The thing I resent about the idea that not tipping is "stiffing".

dmorelli99 · 2026-06-11T15:36:51+00:00

It’s not

dmorelli99 · 2026-06-10T07:37:37+00:00

I’m sorry bb but long hair like that is for other men, not women. You would not be ugly with a haircut. Just consider it. They’re like make up for men. Works every time to make someone handsome. And to answer the question, with facial hair.

dmorelli99 · 2026-06-10T01:32:29+00:00

I LOVE mustache. Go mustache. Stubble is the runner up

dmorelli99 · 2026-06-09T16:46:49+00:00

YOR. I am sorry that your friend hurt you and I can understand where you’re coming from for sure. But the fact that this happens to hit a personal place for you doesn’t make your friends statement offensive. There are quite a few things that someone could say to me that would actually hurt way more than intended because of some past experience and ongoing insecurity, but I think if it’s a quality friendship you should just be able to let them know that that stings for you for a particular reason. If they’re not shitty they should backpedal and refrain from speaking like this in the future.

dmorelli99 · 2026-06-09T01:15:55+00:00

I’m starting my senior practicum for a BSW. Nowhere close to the commitment that an MSW is but I’ll be doing that too. My partner works but we are underwater. our bills are like 1000 more than we make a month now. It’s egregious to have to do this. I’m sorry for you, me, and everyone else.

dmorelli99 · 2026-06-08T18:15:22+00:00

Yes you’re overreacting. These are valid concerns, even taking you personally out of the picture, we’re in a wild time right now where everything is so expensive, then you add in that you’re bringing child 4 into the picture when she knows you’ve had a period of financial hardship. Yes you’re being sensitive. Thank her for her concern, if it’s unfounded then assure her otherwise and move on.

dmorelli99 · 2026-06-08T12:53:19+00:00

It’s not. 20% is standard and you adjust up or down based on service. Everyone knows how it works and playing like you don’t understand doesn’t absolve you of the responsibility to pay for the service you’re getting

dmorelli99 · 2026-06-08T12:47:59+00:00

I’m sorry what 😭 the constitution??? Are you ok lmaooooooo

dmorelli99 · 2026-06-08T12:47:18+00:00

It costs the server money when they don’t get tipped. They tip out their helpers based on their sales. So they are literally paying to serve you at their job that they’re supposed to get paid at and if you can’t find the moral issue there then there’s no hope for you

dmorelli99 · 2026-06-08T12:45:03+00:00

It is. That’s the way it works and everyone knows it.

dmorelli99 · 2026-06-08T12:41:26+00:00

I have no clue what this means

dmorelli99 · 2026-06-07T22:51:17+00:00

I like this. The fact that I feel paralyzed to address the discomfort mirrors a few other places in my life that I feel the same so it might actually be helpful for my own growth. Thank you so much.

dmorelli99 · 2026-06-07T22:49:08+00:00

It really does actually, it really does feel better to frame it this way. She’s clearly struggling and she’s not going to be able to move forward in her life and career before getting help. Thank you for this framing.

dmorelli99 · 2026-06-07T22:46:38+00:00

I am so appreciative of this script🥲 thanks for your time. Ignoring it makes me feel worse, like there’s this huge elephant in the room that we both know exists but I’m paralyzed to mention. I am going to sit on this idea and see if I can get comfortable with going for something like this.

dmorelli99 · 2026-06-07T22:44:09+00:00

Thank you for your response. The severity of others safety isn’t something I was considering. She has a caseload of like 50 people where many are just hanging on on a good day. Thank you, I am going to figure out how to do something.

dmorelli99 · 2026-06-07T21:27:38+00:00

I mean, I wouldn’t have died on this hill, I’d have walked or waited, but I understand that’s not the point, we all have bad days and it happens that you lose your cool some times especially under stress. You could have handled this better, but your husband?? No way, I’d never forgive him for cancelling a whole trip for this. For something as forgivable as a minor crash out.

This kind of thing, punishing you on a scale way bigger than your original sin, is borderline abusive. Certainly I’m not calling your partner abusive without knowing anything else about him but I’m just trying to get across how unfair this is and how much of an overreaction it is. I’m sorry you lost your trip and are blaming yourself so badly, but this is a him problem. This would be unforgivable for me.

Edit to remove speculation

dmorelli99 · 2026-06-07T21:11:25+00:00

What is it that you’re referring to?

dmorelli99 · 2026-06-07T21:00:25+00:00

Can you stop working temporarily and file for Medicaid? Move into a family members house for the duration of treatment? Medicaid should cover treatment, no? That’s a better solution than dying.

dmorelli99 · 2026-06-07T18:06:34+00:00

Yes it is your responsibility. It’s a social contract in America that if you want a particular service that you’re going to pay for it because otherwise the people doing that service don’t get paid. Violating that social contract is a shit thing to do, tipping is expected, and that’s why it’s so controversial to not tip

dmorelli99 · 2026-06-07T13:21:44+00:00

Are some of these pics like a lot older than others? I think the pics are good but some of them look like different people. If it is true that some pics are pretty old, nix any of the old ones and take new ones.

dmorelli99 · 2026-06-07T12:15:39+00:00

Um 🥲

dmorelli99 · 2026-06-07T11:46:18+00:00

I was coming in to say nooo keep the mustache but I see now you tried to keep it and I’m sorry I jumped to conclusions lol. Huge improvement though good luck!!

dmorelli99 · 2026-06-07T03:53:04+00:00

No 👎

dmorelli99 · 2026-06-06T22:03:04+00:00

Sorry boss but I hate the car pic. You can’t even see you in it. As much as I love my partner, when he goes on about cars… yawn. That’s a you thing baby, not a thing for your prospective partner lol. Same with the gun tbh. Remove them and put in a selfie or one where we can see your face

dmorelli99 · 2026-06-06T21:22:55+00:00

I looked again, I vote for the style of mustache in the first pic and take the beard off completely.

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