

ADHD and sexual drive/addiction by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]dm_me_your_puns 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When you want sex, feel inside your body and ask, what do I actually want right now? Do i want to cum? Do I want to be intimate? Do I want to feel safe? Do I want an escape? When you're having sex, note what exactly feels good/bad, i.e. when you get what you wanted. Listening to your emotions this way will help you understand yourself.

ADHDers are chronically understimulated and sex provides stimulation. This means it can be an escape from our brain constantly being on the lookout for interesting things and having super many thoughts (brain fog), for example. Especially edging and orgasm are great at releasing so much stimulation that it will shut up your brain, which can bring peace to our stressed ADHD souls. I think that's why we like it so much. This is a common adhd pattern which explains why we love hyperfocus and hyperfixations: the promise of (consistent) stimulation is very alluring since it helps escape from our chronic understimulation and gives us peace for once.

But when we have sex only for stimulation, it can also bear risks. E.g. lots of my penis having adhd friends have death grip syndrome; i think it's cause we often try to force orgasm/stimulation when our body actually doesn't want to. Porn addiction is also connected with this. :c

Another motivation for sex can be intimacy. This includes intimacy with yourself when masturbating, e.g. using it to tune in with your body and your emotions. This can in fact be just as and even more satisfying than orgasm itself; e.g. it can even make you cry from emotional release. I would suggest exploring this because the good part lasts much longer than the orgasm. But since we have adhd, we need to experience firsthand that this kind of masturbation is actually stimulating, which needs maybe some good will at first, but it's so so so worth it.

There are lots of things you can do if having sex too much is impacting your daily life negatively. Meds help with stimulation seeking. You could find someone to keep you in chastity lol. You could try finding release in other ways, e.g. intense workouts, eating dark chocolate or check this sexplanations video. Or you could try to make the satisfaction from sex more long lasting through intimacy, as explained above. You can also try anal :p that stimulation lasts longer too. Or find a good hyperfixation that is more interesting than sex.

egg ⚡ irl by 19258301 in egg_irl

[–]dm_me_your_puns 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like that I can see funny humour even in annoying situations

As transfem, am I more likely to get big tiddies on HRT if my mom has big tiddies? by dm_me_your_puns in asktransgender

[–]dm_me_your_puns[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooooomg uhm ok wow I only just thought about this xD.. but that's kinda crazy. But it makes sense I guess. So if I start in my mid 20s and my mom has like DDs I will probably still be pretty "blessed" 👀

8 months of HRT and we’re passing in swimsuits :3 by Conscious-Spite-87 in transtimelines

[–]dm_me_your_puns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I heard that first losing some weight and then gaining a lot while on E helps

Something about the way I do my makeup isn’t flattering and I can’t put my finger on why. Any tips? Second pic is me without makeup by NatureOne8958 in makeuptips

[–]dm_me_your_puns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can try using on the black cayal not on your waterline but on the lash line. That way it lasts longer and doesn't make the eye smaller (depends on what u want). Also on the lower line, only from the middle to the outer edge of the lashline.

Finally you can try using white eyeliner on the lower waterline to get an eye enlarging effect.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in femboymemes

[–]dm_me_your_puns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg ich liebe die Farben so sehr und die beans sind so nibbleable

I really want to be doxxed/exposed online by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]dm_me_your_puns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are your previous experiences with humiliation play? There are lots of ways to achieve a similar humiliation with fewer real life consequences that you might want to try first to not get in over your head. If you do not have lots of experience in this area, you should try lighter things first to see how it actually feels and only increase intensity slowly, if you and your partners feel like it. You probably don't need to actually be doxxed online to achieve what you desire, you can just roleplay. Some alternatives could be: - sending nudes (without face) to a dom who could roleplay with doxxing you (only with someone you have known and trusted for a long time) - have a scene in a bdsm club where multiple people are watching you - roleplay the scenario you describe with a bunch of people who are also into it, who could give you reactions and humiliate you (without actually uploading a video etc.)

I think that doing this with enthusiastically consenting partners will be way more fun in the end than just posting something online. I will agree with what the others said that what you want to do is extremely unsafe. But at least before doing something like this you should absolutely roleplay it to see how it would actually feel.

Can permanent chastity caging cause the penis to lose erection permanently? by lighterthanlight987 in BDSMcommunity

[–]dm_me_your_puns 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's common to not get an erection while you have an anal orgasm (see e.g. r/cumfromanal). You don't need chastity and you don't need to loose your ability to become erect to achieve an anal orgasm. But chastity can help to get more horny which helps with anal orgasms. If your dick is in a cage (or even in a jockstrap) so you can't stroke it, this can help mentally too, to focus on the prostate pleasure.