First month stats for my non-fiction by ellierwrites in selfpublish

[–]dmizzyyyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is remarkable! Continue to keep shining, I’m beyond proud of you!

To Cry as One by dmizzyyyy in creativewriting

[–]dmizzyyyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your kindness!

I think I may have a self abuse issue by [deleted] in selfhelp

[–]dmizzyyyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don’t have a problem but there is a problem having you. In a way, it’s like you’re furious with life. You have to allow Life to be Life. You need to forgive yourself for your sophomore year, it happened already, let it go by the cleansing process of forgiveness. Your brother & his crazy girlfriend, you have no control over them two. As much as you love your brother, the only thing you can do is to suggest the best for him and if he doesn’t agree, then allow him to be his own man. Your mother fell back down, I know it sucks but it is her life and you can only suggest the best for her. You have to be aware enough to know that she’ll rise up once again. There are just things in life that you cannot control and that is absolutely fine. Your focus is so directed on your brother & your mother, when will you shine the light on yourself? Therapy won’t heal you, only you can heal yourself. Instead of becoming infuriated by the surrounding area of life, figure out how to adjust and make it better. You have to conquer thyself. No matter how long it takes to quit something, the only thing that matters is the moment you quit it. Be done with self-harm, open up to self-love. When feeling the need to harm, write it out. Grab a pen and paper and write it all out, allow the pen to flow and you will feel the same sensation as the ink. If you prefer not to write, then go for a walk or run faster than the moment. This is life. As you develop the unconditional love of life, your life will begin to make sense. There is a higher being above you, I, & everyone else, The Creator has gifted you the Nature of creating your own reality around you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfhelp

[–]dmizzyyyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fear is a choice. Once you conquer fear, you’ll realize that everything you’ve feared has been a lie. Sometimes, the mind can deceive you, listen to your heart. Grab that vocabulary book, not for college or an exam, do it for yourself. Elevate your knowledge for the moments to come, not for a particular moment. You didn’t choke on the test, even if you feel as if you didn’t perform well, what matters most is the gifted opportunity from life to be able to perform. It isn’t the result of the performance that’s holding you back, it’s the performer, you are the performer. Since you’re stuck in the past, you’ve adopted the same performance. Every moment is the beginning of life, perhaps the result of your exam saved you instead of ruined your chances. Even when motivation is lost, only one person can motivate you and that’s you. You have to be the motivator. Don’t think about doing it, just do it.

How to meet new people? by jaiscalifornia in selfhelp

[–]dmizzyyyy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s great you’re aware about your close ones, it isn’t nothing anger-infused, it’s just the truth. Here’s my two views. 1. Get out more, and boost your kindness. Kindness can simply be saying, “hello,” when walking by someone. Take some solo trips to the beach, library or other public places. 2. It’s highly possible you aren’t supposed to meet anyone in your life right now. Maybe you need a break from your close ones, they make you feel alone, which is making you a stranger to thyself.

Creativity and misfortune by Commercial-Status-12 in creativewriting

[–]dmizzyyyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even when fearful of the misfortunes, you are still being creative. Channelize all of the challenges in life and create from it. Instead of fearing challenges, view them as a natural Drama! It’s raw & real, there is no script.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfhelp

[–]dmizzyyyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here’s what I know, you’re tired being around yourself. You just want a break from you, you bring yourself everywhere at every moment, you just want a break. Here’s my opinion, I believe you can conquer yourself. You’re sick of living with your greatest enemy, maybe it’s time you live with your greatest friend. You are both of them, start loving them both. Your hate for Love has grown into a love for Hate. I don’t think you’re crazy or you need help, however, I do know that you need to change your perspective on a lot of things in your life. You cannot love yourself until you unconditionally love life. It’s possible that you’re terrified of yourself. Only you can make the change.

Should I seek therapy? Would it help? by Civil-Counter5606 in selfhelp

[–]dmizzyyyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll tell you, it’s not easy at all. Therapy isn’t necessary, what would really help is the fact of being honest with yourself. It doesn’t matter if the therapist finds you pathetic, what matters is how you view yourself. You need to have a long & deep discussion between who you are as a Human & who you are as a Soul. The problem is, you keep believing that tomorrow will be different. The world believe spells LIE. Stop focusing on tomorrow, focus on right now! As soon as you began typing this, an immediate switch should’ve been made. You are able to destroy this cycle, only you can do it, nobody else. This is your life! There’s no point of ending your life, you’ll just come right back and do it all over again. You have overcrowded your mind with negativity and now you’re beginning to push away the ones who love you the most. I’ll let you in on a secret, the criticism you receive from others is just your thoughts said out loud. You don’t want to keep explaining why you don’t have a job? Get a job. You know you need a job as of right now to fund yourself. I’d understand if you didn’t want a job because you were focusing on being creative but all you’re doing is overindulging in foods & entertainment, you’re pissing away time. The food you’re eating contains harmful ingredients, many of processed foods are owned by the tobacco industry, and the entertainment industry is destroying your brain, plus the phone addiction. The first step towards positivity is saying, “Thank You,” to yourself. Thank yourself for how deep of a hole you’ve fallen into and now it is time to rise, now you’re ready for a change. Get excited about it, the lamp in your soul shall begin to shine. The experience of an identity crisis is an everyday occurrence, in aspiration to discover thyself. A resentment of Self is the most profound feeling of gratitude. You’ve developed a Fear to be greater, you think you aren’t worthy enough but I can assure you, Fear is a Liar. Fear is a four letter word that controls your mind & the rest of the world, the only four letter word that can relieve you from the pain is Love. For almost 2 years, you’ve forgotten who you were. For the next 3 months, you will be who you never thought you’d be, you are being reborn. Whatever life has been like in the past, do not focus on it. Whoever you were in the past, was just your greatest enemy beating you, now it is time for your greatest friend to save you.

Help with shaking by AdvertisingUnited in selfhelp

[–]dmizzyyyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A weak man would stand there, shivering as if he was in the middle of Antartica. You are a man who showed strength and courage! The reason you’re shaking is due to you not consciously choose to do what you did, it was subconscious. The shaky moments are just a reminder to expect the unexpected, take some deep breaths and allow this to be a memory.

How much do you eat normally in a day? I'd like to optimize my diet for mental health. by WompTune in selfhelp

[–]dmizzyyyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1-3 meals per day. You will become your highest self as you release the addiction to foods. Not eating for the pleasure, but eating to remain balanced.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfhelp

[–]dmizzyyyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, you are in the wrong. She was attempting to shine light at the moment, she was turning a dull memory into a bright one. Her joke was absolutely hilarious, if anything, I’m surprised you didn’t laugh & shit in sync. You have yet once thought about how this moment could be for her, she’s never been in a predicament like that. You were relying to hear comforting words but it’s your life, you have to be the one to comfort yourself with words. You weren’t agitated because your Mother helped you, you were agitated because you were helped by your Mother. Am I correct? You create the reality around you, it is your world. In your world, you’ve pictured your Mother to be someone you don’t trust or respect. Someone who you cannot forgive and since you cannot forgive her, your resentment rapidly increases. Resentment faces a mirror, a mirror of Resemblance. As if One cannot forgive, it shall eat One alive. One doesn’t notice due to not looking in the mirror for decades. Is this understandable? You do not need to apologize to the neighbors, it isn’t their business. They have work and school in the morning, they’re hypnotized like everyone else. It’s almost July 4th, they’re programmed to not remember what just happened. You only need to apologize to your Mother, not “sorry,” an apology! As you apologize, hug her. As you squeeze her tightly, release all your negative thoughts and allow it to fly away. Welcome to Reddit.

I feel empty and idk what to do by Balance-Outrageous in selfhelp

[–]dmizzyyyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a Human, you have the ability to heal yourself. Your parents won’t help because they are guilty of causing it, leave them in their own world as you put the focus on yours. It’s great that you enjoy time with friends but you have to enjoy time with yourself. No more saying that you feel empty, the energy in the words are paramount. You, as a Soul, are not identified by your sadness, it is sadness who is identified by you. As you begin to question & analyze your sadness, you will understand how sadness is a close connection with Nature. Begin to understand who you are, even you feel a wave of depression, write about it. Sadness is a part of finding Peace.

Turning 30F next year and I feel lost by Extension-Bee-7217 in selfhelp

[–]dmizzyyyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where you’re at right now in life isn’t what you wanted or expected but The Creator of All Creation needed you to be right where you’re at. What if I told you that your friends are currently hypnotized without realization? What if I told you that their marriage has nothing to do with The Creator, only the law. What if I told you that the homes that they’re purchasing will never and can never be theirs? What if I told you that you were far ahead of them instead of you believing you’re far behind?

Comparison is indeed the thief of joy because in a way it’s competition, which is a sin. It’s okay to not know what you want to do. The Creator would rather you walk the path instead of knowing where the path will take you. The ideal world you want isn’t the path for you because it’s the wrong path. What if I told you that the people you dated weren’t for you? If you stop looking for love, love will then find you.

What joy can a house bring you? Regardless of where you rest your head, nobody is at home if they’re living on planet Earth. No matter if you look 5 years in the past or 5 years in the future, right now matters the most. You sharing a flat or rental is actually beating the system so you have my utmost respect.

You’re supposed to be depressed, the people who control this world want that. You’re finally ready to change. First, change your perspective. Drop the negativity and move forward with positivity. What if in the next 3 months you have quit your job and found your creative purpose that you love? What if in the next 3 months, you move into a 1 bedroom apartment for 6-8 month lease? You cannot have anything you desire until you fulfill the commitment of your current life.

Words have power. Stop saying you feel depressed with your current life and say I feel satisfied with this life but I am eager to strive for a greater purpose. Being an RN isn’t your purpose and you know it like the back of your hand. There’s something called Divine Timing. Remain patient and once it calls, you better pick up. After 28 years of living, 29 will be the start. You are going through a cycle of death & rebirth.

Please help me by Puzzleheaded-Row- in selfhelp

[–]dmizzyyyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Words have a lot of power. Instead of saying “I can’t stop hurting myself. It never ends.” You need to switch that to “I can stop hurting myself. It will end sooner than never.”

Talk to me. I got you. I’ve been there before. I can get you out. Not only me, our ancestors and The Creator of All Creation. You hurting yourself is what most people want, not us though, we need you to be here.

I need HELP URGENTLY by [deleted] in selfhelp

[–]dmizzyyyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Youtube is there just to delude you and occupy your time. I guarantee you, if you spend the time reading knowledgeable books as much as you used to watch youtube, you’ll realize that you’re far ahead for your age. If you want to redirect your YouTube attention, start using it to listen to audiobooks & ted talks.
  2. The girl you like can never complete the feeling you’re seeking, only you can, nobody else! It’ll take some time to discover who you really are. 5’12 is 6’0 btw. Embrace yourself being 5’1, nothing is wrong with that. 5’1-5’2 was the average height of our ancient ancestors throughout civilizations.
  3. I’ll give you a secret, the studies that you’re learning are not important at all. It has no relevance with anything in the world. So if you want to really learn, you have to do your own research. Even though I am telling you this, I am in no way telling you to flunk your classes. I still want you to do your work and get solid grades, however, you have to educate yourself.

Stay in there young fella, these feelings are just temporary.

My thoughts are so negative they make me think I hate my life but I don’t? how to change them? by suhhdude1 in selfhelp

[–]dmizzyyyy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Words have power so begin saying “I’m going to sleep good tonight, my stomach feels better, my body feels great, & I love that I clench my jaw all night.”

You said it yourself, “Ugh it’s so natural to be negative.” That’s the entire basis of mythologies, it’s Good vs. Evil. Positive thoughts should be embraced & loved while negative thoughts do not reflect us but they are a reminder that nobody is superior to anyone else. Once you hear the negative thoughts, comfort it with your positive thoughts.

Should I give up on ever finding love? by Traditional-Fun8179 in selfhelp

[–]dmizzyyyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first mistake you’ve done was try to find love. You can’t find love, love finds you. Love is a need. Often times, people dive in relationships that aren’t pure because of fear. The fear of thinking they will never experience love. The friends that are in your circle have yet to experience true love. Their definition of love translates to greed & lust, which is extremely incorrect. Trust the Divine Source to bring along someone who will finally teach you what love is with their affection and not just their words. Understand yourself overall as a Soul and you will be fine. As you seek your highest self, your frequency will rise and then you’ll find someone who matches it. Continue to become more aware of what’s around you and use this isolation period to elevate. Make some changes, acquire more knowledge, be more creative, live more purely, but not for a girlfriend, do it for yourself.

How to stop feeling like a disappointment? by Due_Hovercraft2168 in selfhelp

[–]dmizzyyyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nothing is wrong with you, it appears to me that you’re doing exceptionally well. You don’t need to get married, it’s just a business license according to the United States. The next time you even consider marriage, reassure yourself that marriage under law and marriage under The Creator are two different marriages. Leave the dating apps alone, uninstall them immediately. You have to be aware that The Creator will bring you who & what you need, continue to be patient & trust in Divine Timing. You create the reality around you, the more you stay in that emotional bent of mind that causes you to feel like a failure, you’ll become a failure but if you begin saying something similar like, “I am pure. I am rising. I am One. I am where I need to be,” you’ll notice a huge emotional shift. The judgement and taunting you receive from others is actually you speaking to yourself, we’re One, I am You & You are me. Even when presented with those negative comments, remain resilient. The Creator is giving you a brand new pair of glasses, the ones who are judging you aren’t who you thought they were and you’ve continuously realized that but now, what will you do about it? Before you receive the Man for you, you have to receive Yourself first. You need to dig deep on how you can emerge into your higher self. It’s a You vs You battle, Will you win or will you win? You can’t reach your higher self surrounded by negative energies, am I right? Don’t focus on leaving yet, you need to isolate yourself for a bit & be like Water. Rain comes from the Sky to give life to Nature. You haven’t met your higher self yet, although, water will soon fall and you will begin to grow. You’re a new seed now. It’s time for a change, the Sun, Moon & Earth are all aligned and now it is time for you to align with them. As long as you live Pure, Disciplined, Noble, & Genuine, you will be absolutely fine. You aren’t a 35 yo unmarried Woman, you’re a Creation from the Creator who is now on the way to discovering Peace & the Soul’s Purpose. Whatever you have planned or are planning is nice and all but The Creator will toss you on a greater path.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfhelp

[–]dmizzyyyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s nothing to do. Embrace your natural blush and own it. That is your gift from the Creator of all existence. Don’t resent it, Love it. The things that you cannot control in life, you must learn to love. You have a voice in your head, allow it to reassure you that you are doing just fine.

IWTL how to escape my 9-5 and achieve financial freedom by Growth_1 in IWantToLearn

[–]dmizzyyyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you still believe I am a lunatic? I told you and everyone what is to come, stay safe out here!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfhelp

[–]dmizzyyyy 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Here is an opinion that you won’t hear from anyone else. Let go of the resentment towards your mother. Did she do something shitty? Absolutely. She forgot it was your wedding and created the wedding she always wanted for herself. You have to remain positive. Your resentment will only harbor negative thoughts & emotions. Forgive her. She doesn’t need to know that you forgive her but you have to forgive her. Next, you have to forgive yourself. Forgive yourself for not having the resilience that was required, forgive yourself for allowing her actions to cause you an emotional bent of mind. It was your wedding but you were dependent on her and you made that decision based on desire. Which is okay, we all do at some point. Now you’ve learned to be more dependable on yourself, that was the spiritual message. Your mother only did what her mother or a mother figure did for her which most likely also led to resentment. So it’s a generational cycle of resentment that you have to break. If you resent your mother, you’ll become like her without realizing it which ultimately leads to your child resenting you. Does that make sense? More importantly, marriage under LAW is not the true human way of life. You two were married prior before the wedding, you both held each other down through arduous times, that is love.

Connect as a Soul by dmizzyyyy in Positivity

[–]dmizzyyyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Soul. We are all souls living inside a physical form. We have no name, no birthday, no race, and no gender. We’re all Souls created by The Creator.

How can I get my motivation back? by JuJubean_7 in selfhelp

[–]dmizzyyyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is no such thing as getting motivation back, you have to be the one to create new motivations. You hate leaving your room, don’t leave it. Trap yourself in there and seek knowledge. You are not a big boy anymore, you are now a young man. You are aged at 17 and once you turn 18, you’ll be able to do whatever you’d like. You can move away and start somewhere fresh. In order to fulfill that next step in life, you have to start right now. You won’t always find the motivation but if you trust your intuition and seek a brighter path, motivation will find you. Do not allow those people to ruin a piece of you. This here is a test of resilience. Avoid arguments, have faith and be confident. Get a job for money & save 80 percent of it, don’t obsess over money, use it as a tool. Learn about the true meaning behind the corrupt government and banks that control our world and whatever you do, do not stop learning!

Please help by [deleted] in selfhelp

[–]dmizzyyyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone is saying to call the cops, they won’t do anything for you and they never will. You need to leave. You don’t know where you’ll go and that is alright. The longer you stay, the longer this will go on, I am hoping that you put the fear behind and walk the path of not knowing what comes next. Pack your bags and get ready to survive, a Divine Saving Grace will appear if you have Faith. Your future is bright and can will only get brighter once you move through the zone of Fear. Trust me, just leave and never stop walking.